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CaliforniaPeggy

(156,066 posts)
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 12:33 AM 20 hrs ago

Some news for all:


Update from my PET scan:

Here's the link to my post about the PET scan: https://www.democraticunderground.com/100220865668

I had the scan done on 12-16-2025. It was more than a week before I got the results, and they were not what I'd hoped to see.

The cancer in my right lung had not shrunk at all. But it hadn't grown, which is a positive note. Still, I'd wanted it to shrink!

And there were new findings: 3 lymph nodes outside my right lung had shown up. Two were considered suspicious for nodal metastases. The third one is larger and may be amenable to ultrasound tissue sampling if clinically indicated.

So there we have it. Needless to say, I have been intensely preoccupied with wondering where my path is headed. I really debated about posting on these unfortunate developments, esp. at this time of year. But all of you have been so supportive! I really need it now.

As before, I will give each of you a recommendation after I've read what you wrote. I appreciate all of you!
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Some news for all: (Original Post) CaliforniaPeggy 20 hrs ago OP
Oh, Peggy blogslug 20 hrs ago #1
Lousy SuzyandPuffpuff 20 hrs ago #2
Peggy, you already know that we're with you and if anyone can successfully deal with this, it has to be you Rhiannon12866 20 hrs ago #3
Don't ever hesitate to let us know what is going on with you. 3catwoman3 20 hrs ago #4
We're all here for you, giving you our best DU love and support Maru Kitteh 20 hrs ago #5
(((HUGS))) We are with you in every way. applegrove 20 hrs ago #6
Take each step as they come and we'll be here with you as you travel this path. Solly Mack 19 hrs ago #7
Peggy so sorry montanacowboy 19 hrs ago #8
Oh dear Peggy. Hugs irisblue 19 hrs ago #9
. regnaD kciN 19 hrs ago #10
So sorry you didn't get better news Bayard 19 hrs ago #11
i'm really sorry to hear this. orleans 19 hrs ago #12
Sigh. Hugs. Strength, and hope. electric_blue68 19 hrs ago #13
I'm so sorry Peggy choie 19 hrs ago #14
Not good news but I shall continue to think only positive thoughts. You can beat this. LoisB 19 hrs ago #15
I send my hopes for strength and healing for you California Peggy/ ShazamIam 19 hrs ago #16
Hi Peggy. people 19 hrs ago #17
Thank you for keeping us updated. rubbersole 19 hrs ago #18
No matter the time of year, please let us know how you are doing markodochartaigh 18 hrs ago #19
Hi Peggy stage left 18 hrs ago #20
Note to CaliforniaPeggy.. Permanut 18 hrs ago #21
Thank you for that reminder to the Universe! Seconded! niyad 10 hrs ago #52
Dang, Peggy, sounds like you are running into some bumps in your road. I'm so sorry.. Biophilic 17 hrs ago #22
Any time is a good time. BidenRocks 17 hrs ago #23
Oh dear Peggy, I am dashed for you that there is no shrinking, but am pinning all kinds of hope on the news that KitFox 17 hrs ago #24
I'm keeping positive thoughts for you Peggy. Buddyzbuddy 17 hrs ago #25
Peggy, a wise physician once told me... LuckyCharms 16 hrs ago #26
Keep on fighting my dear CaliforniaPeggy malaise 16 hrs ago #27
I'm cheering for your recovery, and believing in your incredible fighting spirit. Emile 14 hrs ago #28
positive thoughts going out to you, Peggy markie 14 hrs ago #29
Standing with you all the way peggy HAB911 14 hrs ago #30
We are here for you, Peggy. SheltieLover 13 hrs ago #31
Sending hugs and positive thoughts for your next livetohike 13 hrs ago #32
Positives. cachukis 12 hrs ago #33
Dearest CaPeggy 💙 Niagara 12 hrs ago #34
Positive Vibes heading your way, Peggy farmbo 12 hrs ago #35
What does your doctors recommend as the next courseof treatment? Hang in there. sinkingfeeling 12 hrs ago #36
Not great news, Peggy. But we know you're a fighter. Swede 12 hrs ago #37
Thinking of you often... PCIntern 12 hrs ago #38
My dearest California Peggy... Kid Berwyn 12 hrs ago #39
Staying positive does help. I pulling for you! You're on top of it and involved and that's a BIG plus. marble falls 11 hrs ago #40
If the news isn't bad, it's good. malthaussen 10 hrs ago #41
You are family to us all, especially those who have lost family to Trump-ism duhneece 10 hrs ago #42
Hugs and encouragement. murielm99 10 hrs ago #43
You are in my thoughts & I'm sending hugs & healing energy! CaptainTruth 10 hrs ago #44
So sorry Peggy it's not going better than expected KS Toronado 10 hrs ago #45
Continue letting us share this with you radical noodle 10 hrs ago #46
Sorry the news is not better. Stay positive and take it as it comes ms liberty 10 hrs ago #47
My dear Ms Peggy. Holding you in love and light. All possible healing vibes niyad 10 hrs ago #48
Am so sorry for you and this not so positive news.......just know that we are ALL here for you. a kennedy 10 hrs ago #49
I'm sorry to hear this, Peggy. milestogo 10 hrs ago #50
I just wanted to join the family here to wish you the very best outcome for you. bluestarone 10 hrs ago #51
Sending hugs and positive, healing vibes, Peggy. I'm so sorry the scan results weren't highplainsdem 10 hrs ago #53
Hope lives in you. Hope is a powerful force for healing. Be well CaliforniaPeggy 💚💖 Clouds Passing 10 hrs ago #54
(gentle hug) 🫂 mwmisses4289 10 hrs ago #55
Stay hopeful, CalPeggy. You are in our 💞 hearts. Polly Hennessey 10 hrs ago #56
Peace and healing to you. LuvLoogie 10 hrs ago #57
I wish you'd had happier results, but I know your medical team is still looking Trueblue Texan 10 hrs ago #58
Wherever your path is headed, we're on it with you, Miss Peggy. It might be longer than hoped for, Deuxcents 10 hrs ago #59
Thanks for the update Richluu 10 hrs ago #60
Sounds like it was good news in that the cancer in your right lung hadn't grown. HeartsCanHope 10 hrs ago #61
Hi Peggy, sorry for the late reply, Diamond_Dog 9 hrs ago #62
Sending love & light, Peggy - TBF 9 hrs ago #63
That sucks, but don't give up hope. Wishing you better news soon. Vinca 9 hrs ago #64
all of that awfulness bigtree 9 hrs ago #65
Love and hope to you, Peggy Easterncedar 9 hrs ago #66
We are all here for you dear Peggy. Grumpy Old Guy 9 hrs ago #67
Very sad news CP popsdenver 9 hrs ago #68
I have a lot of respect for you, CaliforniaPeggy. Dem_in_Nebr. 9 hrs ago #69
We are with you, step by step, day by day Wild blueberry 9 hrs ago #70
My thoughts and love 💕 for you.. bsiebs 9 hrs ago #71
Please continue to keep us posted. Laffy Kat 9 hrs ago #72
You're family, of course we want to know! Phentex 9 hrs ago #73
I hate this. bluescribbler 9 hrs ago #74
That's discouraging but not hopeless. pandr32 9 hrs ago #75
I'm sorry to read that. Things get complicated. MineralMan 8 hrs ago #76
Here's hoping you the best !!! Dave says 8 hrs ago #77
I'm very sure that everyone on this site loves you and cares about you. Tagrisso is a drug that is geared... NNadir 8 hrs ago #78
I'm so sorry to hear this CaliforniaPeggy. MarineCombatEngineer 8 hrs ago #79
Still hoping for the best for you. Your DU friends will spooky3 8 hrs ago #80
Thanks for the update mountain grammy 8 hrs ago #81
From one Peggy to another--so sorry to hear this peggysue2 8 hrs ago #82
Marathon not a sprint. mr715 7 hrs ago #83
Dear Peggy gademocrat7 7 hrs ago #84
Fight like you have for all of us. sellitman 7 hrs ago #85
My Dear Peggy Hekate 7 hrs ago #86
Peggy, you are a beloved member of this community. yardwork 7 hrs ago #87
I apologize for not recalling if this is a primary lung cancer or metastasis. Ms. Toad 7 hrs ago #88
Sending all positive thoughts your way!! chowder66 7 hrs ago #89
Take good care of yourself CaliforniaPeggy... spanone 7 hrs ago #90
You are a bright light in this world and an important cog in the universe. 1WorldHope 7 hrs ago #91
If you need support, as you say, you've come to the right place California Peggy! senseandsensibility 7 hrs ago #92
Oh, man. Sending hugs to you and prayers to heaven. Beartracks 6 hrs ago #93
Sorry to see that, dear Peggy dickthegrouch 6 hrs ago #94
I'm sorry. cate94 6 hrs ago #95
All the best, Peggy. Turbineguy 6 hrs ago #96
Your DU family is pulling for YOU! Omaha Steve 6 hrs ago #97
My dear Peggy, get well soon! GoneOffShore 6 hrs ago #98
Sending you good vibes IndyPepper 6 hrs ago #99
Oh no, dang it wendyb-NC 6 hrs ago #100
When my hubby was diagnosed with lung cancer, it was stage 4 and had produced a spot on his liver and lymph nodes. appleannie1 6 hrs ago #101
The Cancer Ledge... EarthAbides 6 hrs ago #102
Ask for local support Dear_Prudence 5 hrs ago #103
Big Hug proud patriot 5 hrs ago #104
Keep this. And keep it handy. calimary 5 hrs ago #105
Dearest Peggy, summer_in_TX 5 hrs ago #106
You have a life and Soul pwb 5 hrs ago #107
Dearest CalPeggy ... there's something to be thankful for in all of this FakeNoose 5 hrs ago #108
Love you and wishing the best for you orangecrush 4 hrs ago #109
Don't give up. joanbarnes 4 hrs ago #110
As someone who's stood in those shoes, but with a different set of circumstances... Miles Archer 4 hrs ago #111
Much love, good wishes and healing vibes dear CaliforniaPeggy Grim Chieftain 4 hrs ago #112
Peg I am saddened that you did not get the positive results you hoped for. Fla Dem 4 hrs ago #113
Remember, we're all there w/ you when you go to appts, to therapy sessions, to everything. You don't see us, but SWBTATTReg 4 hrs ago #114
Thank you for the update Peggy FemDemERA 3 hrs ago #115
Sending so much love evolves 3 hrs ago #116
Peggy, you are loved here and we all want only the best for you. hamsterjill 3 hrs ago #117
I wish you all the best, ED Evolve Dammit 2 hrs ago #118
I'm so sorry your results weren't more positive. Lonestarblue 2 hrs ago #119
Just reading this now. Hoping you have the best possible outcome. OAITW r.2.0 2 hrs ago #120
Sending Hope and prayers for recovery Flash953 1 hr ago #121
hey Ms. Pegster, no debate needed Skittles 58 min ago #122
When I was finally diagnosed with my Cancer. mercuryblues 15 min ago #123
Stay strong. Stay encouraged. We love you. ❤️ littlemissmartypants 7 min ago #124

SuzyandPuffpuff

(394 posts)
2. Lousy
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 12:39 AM
20 hrs ago

Sorry yr going thru this. Cancer is insidious.hopefully you're comfy with your medical staff. I hope you're not in too much pain and if Yu can find time to laff try watching comedians and comedy shows. Laughing is good for endorphin release I think. At any rate it's fun. Good luck

Rhiannon12866

(249,515 posts)
3. Peggy, you already know that we're with you and if anyone can successfully deal with this, it has to be you
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 12:44 AM
20 hrs ago

Meanwhile, we need to ramp up those healing DU vibes which you sure deserve!

3catwoman3

(28,514 posts)
4. Don't ever hesitate to let us know what is going on with you.
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 12:46 AM
20 hrs ago

Last edited Sun Dec 28, 2025, 06:24 AM - Edit history (1)

If the support of people who care about you makes a difference, you’ll have it by the ton here in our beloved community.

Wishing you strength, courage, and serenity.

Maru Kitteh

(31,208 posts)
5. We're all here for you, giving you our best DU love and support
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 12:51 AM
20 hrs ago

How strange that our bodies are at once our only home and also such strange and alien places at times. You have my warmest wishes for comfort and peace.

Solly Mack

(96,292 posts)
7. Take each step as they come and we'll be here with you as you travel this path.
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 01:05 AM
19 hrs ago

I love you, Peggy.

montanacowboy

(6,671 posts)
8. Peggy so sorry
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 01:08 AM
19 hrs ago

Stay positive it's important. Question your doctors and believe they are giving the right advice. Keep your DU family in the loop.

Bayard

(28,410 posts)
11. So sorry you didn't get better news
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 01:18 AM
19 hrs ago

Sending many good thoughts your way. You know we love you, dear!

orleans

(36,654 posts)
12. i'm really sorry to hear this.
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 01:19 AM
19 hrs ago

sometimes i wonder what the hell the universe is doing by adding these negative events in our lives and upping our stress levels --
especially at this point in time.

sending you a hug and positive thoughts and love. (and a donut for good measure)

people

(827 posts)
17. Hi Peggy.
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 01:42 AM
19 hrs ago

I hope your treatment and healing are underway very soon and that it won't be very long before you find out that it's all working. Take very good care of yourself. You and your team can do this!

rubbersole

(10,968 posts)
18. Thank you for keeping us updated.
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 01:50 AM
19 hrs ago

Sending positive thoughts and vibes your way. Hoping future test results are what you want them to be. Your gentle decency is second to none. We're thinking about you.

markodochartaigh

(4,940 posts)
19. No matter the time of year, please let us know how you are doing
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 02:00 AM
18 hrs ago

Positive thoughts should come to you all of the time, no matter the time of year.

stage left

(3,191 posts)
20. Hi Peggy
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 02:29 AM
18 hrs ago

I second Suzy Puffpuff's advice. Seek out comedy, comedians(Josh Johnson is a good one) funny movies and laugh as much as you can. I lost my husband during the worst of the pandemic, before there was any vaccine. I credit Bill Hader of SNL and his silliness as Stefon with keeping me sane. It can't hurt. Right. And keep taking your oh so beautiful photographs. I've never seen such sexy vegetables nor been so perfectly mooned Hugs

Permanut

(7,953 posts)
21. Note to CaliforniaPeggy..
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 02:47 AM
18 hrs ago

One day at a time you will get through this. There are thousands, hundreds of thousands, millions of survivors of cancer, including my wife.

Note to Universe: CalifoniaPeggy's attendance here is required for the foreseeable future.

Biophilic

(6,390 posts)
22. Dang, Peggy, sounds like you are running into some bumps in your road. I'm so sorry..
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 03:09 AM
17 hrs ago

I'm so glad you have such a wonderful family (including your one at DU) to support you and help you move through these challenges. Your photographs always make me smile and I hope the spirit that has produced them will continue to support you.

BidenRocks

(2,709 posts)
23. Any time is a good time.
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 03:15 AM
17 hrs ago

Holding it in makes things harder.
Thank you for sharing.

Go Science!

KitFox

(503 posts)
24. Oh dear Peggy, I am dashed for you that there is no shrinking, but am pinning all kinds of hope on the news that
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 03:24 AM
17 hrs ago

that miserable old tumor has not grown. The more information your team is armed with, the better they can tailor treatments that will kick the stuffing out of that damnable “c” word. If anyone can climb this mountain, it is you with all of your courage, zest for living and appreciation for all the beauty that surrounds you. Please never hesitate to keep us updated because we all care so much and want to collectively muster our healing energy and send it winging to you. I hope you are able to get some daily restorative sleep to help keep you strong and determined. Love and gentle hugs to you dear heart. 🩷🩷🩷

Buddyzbuddy

(2,060 posts)
25. I'm keeping positive thoughts for you Peggy.
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 03:27 AM
17 hrs ago

This is a marathon not a sprint. Everyday, every therapy treatment day, every testing day is different. I think the key is a good support system. Ask for help when you need it and never consider yourself a burden. Family members feel helpless and welcome the opportunity to be able to help in anyway possible. Even if it's just keeping you company during all of the appointments. I wish you a quick and painless process.

LuckyCharms

(21,519 posts)
26. Peggy, a wise physician once told me...
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 04:13 AM
16 hrs ago

"The mind lives where the body lives".

It's so important to try to maintain a positive attitude.

Receiving unfavorable medical news is so scary and isolating.

However, please remember that you have good friends who care about you as a person. Hold on to that. Hold on to the well wishes that you receive here, because people care about you...draw strength from that.

Do your best to embrace positivity while following your treatment plan. The positivity will help you heal.

You have always shown kindness here. You have always been kind to me. Now Dear Peggy, it's time for you to embrace the caring that is being reflected back to you now. Concentrate on this caring, and use it as a tool to help keep your mind positive.

You're strong. And we care. I care about you.

Emile

(40,393 posts)
28. I'm cheering for your recovery, and believing in your incredible fighting spirit.
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 06:04 AM
14 hrs ago

Lean on us, we're all here for you Peggy.

SheltieLover

(76,276 posts)
31. We are here for you, Peggy.
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 06:56 AM
13 hrs ago

I am so saddened to hear your right lung is not yet clear, but will keep sending healing vibes to you.

livetohike

(23,956 posts)
32. Sending hugs and positive thoughts for your next
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 07:05 AM
13 hrs ago

steps in obliterating this unwanted intruder. Your medical team will figure it out and the power of all of our good thoughts will carry you on your journey to good results.

Niagara

(11,421 posts)
34. Dearest CaPeggy 💙
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 08:16 AM
12 hrs ago

I believe that most of us would be intensely preoccupied with wondering where our paths are headed with this unfortunate news.


There's plenty of people here that love you even though we've never met face to face.


You've always been kind to others. You're appreciated and loved here. Please know that.


Sending healthy and positive vibes your way.

PCIntern

(27,957 posts)
38. Thinking of you often...
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 08:44 AM
12 hrs ago

Follow doctor’s advice: it’s the Best Odds approach.
Wishing you the best.

PC

Kid Berwyn

(22,765 posts)
39. My dearest California Peggy...
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 08:48 AM
12 hrs ago

When challenged by nature and circumstance, I try to remember we are blessed to be part of this:



Source: https://rubinobservatory.org/

Remember, my Sister and Friend, that in all the cosmos, there is only one YOU. You are a reflection of the What made this. And in every way that is good, You are perfect.

marble falls

(70,627 posts)
40. Staying positive does help. I pulling for you! You're on top of it and involved and that's a BIG plus.
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 09:46 AM
11 hrs ago

malthaussen

(18,376 posts)
41. If the news isn't bad, it's good.
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 09:56 AM
10 hrs ago

Recovery may take more time than you'd like, which sucks, but it beats the alternative.

-- Mal

duhneece

(4,473 posts)
42. You are family to us all, especially those who have lost family to Trump-ism
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 09:56 AM
10 hrs ago

My DU sister, I care so much about you.
I’m grateful for everything you have shared, the good, the bad and the ugly.

KS Toronado

(22,945 posts)
45. So sorry Peggy it's not going better than expected
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 10:12 AM
10 hrs ago

Still pissed off Gropenfuhrer and Musk killed so much cancer research in this country. Truly believe
scientists would find a cancer cure eventually.

radical noodle

(10,474 posts)
46. Continue letting us share this with you
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 10:13 AM
10 hrs ago

Friends just do that for one another. A friend of mine had a "cancer buddy" as she made her journey through all the treatments and ups & downs of recovery. Let us be your cancer buddies. Never worry about burdening us, we'll share that burden and make it lighter for you. Much love to you, Peggy!

ms liberty

(10,941 posts)
47. Sorry the news is not better. Stay positive and take it as it comes
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 10:18 AM
10 hrs ago

Sometimes the bad news is the precursor of good results. We love you and I know I'm not the only one sending you healing and hugs.

niyad

(129,375 posts)
48. My dear Ms Peggy. Holding you in love and light. All possible healing vibes
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 10:19 AM
10 hrs ago

headed your way. hugggggggggs. Your DU family is here for you. Lean as hard as you need.

a kennedy

(35,223 posts)
49. Am so sorry for you and this not so positive news.......just know that we are ALL here for you.
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 10:20 AM
10 hrs ago
🙏🏻 ♥️ 🙏🏻

bluestarone

(21,086 posts)
51. I just wanted to join the family here to wish you the very best outcome for you.
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 10:23 AM
10 hrs ago

It is nice to have like a second family that really care for each other. Please continue sharing any news you receive.

highplainsdem

(59,709 posts)
53. Sending hugs and positive, healing vibes, Peggy. I'm so sorry the scan results weren't
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 10:24 AM
10 hrs ago

what you'd hoped to see, but it is a positive note that the cancer in your right lung hadn't grown. I don't know how long you were on Tagrisso before the scan, but possibly more time was needed for the drug to help. And there are other therapies, which could have fewer side effects. I was just rereading your earlier health updates and saw nothing about surgery after you'd posted about being okayed for the operation in mid-November after you'd had the two tests you'd needed, and passed both. So I'm wondering if possibly the surgery is still planned, just postponed till after the holidays, with Tagrisso tried first, since its shrinking the tumor could make surgery unnecessary or at least simpler.

Apologies if I'd missed an update on the surgery.

Clouds Passing

(6,872 posts)
54. Hope lives in you. Hope is a powerful force for healing. Be well CaliforniaPeggy 💚💖
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 10:25 AM
10 hrs ago

Healing and comfort energies to you 💚💖

Trueblue Texan

(4,172 posts)
58. I wish you'd had happier results, but I know your medical team is still looking
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 10:44 AM
10 hrs ago

for a more effective treatment. You have a positive attitude which always helps in healing; you are surrounded by a lot of love and support which is very healing in itself. Whatever happens, and I hope it's all positive from here, you are loved and appreciated for all that you do. Peace and healing to you and your family.

Deuxcents

(25,394 posts)
59. Wherever your path is headed, we're on it with you, Miss Peggy. It might be longer than hoped for,
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 10:46 AM
10 hrs ago

But we’re here for you with prayers, positivity and encouragement for you and your family on this health and wellbeing journey. In this New Year that brings so much hope, ya never know what these great doctors and scientists will be able to do. 🌺

Richluu

(152 posts)
60. Thanks for the update
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 10:49 AM
10 hrs ago

We appreciate knowing what's going on. Cancer cells live on sugar, you've probably already cut that out! We all send you blessings!

HeartsCanHope

(1,518 posts)
61. Sounds like it was good news in that the cancer in your right lung hadn't grown.
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 10:54 AM
10 hrs ago

Sorry about the 3 lymph nodes outside the lung, but hopefully there is some way to address them without too much

discomfort for you. Sending lots of love and healing vibes, CaliforniaPeggy! You are in my thoughts.

Diamond_Dog

(39,690 posts)
62. Hi Peggy, sorry for the late reply,
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 11:03 AM
9 hrs ago

I’m sorry you didn’t get the news you were hoping for, but this isn’t anything that can’t be taken care of, either. Surgeon took out 12 lymph nodes in my right armpit when I had my cancer surgery and that was 18 years ago. It’s unsettling news, for sure …. I will keep good thoughts for you always.

TBF

(35,517 posts)
63. Sending love & light, Peggy -
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 11:06 AM
9 hrs ago

as a chronic health warrior, I know how unsettling some of the updates can be. I learned with a massive blood clot in my late 40s that each day is a gift. I hope your doctors are helping with pain control, so you can get out a bit and enjoy those days. I find walks with my dog to be very invigorating (well, when he doesn't pull me towards the squirrels and ducks!). We are here for you!

bigtree

(93,320 posts)
65. all of that awfulness
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 11:12 AM
9 hrs ago

...but still connecting with the things and folks who matter to you.

Clearly it's your love and care for others which makes your world go round, and that's such a beautiful thing. Love is a beautiful thing, Peggy, and you are very much love, and loved.

Keep the good stuff coming, dear lady.

Easterncedar

(5,441 posts)
66. Love and hope to you, Peggy
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 11:17 AM
9 hrs ago

It sounds like you are getting good care. May the next news be of a turn to the best.

Dem_in_Nebr.

(334 posts)
69. I have a lot of respect for you, CaliforniaPeggy.
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 11:31 AM
9 hrs ago

My sense is that you will keep on trying to find a way to beat this "thing". And if it wins, well, you have let go down with out a fight. In the mean time, peace, love and joy surround you and yours;

Wild blueberry

(8,106 posts)
70. We are with you, step by step, day by day
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 11:35 AM
9 hrs ago

Sending love and healing from my forest nearby.
All the best.
We love you.

Phentex

(16,685 posts)
73. You're family, of course we want to know!
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 11:43 AM
9 hrs ago

Your path is yours. We will be here for you. We will be here with you. Share with us whatever you feel like sharing but know that we will be here sending love and positivity over the internet

bluescribbler

(2,473 posts)
74. I hate this.
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 11:44 AM
9 hrs ago

I lost my wife to cancer sixteen years ago, just after Thanksgiving. I hate the journey she was on, and I hate the journey you are on. I wish there were something I could do for you.

pandr32

(13,746 posts)
75. That's discouraging but not hopeless.
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 11:48 AM
9 hrs ago

I'm sorry you are dealing with this. Please keep us posted about what you are undergoing to try to slay this beast and we will do our part and send love your way.

MineralMan

(150,565 posts)
76. I'm sorry to read that. Things get complicated.
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 12:10 PM
8 hrs ago

I have no idea what your best move might be. I don't even know what I would do. So, I'll just wish you the best and hope things work out as you hope.

Dave says

(5,315 posts)
77. Here's hoping you the best !!!
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 12:30 PM
8 hrs ago

While my cancer has not shrunk, it has not grown. I’ve been stable — no progression — for 7 years.

A friend of ours was diagnosed with Stage IV lung cancer. She, too, has survived without progression. In her case it’s been over 3 years.

So keep hoping! Treatments have advanced a century in just the last decade!! Could cures be around the corner for the bunch of us? They may be.

NNadir

(37,231 posts)
78. I'm very sure that everyone on this site loves you and cares about you. Tagrisso is a drug that is geared...
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 12:33 PM
8 hrs ago

...to specific oncogenetic mutations in the EGFR protein, some of which are single nucleotide polymorphisms, and others, Exon 19 deletions. It is generally not given without gene mapping of the tumor genetics, which suggests to me that the tumor genes are being monitored.

To me this means you are having top line care.

This technique of monitoring genes (and outgrowth of Clinton era support for science) places the battle against cancer on a new level.

I am not competent to say much more, other than we all care deeply about you and all hope that your prognosis will improve and that modern genetic tools and appropriate drug cocktails will bring you a cure.

All the best to our Manhattan Beach DU wonder.

MarineCombatEngineer

(17,577 posts)
79. I'm so sorry to hear this CaliforniaPeggy.
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 12:36 PM
8 hrs ago

Cancer is an insidious disease, one that doesn't care about race, creed, religion, what one's politics are, it's an all inclusive nightmare.

Thank you for keeping us updated and know that your DU family is pulling for you and your family during this stressful time in yours and their lives.
Sending thoughts, prayer, hugs and kisses to you and your family.

peggysue2

(12,372 posts)
82. From one Peggy to another--so sorry to hear this
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 12:54 PM
8 hrs ago

Cancer is an unpredictable beast but it can be defeated or tamed into a manageable, though chronic disease. My husband had a number of decisions to make with his initial diagnosis and plowed forward taking the advice of the surgeon and subsequent radiation department.

It's hard, scary and exhausting.

Here's hoping for many months, years of quality living which in the end is what it's all about.

Take care of yourself.

So glad you're keeping the DU tribe updated.

gademocrat7

(11,794 posts)
84. Dear Peggy
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 01:10 PM
7 hrs ago

Sending you a huge bouquet of hugs, prayers, support, strength and love.

We are with you on this journey.

💙🤗🙏

yardwork

(68,902 posts)
87. Peggy, you are a beloved member of this community.
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 01:30 PM
7 hrs ago

You have brought a lot of joy and happiness to literally countless people.

You are good people.

Ms. Toad

(38,127 posts)
88. I apologize for not recalling if this is a primary lung cancer or metastasis.
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 01:36 PM
7 hrs ago

I have a half-dozen friends and relatives with last stage cancer, at the moment.

My cousin is having some success at Mayo for treatment of her newly diagnosed lung cancer. Her second opinion facility. I always recommend getting a second opinion at a cancer center which specializes in your specific cancer. A second set of eyes is almost always helpful.

I'm sorry for your less than ideal news. I wish you luck.

spanone

(140,926 posts)
90. Take good care of yourself CaliforniaPeggy...
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 01:39 PM
7 hrs ago

Sending lots of love ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

1WorldHope

(1,839 posts)
91. You are a bright light in this world and an important cog in the universe.
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 01:43 PM
7 hrs ago

I adore you and I have never even met you. Life is very much a great mystery. All we can do in live in the moment that we are in and be grateful for it. A friend gave me a plaque that says, "We're all walking each other home." I thought that was a sweet thought. We love you CaliforniaPeggy forever and ever. 💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙

senseandsensibility

(24,208 posts)
92. If you need support, as you say, you've come to the right place California Peggy!
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 01:48 PM
7 hrs ago
I'll just go ahead and speak for everyone on this site: we support you! Sending positive thoughts your way, my friend.

Beartracks

(14,335 posts)
93. Oh, man. Sending hugs to you and prayers to heaven.
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 02:04 PM
6 hrs ago

I have a friend who's been undergoing some serious chemo for lung cancer which had been spreading to other organs. Her doctors have been closely balancing the chemo (originally by IV, but then via a kind of direct "wash" into the peritoneal cavity) with her bloodwork and her own health and tolerance, and they managed to shrink things down over the course of the year. I think she switches to a different ongoing treatment regimen -- maybe oral? -- in January. I know that different biologies and different cancers require specific approaches and customized treatment plans, but I thought I'd share that my friend has impressed her doctors with her grit and progress and outcomes thus far. All while still working a full-time job and being a family matriarch. If anyone can kick cancer's ass, it's her.

And your clear-headed strength in facing this battle reminds me of her a lot.

=================

dickthegrouch

(4,271 posts)
94. Sorry to see that, dear Peggy
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 02:06 PM
6 hrs ago

May you continue to contribute to our lives as we wish, in any way we can, to contribute to yours.

GoneOffShore

(17,974 posts)
98. My dear Peggy, get well soon!
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 02:34 PM
6 hrs ago

We're thinking about you here in Aix.
I read your FB post this AM while I was having my coffee.

IndyPepper

(60 posts)
99. Sending you good vibes
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 02:36 PM
6 hrs ago

Your DU family is here for you, Peggy. Thanks for sharing your journey with us so we can encourage and pray for you during this trying time. I've survived three bouts of cancer so I'm familiar with PET scans and chemotherapy. The truth is that there is a path forward, and treatments are getting more effective every year. I once asked my cancer doctor what I could do to help me make it through my ordeal and she said, "Try not to worry." Hard to do, but good advice. So, hang in there Peggy. We're all rooting for you.

wendyb-NC

(4,597 posts)
100. Oh no, dang it
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 02:36 PM
6 hrs ago

I will hold you in the light for a change that is nothing short of a miracle, for you. May you have the time to complete your fulfillment.
You are one of my favorite, must read posters, here on DU. I call out to the universe, the resistance and resisters, need Peggy!

appleannie1

(5,407 posts)
101. When my hubby was diagnosed with lung cancer, it was stage 4 and had produced a spot on his liver and lymph nodes.
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 02:41 PM
6 hrs ago

They said 3 months without chemo. Longer with it, maybe 8 months or so. He fooled them all. After chemo and radiation and another biopsy he had only dead cancer cells in his lung and the half dollar size spot on his liver was gone. None of his lymph nodes showed any signs either. He had 5 good years after that before he died of something else. Don't give up. Stay positive and fight the good fight.

EarthAbides

(417 posts)
102. The Cancer Ledge...
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 02:54 PM
6 hrs ago

After having been on the Cancer Ledge twice, I can relate. I have been cancer free for 14 years now, every year I move further and further away from the Ledge. Reach out to people who can help you back away from that Ledge. It is not going to cure you but it will really help deal with the anxiety that comes with cancer. I was creative with fabric during my chemo and radiation time. I tried to stay busy. This also helped keep me away from the Ledge. Another thing I kept thinking about was why is cancer treatment so barbaric, so prehistoric? This anger helped me get through the dark times and also helped keep me away from the Ledge. I wish you all the best, but I know it is hard. Keep reaching out, it will help, a lot.

Dear_Prudence

(1,031 posts)
103. Ask for local support
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 03:01 PM
5 hrs ago

if you need it. DU friends like me can offer some support, but we aren't hands-on. First time I had cancer, I had little support and had to keep it a secret at work because it was a new job (bulky jacket to hide radiation burns, snoozing in the ladies room during lunch break.) Second time I had cancer, I let the medical team know that I needed support. They hooked me up with counseling, a free workout class for cancer patients, a meal service, and other tangible support. (I am in remission.) Keep asking if your first attempt at asking doesn't yield results. I wish you all the best.

calimary

(88,917 posts)
105. Keep this. And keep it handy.
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 03:08 PM
5 hrs ago

This thread has a whole lot of love, support, and healing vibes in it. It’ll do you good on this part of your journey.

Hugs!

summer_in_TX

(4,024 posts)
106. Dearest Peggy,
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 03:19 PM
5 hrs ago

These days, the most amazing things can be done to save lives when cancer is involved. Even when it's metastasized into lymph nodes. I don't know what's available where you live, but M.D. Anderson in Houston does amazing cutting-edge work. My friend had an aggressive kidney cancer that had metastasized into some lymph nodes they discovered in removing that kidney. She went to M.D. Anderson for treatment and got the research doctor who had just completed the most recent clinical trials on a new treatment drug as her oncologist. Treatment was far from a picnic, especially with just one kidney. She couldn't take as many doses as recommended and had to be on dialysis for a few months after the chemotherapy. But five years later she is still here. I hope there is a cutting-edge cancer research hospital near you, or that you decide to come to M.D. Anderson. Metastasized cancer sounds awful. But I want you to know the hope that is out there.

In the meantime, I'm praying for your healing.

pwb

(12,446 posts)
107. You have a life and Soul
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 03:19 PM
5 hrs ago

God loves and welcomes. You have no worries Peggy. Peace to you.

FakeNoose

(40,048 posts)
108. Dearest CalPeggy ... there's something to be thankful for in all of this
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 03:46 PM
5 hrs ago

The good thing is that the medical professionals are doing a better job - even an awesome job - of finding things on MRIs and PET scans that they used to miss regularly. The technology is better, and people are being trained better too.

The sooner they find stuff, the sooner and better they can treat it. Please keep your hopes up and have a happy and joyful New Year.

Miles Archer

(21,567 posts)
111. As someone who's stood in those shoes, but with a different set of circumstances...
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 04:45 PM
4 hrs ago

...my heart goes out to you, Peggy.

I got my diagnosis, I had surgery, got the "cancer free" diagnosis, but am going in for different tests on Jan 8th.

"High Anxiety." That's been my last two years.

My wish for you is that you continue to find your strength, and peace, as you need it.

You have a lot of people here who care about you. I'm one of them. Stay strong.

Grim Chieftain

(1,167 posts)
112. Much love, good wishes and healing vibes dear CaliforniaPeggy
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 04:45 PM
4 hrs ago

You are not alone. Your DU family is with you.

Fla Dem

(27,407 posts)
113. Peg I am saddened that you did not get the positive results you hoped for.
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 04:49 PM
4 hrs ago

You know we are all pulling for you and in each of our own ways, praying for a path that will give you a happier future.

SWBTATTReg

(26,012 posts)
114. Remember, we're all there w/ you when you go to appts, to therapy sessions, to everything. You don't see us, but
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 04:53 PM
4 hrs ago

we're there.

Hang in there! You're our guiding light.

FemDemERA

(684 posts)
115. Thank you for the update Peggy
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 05:19 PM
3 hrs ago

No matter the news or timing, DU members care. I’m sorry it wasn’t what you’d hoped for, but happy that at least the one had not grown, hopefully your doctors can attack the others and better news will come.

Wrapping you in DU Love and Hugs.


One of my favorite quotes:
“You never know how strong you are, until being strong is your only choice.” - Bob Marley

evolves

(5,730 posts)
116. Sending so much love
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 05:32 PM
3 hrs ago

and so many supportive thoughts your way, my dear Peggy! You are a treasure and I wish you nothing but the best.

hamsterjill

(16,924 posts)
117. Peggy, you are loved here and we all want only the best for you.
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 05:35 PM
3 hrs ago

I have nothing profound to say to you except that I'll have you in my prayers - as is my practice for things for which I have no control.

I've read recently that 2025 was the year of the Snake. When we are all shedding our skins, getting rid of the old, making changes, etc.

The new year 2026 will be the year of the Horse. Forward movement, grace, intelligence, and beauty. I am holding on to that thought for so many things right now. I am hopeful that 2026 is going to bring goodness to the world, and it would only be fitting if goodness was bestowed upon individuals such as yourself.

I do (myself) sincerely believe that where medical issues are concerned, attitude is everything. I know you maintain a very positive outlook and resolve and I am certain that will serve you well.

Wishing you only THE very best!!!!

Lonestarblue

(13,200 posts)
119. I'm so sorry your results weren't more positive.
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 06:22 PM
2 hrs ago

But it is positive that the can er had not grown. I know it’s hard to be patient when you want to see results, but hang in there. You have lots of supporters here and good vibes sent your way.

Skittles

(169,310 posts)
122. hey Ms. Pegster, no debate needed
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 07:56 PM
58 min ago

post updates so we are with you in this fight! Yes indeed.

mercuryblues

(16,157 posts)
123. When I was finally diagnosed with my Cancer.
Sun Dec 28, 2025, 08:39 PM
15 min ago

I know it sound strange, but it was a sigh of relief. I finally knew what I was up against and was able to plan my course of action. Not to say it was easy. I was in and out of the hospital for weeks at a time, as my body adjusted to chemo, cancer and infections. It allowed me to get in the frame of mind to say not today, Satan, not today.

You will learn words you never knew existed. You'll even say a few you do know. LOL

Let yourself feel the anger and the grace. You will not meet a more caring and compassionate group of Nurses and Dr's. To me they are special to care for people going through Cancer.

Don't forget to watch cat videos. Lots and lots of cat videos.

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