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31st Street Bridge

(216 posts)
Tue Mar 31, 2026, 10:32 AM Yesterday

To all members of the Trans community ...

You have far more friends than enemies.
People you've never met care about you, will protect you and will show you love and forever stand by you.
Don't shrink from the hate; defy it, no matter your age.

Happy Day of Visibility, my friends.

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To all members of the Trans community ... (Original Post) 31st Street Bridge Yesterday OP
Yes, thank you! Tesha Yesterday #1
I despise JK Rowling!!! wolfie001 Yesterday #2
We see you. We hear you. We love you. Wild blueberry Yesterday #3
A giant K&R MustLoveBeagles Yesterday #4
+1000 k0rs Yesterday #5
+1000 LoisB Yesterday #6
A beautiful sentiment --- and a call to be better allies. 💕🫂🏳️‍⚧️ QueerDuck Yesterday #7
Thank you for this. Ms. Toad Yesterday #19
Exactly. It's exhausting trying trying to be a good ally... QueerDuck 23 hrs ago #20
Deserves many kicks. bluestarone Yesterday #8
Kick and Rec berniesandersmittens Yesterday #9
Unconditional support and love... bsiebs Yesterday #10
Another giant K&R. WestMichRad Yesterday #11
K&R Lifeafter70 Yesterday #12
Thank you and you too! Oneironaut Yesterday #13
And another. Thank you! mountain grammy Yesterday #14
Love this BaronChocula Yesterday #15
What a kind and thoughtful OP! yardwork Yesterday #16
Wearing transgender pride colors today at work. Aristus Yesterday #17
For my grandchild, and our family - WE WILL NOT BE INVISIBLE OR SILENT! n/t TygrBright Yesterday #18
I looked for a folk song "Do what you want to do, Be who you want to be" and no luck. Not what I remembered. usonian 22 hrs ago #21
The Cardigans "Step on Me" has those words, but it is about an abusive relationship, so I don't think that is the one generalbetrayus 19 hrs ago #22
Go where you wanna go lonely bird 19 hrs ago #23
Thanks. I noted it, and added my short version. usonian 18 hrs ago #28
You are welcome lonely bird 5 hrs ago #32
Hall and Oates MichMan 16 hrs ago #30
31st Street Bridge, I'm sending along your thoughts to my beautiful trans granddaughter. generalbetrayus 19 hrs ago #24
HEAR, HEAR Skittles 19 hrs ago #25
K & R Permanut 18 hrs ago #26
Kick! SheltieLover 18 hrs ago #27
Hear, hear!!! Beacool 16 hrs ago #29
I'm late to the party, but I wouldn't miss this chance to express my support! ShazzieB 14 hrs ago #31

QueerDuck

(1,706 posts)
7. A beautiful sentiment --- and a call to be better allies. 💕🫂🏳️‍⚧️
Tue Mar 31, 2026, 11:41 AM
Yesterday

Thank you for this. Messages of solidarity are vital for marginalized communities. However, true friendship also requires us to hold our own spaces to a higher standard. We can’t truly stand by the Trans community if we continue to tolerate language, "humor," misgendering, or photoshopped imagery that relies on gender-based ridicule just because the target is a political enemy. We undermine our own advocacy when we do that, or when we fail to speak out against it.

It is disheartening when those who point out this inconsistency are gaslit or told they are "too sensitive." If we want to be the "friends" this post describes, we have to stop excusing toxic tropes when they’re convenient and start listening when people tell us that certain language (no matter who it's aimed at) causes real harm.



Ms. Toad

(38,637 posts)
19. Thank you for this.
Tue Mar 31, 2026, 02:15 PM
Yesterday

I'm so tired of running across this crap on DU and other progressive spaces, calling it out and being cis- or straight-splained about how it is perfectly fine, as long as the target is someone we don't like - or that it is just calling out hypocrisy.

QueerDuck

(1,706 posts)
20. Exactly. It's exhausting trying trying to be a good ally...
Tue Mar 31, 2026, 02:58 PM
23 hrs ago

I can only imagine the toll of actually living that reality every day. It's deeply disheartening when various progressive spaces (the very places that should know better) end up silencing or dismissing the people who call out unfortunate double standards. It’s the "cis-splaining" and the hostility and the selective outrage that makes it so draining. It feels like some people are more interested in protecting a particular narrative than they are in protecting the actual human beings involved, or in acknowledging how hurtful it all is. I really appreciate you speaking up in support.

Oneironaut

(6,299 posts)
13. Thank you and you too!
Tue Mar 31, 2026, 12:46 PM
Yesterday

The fight for free expression and bodily autonomy extends to everyone. If they can control trans people, they will control everyone else next, in time.

Aristus

(72,187 posts)
17. Wearing transgender pride colors today at work.
Tue Mar 31, 2026, 01:24 PM
Yesterday

You are loved and you are valued, transgender people everywhere...

usonian

(25,313 posts)
21. I looked for a folk song "Do what you want to do, Be who you want to be" and no luck. Not what I remembered.
Tue Mar 31, 2026, 04:17 PM
22 hrs ago

Last edited Tue Mar 31, 2026, 07:39 PM - Edit history (1)

You get the message anyway.

Someone might find or remember the song.

ON EDIT:

I could hear it in my head, but couldn't place it.

Thanks to lonely bird.



Close enough.

Go where you wanna go
Do what you wanna do
Be who you are.

generalbetrayus

(1,858 posts)
22. The Cardigans "Step on Me" has those words, but it is about an abusive relationship, so I don't think that is the one
Tue Mar 31, 2026, 07:05 PM
19 hrs ago

you are thinking about.

&list=RD0VymvRU4B9M&start_radio=1

usonian

(25,313 posts)
28. Thanks. I noted it, and added my short version.
Tue Mar 31, 2026, 07:40 PM
18 hrs ago

Go where you wanna go
Do what you wanna do
Be who you are.

generalbetrayus

(1,858 posts)
24. 31st Street Bridge, I'm sending along your thoughts to my beautiful trans granddaughter.
Tue Mar 31, 2026, 07:20 PM
19 hrs ago

I'm sure she will appreciate them. Thanks much!

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