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IrishBubbaLiberal

(1,402 posts)
Sat Mar 15, 2025, 11:34 AM Mar 15

Went out for breakfast this morning, too many IDIOTs wearing "ball caps"

Pet peeve….

WHY the phuck are people wearing ‘ball caps’ while eating
breakfast at a nice ‘diner’

This breakfast place is nice, not just some common breakfast diner,
FIRST WATCH. It’s a chain breakfast restaurant

There were a couple, maybe in their 50s, and both male and female
we’re wearing ball caps while eating breakfast inside.

Then 4 more adults,, maybe 30s, both male n female
wearing ball caps…at two tables

Then three younger males,,, 20s,,, wearing nice black t-shirts,
t-shirts w/ logos and art work about tattoo place,,
All wearing ,, I think black ball caps.

SO WHY WEAR A BALL CAP AT BREAKFAST ?

Geez, BubbaLand is a world to itself.

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Went out for breakfast this morning, too many IDIOTs wearing "ball caps" (Original Post) IrishBubbaLiberal Mar 15 OP
Hats shouldn't be worn indoors. zanana1 Mar 15 #1
That rule only applied to men traditionally (neither promoting or "approving"), just saying... hlthe2b Mar 15 #4
besides being way, way out of date stopdiggin Mar 15 #12
Everything has changed womanofthehills Mar 15 #14
Permanent adolescence. No class, no manners. Wingus Dingus Mar 15 #2
Bald and balding men do this, but who knows Klarkashton Mar 15 #3
The younger kids in 20s,, wearing caps doesn't bother me,, BUT the older one do IrishBubbaLiberal Mar 15 #9
I don't know when the general population started wearing ball caps. CrispyQ Mar 15 #5
Because it is casual dress for a casual diner on a weekend? hlthe2b Mar 15 #6
Well, some of us don't have nice hair. piddyprints Mar 15 #7
Were any being worn backwards? Sneederbunk Mar 15 #8
Thankfully no. IrishBubbaLiberal Mar 15 #10
Step off, dude! JoseBalow Mar 15 #13
The thing is AnnaLee Mar 15 #11
Because when I wear my veteran's ball cap, sometimes I get a free breakfast... Wounded Bear Mar 15 #15
I went to First Watch for breakfast a week ago... PCB66 Mar 15 #16
Welcome to DU LetMyPeopleVote Mar 16 #17

hlthe2b

(109,223 posts)
4. That rule only applied to men traditionally (neither promoting or "approving"), just saying...
Sat Mar 15, 2025, 11:44 AM
Mar 15

stopdiggin

(13,605 posts)
12. besides being way, way out of date
Sat Mar 15, 2025, 12:27 PM
Mar 15

There may be a handful of places where it is still criticized ... But, the places that actual recognize or promote that brand of decorum - are really few and far between.

And the chances are that many have never even heard ...

womanofthehills

(9,658 posts)
14. Everything has changed
Sat Mar 15, 2025, 02:14 PM
Mar 15

I see people out and about in their pajamas in my small town and in Walmart. Many articles are about the laid back pajama trend.. Many look like they might have just rolled out of bed.

My boyfriend is almost bald -always has a hat on - especially in winter when it’s colder. I’m just thankful he still puts on sweat pants & is not running around in cute animal themed pajamas!!!!!

IrishBubbaLiberal

(1,402 posts)
9. The younger kids in 20s,, wearing caps doesn't bother me,, BUT the older one do
Sat Mar 15, 2025, 11:52 AM
Mar 15

The younger kids wearing a cap inside,,
Doesn’t surprise me, or bother me…guess I expect that from
kids (anyone less than 30 years old is a “kid” to me)

But ADULTS and who looked like married couples in their
50s and 60s……should have enough common sense n manners to not wear some
cheap ball cap inside at breakfast.

It’s bad enough to see IDIOTS wearing their caps backwards outside in the sun.

I WILL NEVER GET OVER THAT CRAZE A DECADE AGO OR SO AGO,
WHEN YOUNG WOMEN WORE WINTER BOOTS IN SUMMER WITH THEIR SHORTS.

GOD PEOPLE ARE DUMB

CrispyQ

(39,494 posts)
5. I don't know when the general population started wearing ball caps.
Sat Mar 15, 2025, 11:46 AM
Mar 15

Maybe when wearing sports team gear became a thing? When I was a kid only farmers & hicks wore ball caps & only hicks wore them backwards. With a flic of my Bic I can see you're a hick. Who remembers that?

hlthe2b

(109,223 posts)
6. Because it is casual dress for a casual diner on a weekend?
Sat Mar 15, 2025, 11:46 AM
Mar 15

When many people do casual things?

Sorry, but there are so damned many things to get annoyed about that this one doesn't rise to the top of my list-- unless they were MAGA ball caps, I'm not too concerned.

piddyprints

(14,924 posts)
7. Well, some of us don't have nice hair.
Sat Mar 15, 2025, 11:49 AM
Mar 15

A good hair day for me is likely a bad hair day for anyone else. Sometimes I don't feel like messing with it even to make it look that good, so I wear a hat to feel less self-conscious. Sorry that offends you.

Anyway, you won't find me at First Watch because they're so dang slow and noisy and their food is mediocre at best. One less hat for you to worry about.

IrishBubbaLiberal

(1,402 posts)
10. Thankfully no.
Sat Mar 15, 2025, 12:01 PM
Mar 15

Quite a few restaurants around me have ATTIRE NOTICES.

Mostly for when the Summer HEAT is brutal….

NO BALL CAPS.
NO TANK TOPS
CLOTHES MUST NOT BE NOT TOO REVEALING,
SHORTS MUST BE RESORT CASUAL


and one has/have…..
NO SWIMWEAR

But that’s only at an outdoor patio
‘Cafe’ by the inner city walking trail



AnnaLee

(1,259 posts)
11. The thing is
Sat Mar 15, 2025, 12:07 PM
Mar 15

A ball cap gives partial protection from sun and light rain but, when you wear it just in case and get indoors, if you take it off you might forget it when you leave. It might sound absurd but, were he still alive, you might ask my husband, who removed his hat, how many hats he left behind and couldn't retrieve. Leaving it on, while some might think it disrespectful, in actual fact hurts absolutely no body and insures that you have it when you leave.

Wounded Bear

(61,751 posts)
15. Because when I wear my veteran's ball cap, sometimes I get a free breakfast...
Sat Mar 15, 2025, 02:53 PM
Mar 15


No, really, it happens from time to time.

PCB66

(15 posts)
16. I went to First Watch for breakfast a week ago...
Sat Mar 15, 2025, 07:02 PM
Mar 15

...and wore a baseball cap. I'm a retiree and pretty well dress how I want to so please don't hate on me.

However, if I went out to a nice place for dinner I wouldn't wear a cap.

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