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What rule did you have in you school that students no longer have? Standing when answering a question. (Original Post) debm55 Monday OP
No t-shirts jayschool2013 Monday #1
Thank you jayschool2013, I remember also girls not being alowed to wear pants. debm55 Monday #3
Ha! We girls around 5th grade '65 especially in NYC Winters got Feisty! "Why NOT?!!" Within a year we were allowed, all electric_blue68 2 hrs ago #80
Girls were not allowed to wear pants. Diamond_Dog Monday #2
See post above you. so am I. Even in the winter--no pants. debm55 Monday #4
My school gave up on that rule after the 1968-69 school year. Eugene Monday #20
I was in HS when the rule change. We were so happy. debm55 Monday #22
My junior year in high school They allowed girls to wear pants but NO JEANS. We had to wear dressy slacks. Diamond_Dog Monday #29
Thank you Diamond_Dog I remember those days. debm55 Monday #48
67-68 girls wore denim under their flowing theatrical skirts in high school Brother Buzz Monday #24
Remember. We called them Granny dresses. and you could wear jeans underneath. Thank you Brother Buzz for bringing back debm55 Monday #25
We could wear them under our skirts when it was really cold. Also shorts under our dresses if we wanted to hang upside efhmc Monday #35
Girls had to kneel on the floor and show their skirt would touch the floor. flor-de-jasmim Monday #5
Yes I remember that. Thank you. debm55 Monday #7
I experienced that at my all girls catholic school. kimbutgar Tuesday #53
Woah! electric_blue68 2 hrs ago #81
Skirts had to be below the knee and no patent leather shoes. BittyJenkins Monday #6
Thank you Bitty Jenkins. i remember that. debm55 Monday #8
You got a "G" in Ms. Watsons note pad for chewing gum. Lochloosa Monday #9
Thank you lochloosa., debm55 Monday #10
Sitting at your desk with your hands folded. debm55 Monday #11
High school MoonlightHillFarm Monday #12
Thank you very much MoonlightHillFarm. Very interesting. debm55 Monday #14
A strict dresscode. redstatebluegirl Monday #13
redstatebluegirl. I remember that.and asking for permission to use the restroom. When I was in the lower grades you had debm55 Monday #15
Smoking was only allowed in the "smoking lounge". surrealAmerican Monday #16
I remember that, My HS had a courtyard where kids could smoke. debm55 Monday #17
As somene who hated the smell of smoke using the girls Lunchroom restroom in HS? Gak! electric_blue68 2 hrs ago #82
Only one A per lifetime of a particular English teacher. Grr! And subsequently GRRR! GreenWave Monday #18
Even if you really earned it? that is a shame. Thank you GreenWave. debm55 Monday #19
One more DUer old enough to be of the "girls had to wear skirts... 3catwoman3 Monday #21
Thank you 3catwoman3 and those vinyl seats on the bus were damn cold. debm55 Monday #23
We stood XanaDUer2 Monday #26
Thank you XanaDUer2 i so remember that. debm55 Monday #47
Sit quietly at desk, raise hand and stand up to answer questions. Proper uniform with skirt below knees TommieMommy Monday #27
I remember that TommieMommie. I went to Catholic grade school. And everyone sad in unison Good Morning Father_____ or debm55 Monday #45
Boys: No blue jeans or tennis shoes. Had to wear slacks and dress shoes. FuzzyRabbit Monday #28
Thank you FuzzyRabbit. I went to public JH and HS. We were still not allowed to wear jeans or tennis shoes. debm55 Monday #46
No sneakers allowed except in Gym Class. Golden Raisin Monday #30
Our Rule Went One Further ProfessorGAC Monday #36
Professor GAC , I haven:t heard of Hush Puppies in years. I liked them. debm55 Monday #43
thank you Golden Raisin. No jeans either until my last year in HS. Did you go to a Private School or Public school? debm55 Monday #44
Public. Golden Raisin Tuesday #50
Your jaw would have dropped at my HS. Specialized in Art & Music...we could wear within reason.... electric_blue68 2 hrs ago #83
Not a rule but Freddie Monday #31
In my school girls had Home Ec and boys had Shop. Golden Raisin Monday #37
True, my last year I was in HS The guys could take cooking and the girls could take auto repair--flat tires. oil , etc. debm55 Monday #41
I imagine my HS was the same before I got there Xavier Breath 12 hrs ago #75
Thank you very much Xavier Breath. The last year of HS we had a similiar class of skills needed for everyday life. It debm55 12 hrs ago #78
This message was self-deleted by its author debm55 Monday #42
I'm female, Freddie was a very beloved cat Freddie Tuesday #49
Sorry, about that Freddie debm55 Tuesday #51
That we could smoke on campus Picaro Monday #32
Yes, my HS had an area where the students could smoke. debm55 Monday #40
We couldn't chew gum in class, not that I was really into it surfered Monday #33
I never wanted to either. But if you wanted to chew gum to relax that would be annoying. debm55 Monday #39
My high school was like a medium security prison CanonRay Monday #34
Oh my. That's wasn't good at all. debm55 Monday #38
Pregnant girls could not attend school and had a special at-home curriculum. nature-lover Tuesday #52
Thank you. In my district they would marry, one girl I knew was a sophomore or you went to these homes for pregnant debm55 Tuesday #62
The girl I knew had to leave school but the father got to stay and go on as usual. nature-lover Tuesday #66
The one I personally knew left to the home. The father was a football player. debm55 Tuesday #69
I wasn't a smoker but CA high schools had a smoking section in the quad on campus Basso8vb Tuesday #54
I didn't smoke either but the school had a student smoking section. debm55 Tuesday #63
One of my seventh grade teachers tried to impose that "stand while answering" rule. malthaussen Tuesday #55
Thank you Mal, When our name was called , we stood ---Catholic school. debm55 Tuesday #64
A girl's skirt had to touch KT2000 Tuesday #56
Thank you KT2000, Yes , no talking in class and no passing notes. debm55 Tuesday #65
Having to copy a page out of a dictionary of you didn't finish your work kimbutgar Tuesday #57
Thank you kimbutgar.I remember kids having to that on the side blackboards too, I will not____________ a certain amount debm55 Tuesday #67
Old computers so just were in limited classes mvd Tuesday #58
Had to take typing on a Royal typewriter. No computers back then. Thank you Matt. debm55 Tuesday #68
We had to wear socks under sandals in high school. Wicked Blue Tuesday #59
HAHAHAHAHHAHHAHAHAHHA. Good for you Wicked Blue. debm55 Tuesday #70
Gym suits and showers SARose Tuesday #60
Thank you very much SARose, We had the blue one piece gym uniforms. After gym, the girls took a shower in the girls debm55 Tuesday #61
If you mess with Mrs. Mudd... Harker Tuesday #71
Oh no, did she get in trouble for doing that? She should have. debm55 Tuesday #72
No, when I was a kid, corporal punishment was a daily thing. Harker 15 hrs ago #73
Not that I'm aware of. sakabatou 12 hrs ago #74
A slide rule WestMichRad 12 hrs ago #76
Girls were strictly forbidden from wearing pants. We even played field hockey in little skirts as I recall. Walleye 12 hrs ago #77
Boy's hair standards LogDog75 11 hrs ago #79

electric_blue68

(18,441 posts)
80. Ha! We girls around 5th grade '65 especially in NYC Winters got Feisty! "Why NOT?!!" Within a year we were allowed, all
Wed Dec 11, 2024, 10:03 PM
2 hrs ago

seasons.

I enjoyed wearing a good dress, or a cool skirt, but pants were sooo comfortable. And get some nice ones, or cool jeans.

Eugene

(62,736 posts)
20. My school gave up on that rule after the 1968-69 school year.
Mon Dec 9, 2024, 04:39 PM
Monday

That was my kindergarten year. The principal announced the rule once,
saying girls in pants might trip. I never heard that again.

Diamond_Dog

(34,991 posts)
29. My junior year in high school They allowed girls to wear pants but NO JEANS. We had to wear dressy slacks.
Mon Dec 9, 2024, 05:23 PM
Monday

Boys, however, were wearing jeans to school since elementary school. Talk about an infuriating double standard! This was a public school, too.

Also I remember that you did not wear sneakers to school. You brought sneakers to school on gym day and changed into them for gym class.

debm55

(37,398 posts)
25. Remember. We called them Granny dresses. and you could wear jeans underneath. Thank you Brother Buzz for bringing back
Mon Dec 9, 2024, 05:05 PM
Monday

the memory.

efhmc

(15,023 posts)
35. We could wear them under our skirts when it was really cold. Also shorts under our dresses if we wanted to hang upside
Mon Dec 9, 2024, 06:05 PM
Monday

down on the jungle gym. Seeing those panties was a big nono.

kimbutgar

(23,460 posts)
53. I experienced that at my all girls catholic school.
Tue Dec 10, 2024, 01:18 PM
Tuesday

We’d roll up our skirts before coming to school and when we entered the building unrolled them. But some girls forget and had to do the kneel with the vice principal nun who was scary. She kept records and if you had 3 strikes she’d call your parents.

BittyJenkins

(590 posts)
6. Skirts had to be below the knee and no patent leather shoes.
Mon Dec 9, 2024, 03:23 PM
Monday

And of course no pants, but I did wear culottes!

Lochloosa

(16,432 posts)
9. You got a "G" in Ms. Watsons note pad for chewing gum.
Mon Dec 9, 2024, 03:34 PM
Monday

She thought she caught me one time and I showed her it was paper. I got a "P"

Algebra II. Loved that woman.

12. High school
Mon Dec 9, 2024, 03:44 PM
Monday

Girls had to wear skirts, no pants. The skirts had to touch the floor when kneeling.

Boys had to wear white t-shirts under their shirt. Shirts had to be tucked in.

Boys’ hair could not touch their collar.

At school dances, there had to be one foot distance between partners when dancing slow.

This was a public school n California

debm55

(37,398 posts)
15. redstatebluegirl. I remember that.and asking for permission to use the restroom. When I was in the lower grades you had
Mon Dec 9, 2024, 03:51 PM
Monday

to wait until your group went out.

surrealAmerican

(11,496 posts)
16. Smoking was only allowed in the "smoking lounge".
Mon Dec 9, 2024, 03:59 PM
Monday

My kids had a hard time believing that my high school allowed smoking.

GreenWave

(9,320 posts)
18. Only one A per lifetime of a particular English teacher. Grr! And subsequently GRRR!
Mon Dec 9, 2024, 04:13 PM
Monday

997 out 0f 1,000 didn't qualify as an A. You see, Mr. Huffman got 998 back in the 1940's.

3catwoman3

(25,574 posts)
21. One more DUer old enough to be of the "girls had to wear skirts...
Mon Dec 9, 2024, 04:40 PM
Monday

...or dresses" vintage.

Living in Rochester NY, in the snow belt, this was a major pain in the ass, literally and figuratively, while waiting for the bus in the winter months. Wind and snowflakes blowing up your clothes does NOT feel good.

Tights helped a little but not enough. In grade school, you'd wear snow pants under your dress, but of course, that was no longer acceptable by middle school.

And not sure if there was a rule against students driving to school, but no one did. Everyone who wasn't a walker took the buses, and there was a second bus run after school to take home those who participated in sports or clubs.

TommieMommy

(1,174 posts)
27. Sit quietly at desk, raise hand and stand up to answer questions. Proper uniform with skirt below knees
Mon Dec 9, 2024, 05:18 PM
Monday

Walking single file in hallway quietly. Catholic high School was very strict. We had to stand up when nuns or priests entered the room.

debm55

(37,398 posts)
45. I remember that TommieMommie. I went to Catholic grade school. And everyone sad in unison Good Morning Father_____ or
Mon Dec 9, 2024, 10:14 PM
Monday

Sister ________

debm55

(37,398 posts)
46. Thank you FuzzyRabbit. I went to public JH and HS. We were still not allowed to wear jeans or tennis shoes.
Mon Dec 9, 2024, 10:16 PM
Monday

Golden Raisin

(4,681 posts)
30. No sneakers allowed except in Gym Class.
Mon Dec 9, 2024, 05:31 PM
Monday

No jeans ("dungarees" back then). In Senior Year there was ONE DAY, called "Senior Privilege Day" , when Seniors could wear jeans to school. Boys had to wear collared shirts, slacks (chinos) and leather shoes.

ProfessorGAC

(70,303 posts)
36. Our Rule Went One Further
Mon Dec 9, 2024, 07:30 PM
Monday

No sneakers, like your school, but because all the classrooms had hardwood floors, our classroom shoes had to be soft soled.
Lots of guys wearing Hush Puppies! (All-boys private high school)

debm55

(37,398 posts)
44. thank you Golden Raisin. No jeans either until my last year in HS. Did you go to a Private School or Public school?
Mon Dec 9, 2024, 10:11 PM
Monday

While I taught, they switched to uniforms and it sounds very similar to what you had to weat.

electric_blue68

(18,441 posts)
83. Your jaw would have dropped at my HS. Specialized in Art & Music...we could wear within reason....
Wed Dec 11, 2024, 10:25 PM
2 hrs ago

almost anything. This was '67 - '70. So granny dresses, jeans, pants, wide bell bottoms, miniskirts, T-shirts, shirts and ties (rare), non T-shirt tops, blouses, braids, long hair (for the guys, too), lots of different sizd afros!
It was great!

Freddie

(9,725 posts)
31. Not a rule but
Mon Dec 9, 2024, 05:34 PM
Monday

When I was a freshman in HS (1971) girls were all
forced to take Home Ec while boys got an elective period. That stopped before I graduated. To this day I refuse to go anywhere near a sewing machine.

debm55

(37,398 posts)
41. True, my last year I was in HS The guys could take cooking and the girls could take auto repair--flat tires. oil , etc.
Mon Dec 9, 2024, 10:02 PM
Monday

Xavier Breath

(5,131 posts)
75. I imagine my HS was the same before I got there
Wed Dec 11, 2024, 12:06 PM
12 hrs ago

but by the time I was a freshman in 1981, in addition to Home Ec, we had also had a class called "Independent Living" that was open to boys and girls, and taken by both. It taught everyday survival skills like banking, sewing a button back on, and quick recipes. It was where I learned how to make a white sauce, which I still employ on occasion to this day.

debm55

(37,398 posts)
78. Thank you very much Xavier Breath. The last year of HS we had a similiar class of skills needed for everyday life. It
Wed Dec 11, 2024, 12:18 PM
12 hrs ago

was wonderful

Response to Freddie (Reply #31)

Freddie

(9,725 posts)
49. I'm female, Freddie was a very beloved cat
Tue Dec 10, 2024, 02:55 AM
Tuesday

Everyone knew the whole thing was wrong but this was a small town in Pennsylvania in the 70s.

nature-lover

(1,712 posts)
52. Pregnant girls could not attend school and had a special at-home curriculum.
Tue Dec 10, 2024, 01:04 PM
Tuesday

As soon as the pregnancy was discovered, she was gone. Not sure of all the details due to the "whispered only" nature of the situation.

debm55

(37,398 posts)
62. Thank you. In my district they would marry, one girl I knew was a sophomore or you went to these homes for pregnant
Tue Dec 10, 2024, 03:06 PM
Tuesday

girls.

Basso8vb

(410 posts)
54. I wasn't a smoker but CA high schools had a smoking section in the quad on campus
Tue Dec 10, 2024, 01:23 PM
Tuesday

marked by a line painted on the ground.

School smoking areas were done away with on January 1, 1986 - my freshman year.

But the line remained. Too much work and $ to remove it.

malthaussen

(17,738 posts)
55. One of my seventh grade teachers tried to impose that "stand while answering" rule.
Tue Dec 10, 2024, 01:27 PM
Tuesday

It didn't go well.

-- Mal

KT2000

(20,907 posts)
56. A girl's skirt had to touch
Tue Dec 10, 2024, 01:29 PM
Tuesday

the seat of a chair when kneeling on it - if not you had to go home and change.
No gum chewing
No talking in class unless called upon

kimbutgar

(23,460 posts)
57. Having to copy a page out of a dictionary of you didn't finish your work
Tue Dec 10, 2024, 01:34 PM
Tuesday

Or having to write lines of whatever you did wrong. I will not throw pencils at anymore 50x’s and if didn’t finish you had to take it home and have your parents sign off that you finished the 50x’s and return with their signature.

I think this made me more able to realize I had to finish a schoolwork task and as an adult a work task and not do it sloppily.

debm55

(37,398 posts)
67. Thank you kimbutgar.I remember kids having to that on the side blackboards too, I will not____________ a certain amount
Tue Dec 10, 2024, 03:51 PM
Tuesday

of times.

mvd

(65,515 posts)
58. Old computers so just were in limited classes
Tue Dec 10, 2024, 01:43 PM
Tuesday

I remember learning in typing class with them. Then college had a little more computing.

Wicked Blue

(6,722 posts)
59. We had to wear socks under sandals in high school.
Tue Dec 10, 2024, 02:20 PM
Tuesday

They claimed it was because the cleaning product used on the floors would damage our feet.

It was a lie.

I found out that the green sweeping compound was manufactured by the company my father worked for. He told me it was harmless.

So on an afternoon that was busy with after school activities, I jogged through the hallways barefoot. My feet were fine.


SARose

(855 posts)
60. Gym suits and showers
Tue Dec 10, 2024, 02:23 PM
Tuesday

Royal blue one piece gym suits in junior high and high school. Ugh!

Showers after gym class. I was shocked to hear not one of our 5 grandkids even had a shower at school. Ewww!

No pants or jeans here, too! My freshman year at college we were allowed to wear dress pants to class but jeans were restricted to the dorm.

Single sex dorms with curfews! Ugh!

debm55

(37,398 posts)
61. Thank you very much SARose, We had the blue one piece gym uniforms. After gym, the girls took a shower in the girls
Tue Dec 10, 2024, 03:00 PM
Tuesday

locker room as a group. There were three stalls set up in case you were having your period, Otherwise the gym teacher stood there and watched to make sure no one didn't go in.

Harker

(15,103 posts)
73. No, when I was a kid, corporal punishment was a daily thing.
Wed Dec 11, 2024, 08:55 AM
15 hrs ago

I had good, kind teachers, but I saw her do that to kids unfortunate enough to have her for their teacher.

She only spoke to me once in the four years we spent at the same elementary school, and she was smiling sweetly at me, which was very creepy.

The Principal's nickname was "K.O."

Walleye

(35,988 posts)
77. Girls were strictly forbidden from wearing pants. We even played field hockey in little skirts as I recall.
Wed Dec 11, 2024, 12:13 PM
12 hrs ago

LogDog75

(135 posts)
79. Boy's hair standards
Wed Dec 11, 2024, 01:19 PM
11 hrs ago

Long hair was becoming more popular in the mid- to late 60s. We had a number of male students with long hair and the school was harassing them about it. A group of them petitioned the school board to relax the standard and instead the school board made it stricter. The town I lived in had a lot of retired Navy officers which is why the standards were strict. Their new standard was the hair on the back of a boy's head could not touch his collar. Sideburns could not extend below middle of the ear. No mustaches, beards, or goatees. After the standard was passed, most teachers ignored it and didn't report anyone violating the standard.

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