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I wore heels once to a Rocky Horror party; I could not believe how painful it was! The question occurred to me after seeing Trump's horrible lifts.

Walleye
(39,722 posts)Life is painful enough
Jilly_in_VA
(11,785 posts)Last time I wore them was 13+ years ago at my friend's wedding. Got blisters, Swore never again and haven't. Even my wedding shoes barely had any and I kicked them off for the reception.
GreenWave
(11,084 posts)synni
(299 posts)If I even try on the pair of shoes with high heels, my back will ache for 3 weeks.
Ocelot II
(124,314 posts)In my youth I wore heels for work, but not especially high ones. They really are hell on your feet, ankles and back.
some_of_us_are_sane
(1,147 posts)Last edited Mon Mar 3, 2025, 09:45 PM - Edit history (1)
Trump's first response after being shot at, was ...'WHERE ARE MY SHOES!" The damn faker was in danger of being found out.
(P.S. - I cannot remember the last time I wore heels, but I'm sure it involved backpain and blisters.)
Solly Mack
(94,826 posts)My feet are happiest in soft, ankle hugging house shoes.
speak easy
(11,394 posts)As a first timer, I could hardly walk. My feet are happiest in well worn sneakers.
Solly Mack
(94,826 posts)I stopped wearing high heels before they ruined my feet. Those growths/protrusions below/side of the big toe on some elderly women stopped me cold. Those were caused from constantly wearing high heels or so I was told by them.
Diamond_Dog
(36,644 posts)although I only wore them for a dressy occasions which wasn’t very often. They certainly do cause much pain!!
I see Melania wearing those tall spike heels and I can’t understand how she can stand it. I thought I read somewhere that Dumpy had a rule that all women working in the White House had to wear a dress with heels but that could have been made up.
surrealAmerican
(11,609 posts)They are painful and keep me from walking properly.
Heck, even a lot of non-high-heeled women's shoes are too uncomfortable for me. If my feet feel good, I can walk all day, with bad shoes, I can barely leave the house.
jmowreader
(52,155 posts)She says the secret to wearing high heels comfortably is to wear them every day, and to start with low heels.
Fla Dem
(26,530 posts)
On a more serious note, I haven't worn heels in a long time. But I never had an issue with them. Fit is everything.
Clouds Passing
(4,419 posts)Comrade Citizen
(338 posts)These 1.5" blue suede shoes are comfortable for daily wear:
mwmisses4289
(913 posts)when one of the heels got caught in a sidewalk crack and ended up with a twisted ankle. Highest I wear now is an inch to maybe an inch and a half. High heels just looking freaking ugly and uncomfortable.
LeftInTX
(32,761 posts)It wasn't a water filled blister, it was something else. Anyway, that was the end for me.
I've got really bad feet: Neuromas, ingrown toenails, plantar fasciitis, bouts of neuropathy.
So, it's been life of ugly shoes.
milestogo
(20,316 posts)It ended up that I had a drawer full of high heels at work, and wore athletic shoes while commuting. When I switched to IT I realized I would never have to wear them again, but I still had them.
At one point when I got a puppy he chewed up one high heel. So I gave him the matching one. Figured it was a sign to get rid of the rest.
Mad_Dem_X
(9,903 posts)I can't stand heels. I'm always afraid I'm going to fall!