I never knew my best friend of 40+ years was a covert Narcissist
My best friend, my business Partner. My Brother from another Mother. Has no feelings,concern,loyalty whatsoever to me.
If we were on a boat with a gun and 12 hours worth of water, he would shoot me to have 24 hours worth.
I never knew or understood what a covert Narcissist was and how pathologically evil they are.
They don't have conversations, they prod for things to use against you for control.
You told your best bud a secret 20 years ago, they remember and weaponize it.
They trust no one.
I spent a few hundred hours watching you tube videos about these monsters and they are all alike. Its like there is a Dickhead playbook they all use.
I want anyone reading this to ask themselves if they know a person like this:
1) who Trust no one
2) chronic complainer
3) delusions of unobtainable grandeur
4) Love to argue over nothing.
5) can't take criticism
6) scream when they hear the word no?
7) seem to enjoy frustrating/angering you
8) Sometimes you see them smile when you have a bad day.
9) cheat a lot/Drink
10) buy you gifts
11) seem to lack empathy
12) don't really have any hobbies that aint yours.
13) they hold grudges forever
There are many more
Do you feel frustrated, drained, icky after talking to someone?
You may have a covert Narcissist in your midst.
They are like Poison snakes that look like nonpoisonous snakes.
They will take everything they can and manipulate and lie to you.
I never knew about these monsters.
And they are.
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They are monsters. They are not worth your time.
However, it really hurts when it turns out to be your BFF or favorite relative or that cute girl downstairs that you really wanted to talk to.
Some of those wounds are deep, too. Some of them were like losing half of your body.
But make no mistake... you are better off for knowing it now rather than later. Take solace in that.
your list.
Then, there are some that are just ignorant of the damage they cause. It is like living in a bubble for them. They can only see their own world. It is maddening to even try to deal with them because you cannot trust a word that comes out of their mouths! And, the more they know about you, the more they can try to manipulate you (or goad you) into doing their bidding.
They are masters. Shatter your heart and act like they have no idea what you are talking about because you were not that close anyway and it is just business and blah blah blah blah...
