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bif

(27,226 posts)
Sun May 17, 2026, 12:47 PM Yesterday

Entering a tough season

It's not as hard abstaining in the winter. But when it starts getting warm out, an ice cold vodka and tonic sure sounds good. I think I'll just have a big ol' tonic water on the rocks with a slice of lime tonight. That should get me through. Sometimes, especially when my wife is drinking, I'll just retreat to my bedroom and watch some tv.

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Entering a tough season (Original Post) bif Yesterday OP
Great strategy, Bif! SheltieLover Yesterday #1
Thanks! bif Yesterday #2
It does get easier Timewas Yesterday #5
Definitely admire your strength. Congratulations and stay on the path! biophile Yesterday #3
starting 10th year Whip-poor-will Yesterday #4
For me in the summer it's a cold beer...I loved beer..Made my own...became a beer snob and stopped.nt mitch96 19 hrs ago #6
The NA beers have gotten quite good! bif 15 hrs ago #7
I can resist anything but temptation...One is too many....1000 is not enough....nt mitch96 3 hrs ago #8

SheltieLover

(81,683 posts)
1. Great strategy, Bif!
Sun May 17, 2026, 12:48 PM
Yesterday

Good for you. Hang in there, buddy. You can do it. You've been doing it.

bif

(27,226 posts)
2. Thanks!
Sun May 17, 2026, 12:50 PM
Yesterday

It's been 7 1/2 years. Like they say: It's never easy, but it does get easier.

Timewas

(2,776 posts)
5. It does get easier
Sun May 17, 2026, 01:07 PM
Yesterday

42 years later I rarley if ever even think about about drinking, unless I read something like this and recall how bad things were...

biophile

(1,549 posts)
3. Definitely admire your strength. Congratulations and stay on the path!
Sun May 17, 2026, 12:51 PM
Yesterday

My favorite coach used to say “I’m not telling you it’s going to be easy; I’m telling you that it’s going to be worth it”

Whip-poor-will

(507 posts)
4. starting 10th year
Sun May 17, 2026, 01:04 PM
Yesterday

Same ,TNTs here but if I brought any bottle of Tanqueray in the house it would be GONE before the weekend is over , I used to do 1.5 liters a weekend .

Now I miss it but I don't .

mitch96

(15,875 posts)
6. For me in the summer it's a cold beer...I loved beer..Made my own...became a beer snob and stopped.nt
Sun May 17, 2026, 06:42 PM
19 hrs ago

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mitch96

(15,875 posts)
8. I can resist anything but temptation...One is too many....1000 is not enough....nt
Mon May 18, 2026, 11:06 AM
3 hrs ago

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