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LiberalLoner
(10,709 posts)SWBTATTReg
(24,907 posts)Whoever thinks that things would last so long? I guess when Karma is right, it's right!
debm55
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biophile
(629 posts)Together since 1987, married 1990.
debm55
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sinkingfeeling
(54,328 posts)debm55
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GreenWave
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rsdsharp
(10,508 posts)debm55
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mike_c
(36,477 posts)We weren't romantically involved, but were best friends for years. I couch surfed at she and her ex-husband's house for a while in my early twenties. Then they moved to Colorado and we lost touch for a couple decades. I moved to California. One day in 2005 (I think) she found references to me online (including DU) and emailed. I called, and our old friendship restarted like it had never paused. Eventually I stopped by to visit while on a road trip and after a couple more visits each way we acted like teenagers again. We both turn seventy this year. What a blessing!
debm55
(43,362 posts)
multigraincracker
(34,986 posts)Still get a good night kiss every night.
debm55
(43,362 posts)include bumps along the way, but with love you can weather the storm.
Lunabell
(7,309 posts)We have only missed a good night kiss when either of us was out of town.
debm55
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IrishBubbaLiberal
(759 posts)Seems like yesterday.
Like a THUNDERBOLT hit. Back in Jan 1974
debm55
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madinmaryland
(65,293 posts)debm55
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JohnnyLib2
(11,266 posts)Good grief.
debm55
(43,362 posts)love and happiness.
ProfessorGAC
(71,725 posts)Ides of March, 1980.
We got really lucky with the weather for a mid-March wedding.
Was 65° & sunny. Could have been 30° and snowing.
My wife didn't even wear a coat over her wedding dress.
debm55
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Mad_Dem_X
(9,883 posts)debm55
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OldBaldy1701E
(7,324 posts)Thanks to that pesky 'not recognizing gay people at all, much less them being married!' crap, the 'legal' date was not the actual date.
We have been together 21 years. I have no idea how I have managed to be such a failure at everything else and yet managed to get lucky with my mate. (Of course, he proposed to me, so...)
I have no way to know how much longer I have. I just hope beyond hope I can find a way to return a fraction of what he has given me.
debm55
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surfered
(5,226 posts)debm55
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surfered
(5,226 posts)Luciferous
(6,377 posts)I was 16 🙂
debm55
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Squeaky41
(322 posts)Wife Kathleen and I together 39 years
debm55
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BOSSHOG
(41,255 posts)Im so lucky it should be illegal. I married an Angel who spoils me every day. I dont deserve her.
Bluethroughu
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debm55
(43,362 posts)compassion, and peace that you both have been blessed with. and enjoy.
Bluethroughu
(6,961 posts)My husband and I, almost thirty years, still see him as 21. I'm glad he does not act like it.
debm55
(43,362 posts)journey is not without it's bumps. May your journey of love, compassion and friendship. continue for both of you
Bluethroughu
(6,961 posts)I'm glad you're both still here together.
Aristus
(69,224 posts)And married for twenty-six coming up in April.
debm55
(43,362 posts)you.

Srkdqltr
(8,040 posts)Still the same as always.
Lunabell
(7,309 posts)And if life wills it, many, many, more to come.
debm55
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debm55
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appleannie1
(5,234 posts)debm55
(43,362 posts)My husband had Malignant Cancer last summer and I remember this Native American Proverb.
The soul would have no rainbow
If the eyes had no tears.
My prayers are with you, dear one. Love, Debbie.
fargone
(313 posts)debm55
(43,362 posts)you both
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MustLoveBeagles
(13,042 posts)On a blind date 30 years ago last December. This coming June we'll celebrate our 27th wedding anniversary. 💘
debm55
(43,362 posts)understanding.
Enter stage left
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debm55
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Turbineguy
(38,788 posts)debm55
(43,362 posts)both bring to it. Blessings.
walkingman
(8,882 posts)debm55
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murielm99
(31,718 posts)debm55
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WheelWalker
(9,308 posts)We have two disabled daughters and I have one demented ex-wife all of whom would be homeless if they did not have a place in my home. Yes, and I am quite insane. Just ask anyone in our small village.
debm55
(43,362 posts)hard journey but I believe you are a very person for taking them in. Bless you WheelWalker.
CareyOn
(45 posts)debm55
(43,362 posts)Bless you both.
Zackzzzz
(27 posts)We met 2 years earlier.
debm55
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livetohike
(23,287 posts)years since our first date on May 5 . I dont feel that old. Were still hiking and canoeing as long as we can.
debm55
(43,362 posts)50 year journey.
lark
(24,626 posts)A lifetime of love.
debm55
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lark
(24,626 posts)None of us are quitters - obviously!!
Clouds Passing
(3,872 posts)debm55
(43,362 posts)and peace. Blessings to you both.
Clouds Passing
(3,872 posts)And to you and Rich ❤️❤️
Alpeduez21
(1,907 posts)It's pretty amazing we have gone through the ups and downs of life and career changes, moves, sickness, and all the joys and tests life brings; together.
debm55
(43,362 posts)togetherness and friendship. Blessings to a long journey.
justaprogressive
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debm55
(43,362 posts)with love, friendship and compassion. Blessings to you both.
thatdemguy
(577 posts)I was with the previous for 14 and married for 9 before she cheated. She felt having kids, I cant have kids for some reason, was more important than our marriage.
She cheated, I told her to get out after 2 months long hard months of trying, and she got pregnant by him. Then she had the nerve to try to come back and say we could raise the kid as our own. How about no.
My life is much better, I am with a woman who actually has the drive to do better. And she helped bring me up and gave me the drive to do better.
debm55
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family urged him to leave me. He stayed. I am happy you found a woman who appreciates you for you. And I wish you a journey that is full of
love,laughter, and compassion. Blessings to you both.
Hangingon
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TommieMommy
(1,575 posts)debm55
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redstatebluegirl
(12,582 posts)My husband's family thought it would never work (he is 12 years younger), but here we are happy and cooking right along! Love him dearly!
debm55
(43,362 posts)and friendship. Blessings to you both.
debm55
(43,362 posts)journey be filled with love, friendship and happiness. Blessings to you both.
Emile
(32,769 posts)debm55
(43,362 posts)Blessings to you both.
patphil
(7,471 posts)debm55
(43,362 posts)Bless you both.
patphil
(7,471 posts)This is my 2nd, her 1st.
debm55
(43,362 posts)compassion and friendship. Bless you both.
Jamesm9164
(571 posts)debm55
(43,362 posts)for each other. Blessings to you both.
JMCKUSICK
(1,184 posts)I love reading the responses.
Me myself and I are going on 34 years together after my divorce in 91.
debm55
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debm55
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pdxflyboy
(818 posts)Lived together for 2 years, now married for the past 35 years.
debm55
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DelMar dem
(51 posts)We married one year after we met.
debm55
(43,362 posts)your to 54 years, Blessing to both of you.
Diamond_Dog
(36,082 posts)Youve got us beat, Deb.
debm55
(43,362 posts)respect. Blessings to you and your beloved.
pandr32
(12,666 posts)My husband (second one) and I will have been married 25 yrs in September. Time sure goes quickly.
I love your love-related question-posts during Valentine's Week.
debm55
(43,362 posts)friendship. Blessings to you.
lucca18
(1,351 posts)We both grew up in New York, (30 minutes from each other).
We didnt meet until we had both moved to California, and wound up working for the same company!
debm55
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DeeDeeNY
(3,670 posts)We got married Thanksgiving 1970 and we're living n the same house since 1975!
debm55
(43,362 posts)love, compassion and friendship, Blessings to you both.
IbogaProject
(4,099 posts)And a little more than 16 years married. Been together nonstop, have traveled separately but never a break.
debm55
(43,362 posts)Bessing to you both.
yellowdogintexas
(23,070 posts)debm55
(43,362 posts)Blessings.
Dorothy V
(176 posts)He may be passed away, but he will always have my heart.