Huge breakthrough for me

[vercetti2021]

So...as many here know I've posted numerous times about my mental health for about a year or so. But last month I added gender dysphoria to my on going list of issues. But I've come to realize what I believe is causing my depression for so many years. I kept myself in huge denial about who I am deep down.

So I've talked about how my feminine side was more stronger than my masculine side. Well talking to friends and family they told me they've know for many years I have been much more feminine and I agree. I don't believe I'll ever be masculine. I'm much more into female life. So on top of that as a child and teenager. I always had thoughts about being a female and well I've come stop denying that everything I denied was just a phase.

No I firmly believe i was never meant to be a man. So starting next year. I'm going to start transition therapy. I want to be happy with who I am and who I'm meant to be. It's so scary but exciting to finally stop denying myself happiness.

Just wanted everyone that has talked to me and has cared about me to know. Love you all

[CaliforniaPeggy]

1. That is just wonderful news, my dear vercetti2021!

I wish you a smooth path as you transition to who you're meant to be. I'm sure it's scary but change in any form is.

I want you to be happy! And that is more important than any other aspect of your life.

[vercetti2021]

13. I think I hurt my mom the most

I was worried about that. She is having a very hard time right now

[Tribalceltic]

2. Good for you!

Be who you want to be!

[chillfactor]

3. Bless you on your new path forward.....

it takes a great deal of courage to become the new person you are inside. My prayers will accompany you all the way through your journey!

[elleng]

4. Love you, thanks for sharing,

and keep us informed!

[MLAA]

5. How wonderful! Congratulations on your breakthrough!💕

[blueinredohio]

6. Do whatever is best for you and makes you happy.

Good luck.

[RGinNJ]

7. Wow that is wonderful!

[littlemissmartypants]

8. Stay strong and stay encouraged. Wishing you all the best on your exciting, new journey. ❤ nt

[JohnnyLib2]

9. You sound very much like a friend who has transitioned.

That was a few years back and she is very happy currently. She has always talked about the realization and the decision just like you are.

Congratulations and all kinds of good wishes for the future you want!

[vercetti2021]

12. Thank you

Did she have trouble with her parents? My mom is accepting but shes having the hardest time right now. My dad...yeah I doubt I'll tell him. He'll more than likely disown me

[JohnnyLib2]

15. The friend was older and parent had died.

There was trouble with former associates and church members, but she has stayed steady and changed at least a few minds. I think it was important that at least a few spoke up for her.

We also know some a grandparent-aged couple who had a child transition and are wholly supportive, as is a sibling. Heartwarming!

[vercetti2021]

16. That's good

I guess I'm just having very big worries right now

[fierywoman]

10. Blessings to you for a calm journey!

[42bambi]

11. May you reach your goal and love being you. Wishing you great joy ahead.

[better]

14. Above all, to thine own self be true.

Glad to hear of you following your heart. There will be haters and detractors, ignore them.
You are the only one who gets any say, and those most worth having in your life will support you unconditionally.