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debm55

(55,911 posts)
Sat Mar 1, 2025, 02:05 PM Mar 2025

What is your most memorable "I can't believe I did that" moment? Any age. Mine was swimming with the dolphins down in

Bahamas.

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What is your most memorable "I can't believe I did that" moment? Any age. Mine was swimming with the dolphins down in (Original Post) debm55 Mar 2025 OP
I was 16 years old JMCKUSICK Mar 2025 #1
Wonderful, sweet story, Thank you John. debm55 Mar 2025 #2
I almost fell into the Changhe River in Beijing. rsdsharp Mar 2025 #3
Oh my . Glad you are okay and with us today. rsdsharp debm55 Mar 2025 #4
Well, so much for anonymity ... Dorothy V Mar 2025 #5
Thank you sweet Dorothy V , Rich reached his 37 soberity. Still goes to meetings on Sunday mornings. debm55 Mar 2025 #6
Congrats to Rich! Dorothy V Mar 2025 #11
Snorkeling in a sea cave CanonRay Mar 2025 #7
Oh wow.always wanted to snorkel. Thank you very much CanonRay debm55 Mar 2025 #9
I told Gary Wright of "Dream Weaver" fame to shut the f up. catbyte Mar 2025 #8
Thank you very much. catbyte. A slapdown of the one hit wonder. debm55 Mar 2025 #10
Mine was when I sat on a Court Martial panel LogDog75 Mar 2025 #12
4 years ago. Archae Mar 2025 #13

JMCKUSICK

(5,158 posts)
1. I was 16 years old
Sat Mar 1, 2025, 02:22 PM
Mar 2025

And I dated a girl in Sandstone MN for a summer and we lay out on a clear sky holding hands feeling that we were the only two people in the world who saw the Northern lights that evening.
No hanky panky, just two kids listening to The Allan Parsons Project in love with life.

It was Eye in the Sky album, seriously.

Dorothy V

(460 posts)
5. Well, so much for anonymity ...
Sat Mar 1, 2025, 02:35 PM
Mar 2025

My "I can't believe I did that!" moment was getting sober. 34 years later it still wows me.

debm55

(55,911 posts)
6. Thank you sweet Dorothy V , Rich reached his 37 soberity. Still goes to meetings on Sunday mornings.
Sat Mar 1, 2025, 02:53 PM
Mar 2025
Congratulations. Tells me everyday that he feels that urge to drink. Especially since he had cancer. Love, you

Dorothy V

(460 posts)
11. Congrats to Rich!
Sat Mar 1, 2025, 03:18 PM
Mar 2025

Yeah, that urge is always around, sometimes stronger than other times.
Also congrats on his beating cancer!
Hugs for you both!

catbyte

(38,667 posts)
8. I told Gary Wright of "Dream Weaver" fame to shut the f up.
Sat Mar 1, 2025, 03:12 PM
Mar 2025

The college (now a university) that I attended attracted a lot of big-name concerts back in the day and I worked backstage and stage security. I met Frank Zappa, Aerosmith, Carlos Santana and Eric Clapton, Roberta Flack, Genesis when Peter Gabriel was still with them, Joe Walsh, Sly and the Family Stone, George Carlin (hilarious), Martin Mull among others. They were all professional, cool, polite, and awesome to be around. Everyone except Gary Wright. He was whining about everything. The snacks weren't good enough, he hated the Michigan weather, he couldn't find his wife and he kept whining, "Where's Tina? Where's Tina?" If I were married to him, I'd get lost too, lol. I'm usually pretty laid back but he irked the hell out of me so I finally said to him, "Oh, just shut the fuck up, will ya? He looked at me like I'd slapped him, but he shut up and went back to his dressing room. Everybody cheered when he was out of earshot.

I still can't believe I did that.

LogDog75

(1,114 posts)
12. Mine was when I sat on a Court Martial panel
Sat Mar 1, 2025, 04:09 PM
Mar 2025

I was an AF Senior NCO and was selected to be a panel member (juror) for a Court Martial on an NCO with 17.5 years service charged with illegal use of amphetamines. I was one of two senior NCOs along with five officers ranging in rank from Lieutenant to Lieutenant Colonel. After hearing testimony, the judge gave us our instructions. There were four questions the judge said we'd have to unanimously say yes to each one for conviction. The questions were:
Did the defendant take the drugs?
Did the defendant knowingly take the drugs?
Did the defendant know the drugs were illegal?
Did the defendant taking the drugs was illegal?

When we took our first vote, it was six-to-one for guilty with myself being the lone not guilty vote. I dissented because the prosecution provided no evidence the defendant knowingly took the drugs. We went back twice to the judge for further guidance. After about 90 minutes of discussion, we returned with a unanimous Not Guilty verdict. The other panel members agreed there was no evidence the defendant knowingly took the drug and since all four questions had to be answered Yes, the fact that this question was answered No meant we could convict her.

What I did wasn't because the defendant was a NCO but because I had to follow the judge's instructions and to withhold any preconceived opinions and I did that. Turning six others opinions wasn't easy but in the end the agreed I was right. After the trial, the Chief Master Sergeant (E-9) the defendant worked for asked me about how we came to our decision. It turned out he sat on a similar Court Martial two months earlier concerning drug charges and found the defendant Not Guilty for the same exact reason.


 

Archae

(47,245 posts)
13. 4 years ago.
Sat Mar 1, 2025, 05:05 PM
Mar 2025

Took a trip to Georgia, spent a weekend with a good friend, then flew to northern California and spent 5 days with my oldest sister.

(She and BIL moved back here to Sheboygan county now)

Got to see how friendly people are in Georgia, toured a now-closed gold mine, walked out on Fisherman's Wharf, rode in a car over the Golden Gate Bridge, walked out up to my ankles in the ocean at Muir Beach, and went to Muir Woods, seeing magnificent redwoods.

The whole trip was something I'll remember the rest of my life.

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