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question everything

(48,980 posts)
Mon Dec 7, 2020, 10:19 PM Dec 2020

A geriatric-care manager

As the name implies, a geriatric-care manager, also known as an “aging life care manager,” helps older adults and their families navigate the elder-care maze. An aging parent, for instance, who needs assistance with medical care, housing, legal issues, finances, transportation and related needs could benefit from a geriatric-care manager.

Equally important, such individuals act as eyes and ears for adult children who might live at a distance from an older relative.

To that end, “I frequently performed cognitive tests that identified problems, even when family members and/or a primary-care doctor hadn’t yet seen it,” says Molly Moore, a registered nurse in Florida and former geriatric-care manager. “I also was involved in evaluating whether clients could drive safely and, if necessary, negotiating how and when to give up their car keys.

“Frequently family members disagree on how ‘bad’ a situation is,” Ms. Moore adds. “Having an objective professional, trained to evaluate and make recommendations, is vital.”

To learn more, start with the Aging Life Care Association (aginglifecare.org). Eldercare Locator (eldercare.acl.gov), part of the Administration on Aging, also can connect you to services for older adults and their families.

https://www.wsj.com/articles/forced-to-retire-it-might-not-be-as-bad-as-you-fear-11607007600 (subscription)

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A geriatric-care manager (Original Post) question everything Dec 2020 OP
We have a GCM for an elderly relative. She is invaluable and our spooky3 Dec 2020 #1
How do you find one of those? PoindexterOglethorpe Dec 2020 #2
Look at the last paragraph, it provides several links question everything Dec 2020 #3
Paywall. I can't look at the last paragraph. PoindexterOglethorpe Dec 2020 #4
I think he means the last paragraph of his excerpt in the OP progree Dec 2020 #5
Thank you. PoindexterOglethorpe Dec 2020 #6
One other way - do you have a will/trust prepared by a lawyer? If so, she or he may spooky3 Dec 2020 #8
Oh, yes, I do. Will, trust, a long-term care policy. PoindexterOglethorpe Dec 2020 #9
Thanks. Hey "several" is more than one question everything Dec 2020 #7
I just get "forced to retire?" at that link. trof Dec 2020 #10
It is part of the column by Glenn Ruffenach where he answers retirement questions question everything Dec 2020 #11
Be careful who you trust keithbvadu2 Dec 2020 #12

spooky3

(36,338 posts)
1. We have a GCM for an elderly relative. She is invaluable and our
Mon Dec 7, 2020, 10:36 PM
Dec 2020

Relative likes and trusts her. She has a master’s degree and more than 20 years of experience in nursing. She accompanies him to doctors’ appointments to make sure the right questions are asked and that the answers are understood, and provides other assistance. Very reasonably priced.

I HIGHLY recommend GCMs.

PoindexterOglethorpe

(26,773 posts)
2. How do you find one of those?
Mon Dec 7, 2020, 11:51 PM
Dec 2020

Alas, the article is behind a pay wall.

I do think about these things constantly. I'm 72. My one son lives about 1500 miles from me. He's in the DC area, I'm in New Mexico. For several years now I've simply assumed that at some point I will relocate to be much nearer to him. Not that I would expect him to do hands on taking care of me down the road, but so, as I like to say, he'd be near enough to sign the DNR orders when needed.

The reality is, I like him a lot and would prefer to live much closer to him. But even if that happens, someone like a geriatric care manager would be wonderful to have as I age.

progree

(11,463 posts)
5. I think he means the last paragraph of his excerpt in the OP
Tue Dec 8, 2020, 02:00 AM
Dec 2020
To learn more, start with the Aging Life Care Association (aginglifecare.org). Eldercare Locator (eldercare.acl.gov), part of the Administration on Aging, also can connect you to services for older adults and their families.


Although two links might not equate to "several links"

spooky3

(36,338 posts)
8. One other way - do you have a will/trust prepared by a lawyer? If so, she or he may
Tue Dec 8, 2020, 02:44 PM
Dec 2020

have an elder care network that includes GCMs. That's how we found ours - our lawyer put us in touch with a lawyer in our relative's home town, who provided several referrals to GCMs in that town.

PoindexterOglethorpe

(26,773 posts)
9. Oh, yes, I do. Will, trust, a long-term care policy.
Tue Dec 8, 2020, 02:47 PM
Dec 2020

My son has copies of everything. Checking in with the local lawyer who did the will and trust makes sense.

Thanks.

question everything

(48,980 posts)
11. It is part of the column by Glenn Ruffenach where he answers retirement questions
Tue Dec 8, 2020, 09:24 PM
Dec 2020

The first was "forced to retire," the second was the delayed benefits of Social security which I posted as a separate thread and the third - about the geriatric care manager.

I tried to make it easy here..



keithbvadu2

(40,337 posts)
12. Be careful who you trust
Wed Dec 9, 2020, 08:06 AM
Dec 2020

Be careful who you trust

Caretakers cheat/rob vulnerable seniors

Miserable cretins

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/wwii-veteran-life-savings-stolen_us_57e1b0abe4b0e80b1b9ee159?section=&

Fugitive Caretakers Allegedly Steal WWII Veteran’s Life Savings

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