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littlemissmartypants

(27,209 posts)
Sat Apr 5, 2025, 12:16 PM Apr 5

I'm hurt and bummed out.

I had planned to go to my local hands off protest today. My sign is nothing special. Not like all of the really great ones DUers have been sharing. It's just this:

It's the same sign I've been carrying since the Moral Monday marches in Raleigh ten years ago.

Here's the thing. I fell. I am literally hurt. I'm having trouble walking. I'm going to cover myself with ice packs, take acetaminophen and maybe get my lidocaine patches and some medical tape together and patch myself up. Again, literally.

I hate to use the darn things though because they're so expensive.

Anyway, I'm really hurt. I'm thinking about driving myself to the emergency room and if the pain gets worse, I will try. Right now, I'm self evaluating and sad because I really, really wanted to join in today.

Thanks to everyone out there who is standing up for all of us who can't right now, for whatever reason. It means a lot.

❤️pants
RESIST!!

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I'm hurt and bummed out. (Original Post) littlemissmartypants Apr 5 OP
Where do you hurt ? dweller Apr 5 #1
I fell on my right ... littlemissmartypants Apr 5 #5
Here's a link to the live feed of protests dweller Apr 5 #9
Thank you!!! wolfie001 Apr 5 #15
Retired RN SimplyHadEnough Apr 5 #18
Look after yourself first! buzzycrumbhunger Apr 5 #2
That is terrible. I will raise my fist for you in solidarity at my event. Nanuke Apr 5 #3
Your spirit will never be broken, LMSP! True Dough Apr 5 #4
Take care of you. applegrove Apr 5 #6
Dear smartypants, Niagara Apr 5 #7
Live your poster! There will be other protests, but livetohike Apr 5 #8
Get looked at orangecrush Apr 5 #10
Littlemisssmartypants, please go to the ER or Urgent Care. MIButterfly Apr 5 #11
Please go get yourself checked out JMCKUSICK Apr 5 #12
I feel you -- was planning to go to one near me but got injured 2 days ago 0rganism Apr 5 #13
April 19th is the next scheduled event. Hope22 Apr 7 #37
Oh man, that sucks! Feel better and get checked if it's bad... I'm always too much n pain for going to stuff.. FirstLight Apr 5 #14
Be easy on yourself littlemisssmartypants. you are there in spirit x 1000. Feel better....drink water. c-rational Apr 5 #16
I am right there with you LMSP! OldBaldy1701E Apr 5 #17
Your health comes first peiod. William769 Apr 5 #19
so sorry sorry you fell. SleeplessinSoCal Apr 5 #20
Call someone to drive you to Urgent Care, pants. sheshe2 Apr 5 #21
I agree with getting a driver when you're injured Skittles Apr 5 #35
I hear you, pants, and am so sorry you fell and are hurt. From this nurse's perspective, please, please go to the ER and wordstroken Apr 5 #22
Get thee to ER/Urgent Care NOW!!! The injuries you described are not to be niyad Apr 5 #23
Love the sign. Get checked out please. nt LittleGirl Apr 5 #24
Sorry about your fall. Great Poster. I guess this one might be too strong.. surfered Apr 5 #25
In the words of the Sons of Liberty group: Otterdaemmerung Apr 5 #31
I think the consensus here is you go get checked ! dweller Apr 5 #26
So sorry about your accident, I love your sign. Walleye Apr 5 #27
I love your sign. But your health comes FIRST. Irish_Dem Apr 5 #28
Your spirit is at the protest. You take care of yourself. LoisB Apr 5 #29
That's a great sign. Otterdaemmerung Apr 5 #30
me too!.. stillcool Apr 5 #32
I'm so sorry! Keep us posted. Falling is never a good thing. Solly Mack Apr 5 #33
I'm with you - soldierant Apr 5 #34
I'm so sorry to hear you were injured & prevented from attending protests! SheltieLover Apr 7 #36

dweller

(26,437 posts)
1. Where do you hurt ?
Sat Apr 5, 2025, 12:19 PM
Apr 5

And yes you should go and get yourself checked . You may have a serious injury that may get worse .

✌🏻

littlemissmartypants

(27,209 posts)
5. I fell on my right ...
Sat Apr 5, 2025, 12:26 PM
Apr 5

Hand with my fingers in a weird position, my elbow which is also scraped up from the rocks on the ground and my hip/back on the same side is what's hurting the worst right now. I also landed on my knee on the same side but side ways so I just got scratches and scrapes there but not too bad.

Thanks for asking, dweller.

❤️

buzzycrumbhunger

(1,091 posts)
2. Look after yourself first!
Sat Apr 5, 2025, 12:22 PM
Apr 5

Is it an option to drive by the protest a time or two and honk and wave to support them?

Like maybe on the way to the ER, if you’re really in that bad a condition? It seems like having a medical emergency at a protest would not be helpful in general.

True Dough

(22,756 posts)
4. Your spirit will never be broken, LMSP!
Sat Apr 5, 2025, 12:25 PM
Apr 5

But please do have a medical professional take care of your physical ailments! Wishing you well!




Niagara

(10,515 posts)
7. Dear smartypants,
Sat Apr 5, 2025, 12:37 PM
Apr 5

I'm joining you in the "feeling under the weather" category and I'm not attending todays "Hands Off" protest either.

I wish you a speedy recovery and I'm hoping that you can get checked out by a medical professional to make sure that you're alright.

💙RESIST!

livetohike

(23,387 posts)
8. Live your poster! There will be other protests, but
Sat Apr 5, 2025, 12:37 PM
Apr 5

first take care of yourself so you can attend later. Hope it’s just bruising .

MIButterfly

(300 posts)
11. Littlemisssmartypants, please go to the ER or Urgent Care.
Sat Apr 5, 2025, 01:17 PM
Apr 5

You never know what kind of damage there could be on the inside and if it's nothing serious, you will be relieved. At least you'll know.

Please take care of yourself and I hope you feel better soon. ❤️

Edited to add: I slipped and fell back on my couch a few years ago and bent one of my fingers. I went to Urgent Care the next day and was told if I had not gone there as quickly as I did, my finger would've stayed permanently bent. Now you can't even tell which finger it was.

JMCKUSICK

(1,978 posts)
12. Please go get yourself checked out
Sat Apr 5, 2025, 01:22 PM
Apr 5

littlemissnartypants. Please, delaying any treatment for what could be a broken bone etc could make things much worse. I wish you well, I pray you are ok and recover quickly.
Please keep us posted.
Love, John

0rganism

(25,004 posts)
13. I feel you -- was planning to go to one near me but got injured 2 days ago
Sat Apr 5, 2025, 01:28 PM
Apr 5

I'm hopeful this will not be the last opportunity for Americans to peacefully assemble and petition the government for redress of grievances.

We'll be there next time.

FirstLight

(14,977 posts)
14. Oh man, that sucks! Feel better and get checked if it's bad... I'm always too much n pain for going to stuff..
Sat Apr 5, 2025, 01:38 PM
Apr 5

chronc arthritis and weight and being too sedentary ove rhte past 5 years has taken it's toll. I can't stand for more than 15-20 mins.
So I am waving my fist in solidarity too!

c-rational

(3,017 posts)
16. Be easy on yourself littlemisssmartypants. you are there in spirit x 1000. Feel better....drink water.
Sat Apr 5, 2025, 01:56 PM
Apr 5

OldBaldy1701E

(7,691 posts)
17. I am right there with you LMSP!
Sat Apr 5, 2025, 02:09 PM
Apr 5

My back went off on Thursday. I felt sure it would be okay enough to do some walking and stuff by today. Wrong. It is still acting up and hurting. All I can do is sit or lay down.

Thanks to all those who are doing something. Something that will get attention. Something that will prove our displeasure and our willingness to straighten it out.

RESIST!

sheshe2

(91,465 posts)
21. Call someone to drive you to Urgent Care, pants.
Sat Apr 5, 2025, 02:20 PM
Apr 5

It sounds as if you banged yourself up pretty good in that fall. You really should get it checked out so you heal properly.

Let us know how you are doing when you feel up to it.

wordstroken

(1,084 posts)
22. I hear you, pants, and am so sorry you fell and are hurt. From this nurse's perspective, please, please go to the ER and
Sat Apr 5, 2025, 02:21 PM
Apr 5

. . . get checked out right away.

If you don’t want to call an ambulance, for a few bucks you can call Uber or Lyft. Most times they can be there in less than 10 minutes, even rural. If we lived closer, I would drive you to the hospital and stay with you as advocate to be sure they took good care of you.

Right now it’s time to focus on you. Please take care of you. And please bring us up to date on how you’re doing.

In the meantime, I’m with you in spirit, and all of us in your DU family will keep you updated on the Hands Off! protests. Plus you can stream the action when the timing is better for you.

We need you.
Much love and hugs.

niyad

(123,313 posts)
23. Get thee to ER/Urgent Care NOW!!! The injuries you described are not to be
Sat Apr 5, 2025, 02:28 PM
Apr 5

taken lightly. Please take good care of yourself, my sister. Don't make me come get you!

Love your poster, and thank you.. One of the things I have noticed in posters, etc., that I have been seeing, is that none of them are saying, "Hands Off Women". Distressing omission.

Sending vibes for swift and complete healing and recovery.

dweller

(26,437 posts)
26. I think the consensus here is you go get checked !
Sat Apr 5, 2025, 02:38 PM
Apr 5

Please update us here when you can on how you are doing
Hope you are feeling better


✌🏻

Walleye

(39,752 posts)
27. So sorry about your accident, I love your sign.
Sat Apr 5, 2025, 02:40 PM
Apr 5

I feel lucky I got home without falling. That was the only thing that made me hesitate to go. But I knew it’s close to home and the streets are very familiar. Still, every walk to the store now is a life and death adventure. Good luck hope you start feeling better real soon

Irish_Dem

(68,459 posts)
28. I love your sign. But your health comes FIRST.
Sat Apr 5, 2025, 02:56 PM
Apr 5

Go to ER if you have to.

Let the younger people protest today.

Otterdaemmerung

(126 posts)
30. That's a great sign.
Sat Apr 5, 2025, 03:19 PM
Apr 5

Don't sell yourself short. Sure, it's great to be able to make it when you can, but you have to take care of yourself first. You can't pour from an empty bottle. Take refuge in the fact that we're not on our own. There are new people with fresh energy, spirit, and capability joining our ranks every day. Do them the kindness of letting them take your place, even if temporarily, and give them the encouragement they need.

stillcool

(33,659 posts)
32. me too!..
Sat Apr 5, 2025, 03:48 PM
Apr 5

I've got some wicked arthritis/bursitis going on. I went to a protest in February and was fine, but a snow shoveling experience kicked my butt. Now I'm doing PT, and eating ibuprofen like candy. I could probably get there okay, but getting home and walking the next day could be issues. Not worth the risk. It sucks missing out...it's such a feel-good when you really need it. Hope you feel better soon. There will be more, keep your sign handy!!

soldierant

(8,397 posts)
34. I'm with you -
Sat Apr 5, 2025, 07:31 PM
Apr 5

I saw a picture here that said "Things are so F***ed Up that even the introverts are here." Well I'm an introvert - but up to about 12 years ago I was still at protests. That last one I had to take a wheelchair to - I already couldn't stand long. No, it's not introversion that's keeping me home, It's arthritis and osteoporosis, Do get checked. I'm not all that good about that myself - so do as I say, not as I do.

SheltieLover

(66,744 posts)
36. I'm so sorry to hear you were injured & prevented from attending protests!
Mon Apr 7, 2025, 09:37 AM
Apr 7

Sending you healing vibes. I hope you are all better very soon.

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