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Behind the Aegis

(54,902 posts)
Thu Jan 12, 2023, 12:28 AM Jan 2023

Transgender woman who lost yeshiva job is excluded from YU-affiliated Orthodox synagogue

When Talia Avrahami was asked to resign from a job teaching in an Orthodox Jewish day school after people there found out she was transgender, she was devastated. But she hoped to be able to turn to her synagogue in Washington Heights, where she had found a home for the last year and a half.

The Shenk Shul is housed at Yeshiva University, the Modern Orthodox flagship in New York City that was locked in battle with students over whether they could form an LBGTQ club. Still, Avrahami had found the previous rabbi to be supportive, and the past president was an ally and a personal friend. What’s more, Avrahami had just helped hire a new rabbi who had promised to handle sensitive topics carefully and with concern for all involved.

So Avrahami was shocked when her outreach to the new rabbi led to her exclusion from the synagogue, with the top Jewish legal authority at Yeshiva University personally telling her that she could no longer pray there.

“Not only were we members, we were very active members,” Avrahami told the Jewish Telegraphic Agency. “We hosted and sponsored kiddushes all the time. We had mazel tovs, [the birth of] our baby [was] posted in the newsletter, we helped run shul events. We were very close with the previous rabbi and rebbetzin and we were close with the current rabbi and rebbetzin.”

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Sadly disgusting.

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Transgender woman who lost yeshiva job is excluded from YU-affiliated Orthodox synagogue (Original Post) Behind the Aegis Jan 2023 OP
The cruelty is astounding leftieNanner Jan 2023 #1
ugh Skittles Jan 2023 #2
I'm so tired of religion dictating how you treat others vercetti2021 Jan 2023 #3

leftieNanner

(15,724 posts)
1. The cruelty is astounding
Thu Jan 12, 2023, 12:40 AM
Jan 2023

I don't understand.

I'm so sorry for this woman.

Thanks for posting this story.

Skittles

(159,976 posts)
2. ugh
Thu Jan 12, 2023, 12:44 AM
Jan 2023

how can people who no doubt have experienced oppression turn around and do it so easily to others

vercetti2021

(10,403 posts)
3. I'm so tired of religion dictating how you treat others
Thu Jan 12, 2023, 01:08 AM
Jan 2023

So fucking what if she is trans? She dedicated herself to her religion and her own. For what? To basically get told to fuck off once it came out she was trans.

Religion is a poison

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