Addiction & Recovery
Related: About this forumEntering a tough season
It's not as hard abstaining in the winter. But when it starts getting warm out, an ice cold vodka and tonic sure sounds good. I think I'll just have a big ol' tonic water on the rocks with a slice of lime tonight. That should get me through. Sometimes, especially when my wife is drinking, I'll just retreat to my bedroom and watch some tv.
SheltieLover
(81,683 posts)Good for you. Hang in there, buddy. You can do it. You've been doing it.
It's been 7 1/2 years. Like they say: It's never easy, but it does get easier.
Timewas
(2,776 posts)42 years later I rarley if ever even think about about drinking, unless I read something like this and recall how bad things were...
biophile
(1,549 posts)My favorite coach used to say Im not telling you its going to be easy; Im telling you that its going to be worth it
Whip-poor-will
(507 posts)Same ,TNTs here but if I brought any bottle of Tanqueray in the house it would be GONE before the weekend is over , I used to do 1.5 liters a weekend .
Now I miss it but I don't .
mitch96
(15,875 posts)Last edited Mon May 18, 2026, 11:05 AM - Edit history (1)
bif
(27,226 posts)mitch96
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