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KS Toronado

(23,860 posts)
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 08:45 AM Apr 23

Guy insists on giving me a personal check

Had a carburetor listed locally and someone out of Texas bought it, wants me to cash his check wait 3 days
for it to clear and mail the carburetor to him. I smell a rat, he's quite adamant about sending only a check.

Doesn't the post office offer a cashier's check or money gram option at a fairly reasonable charge? He has said
he'll need to go to the Post Office to mail it.

Have one week left of cancer treatments, chemo side effects are kicking my butt.

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Guy insists on giving me a personal check (Original Post) KS Toronado Apr 23 OP
don't do it. ret5hd Apr 23 #1
I agree! SheltieLover Apr 23 #2
Don't intend to play by his rules. KS Toronado Apr 23 #3
Bank Cashiers Checks can be scammed mtngirl47 Apr 23 #7
Red flag on eBay bucolic_frolic Apr 23 #4
Thanks, that's the information I was looking for. KS Toronado Apr 23 #5
Money order is what the post office sells IbogaProject Apr 23 #6
Sorry you are experiencing the chemo effects KS. Ring the bell soon 🔔 Clouds Passing Apr 23 #8
I'm sorry you're a fellow chemo sufferer Laurelin Apr 23 #9
Thanks Laurelin, 15 years bc free 🤞🏼 Clouds Passing Apr 23 #10
15 years! Laurelin Apr 24 #11

KS Toronado

(23,860 posts)
3. Don't intend to play by his rules.
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 08:58 AM
Apr 23

Claims a cashier's check fee at the bank is too "expensive".

bucolic_frolic

(55,802 posts)
4. Red flag on eBay
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 09:01 AM
Apr 23

I thought we all paid electronically or CC now.

Postal Money order. USPS money order fees are $2.55 for amounts up to $500 and $3.60 for amounts between $500.01 and $1,000. Postal military money orders (issued at military facilities) cost $0.84. Maximum individual domestic money order amount is $1,000.

KS Toronado

(23,860 posts)
5. Thanks, that's the information I was looking for.
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 09:11 AM
Apr 23

Didn't sell on ebay, local cable/internet provider "NexTech" has a free buy and sell site.

IbogaProject

(6,068 posts)
6. Money order is what the post office sells
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 09:13 AM
Apr 23

Plus he could use a check cashing place to cash his own check and buy a Western Union money order. Of course he could just withdraw the money first then buy a money order. Hold for check should be two weeks not three days.

Laurelin

(955 posts)
9. I'm sorry you're a fellow chemo sufferer
Thu Apr 23, 2026, 02:36 PM
Apr 23

Finishing up my second round tomorrow. Currently wearing a to-go chemo bag, which beats 3 days in the hospital at least. The symptoms are many and varied.

I hope you'll have a complete recovery.

I don't know nothing about checks or money orders anymore. Good luck with that, too.

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