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Siwsan

(27,490 posts)
Thu Mar 13, 2025, 02:41 PM Mar 13

My boy is home

He has one of those collars on and is NOT happy about it. They said to keep him in it for`10 days, although I'm not sure he will tolerate it for that long. None of my other kid cats were sent home in them.

They tried to feed him but he wouldn't eat. As soon as I took him out of the carrier, I had 2 Churu treats for him. He gobbled them down.

They did say to try and restrict his activity level, too, so I brought out one of the pet play pens. Now to find a small litter box for him.

As soon as he settles down I will try to get a photo of him. I do hear him playing with the track ball so I guess he's fully out of drowsy mode.

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My boy is home (Original Post) Siwsan Mar 13 OP
Glad he is eating & doing well, except for the cone of shame. SheltieLover Mar 13 #1
I'm going to see if I can find one of those inflatable ones. They are much more comfortable. Siwsan Mar 13 #3
I wonder if it was the same vet & tech who set him up for after care SheltieLover Mar 13 #12
I agree- collars make it very difficult to eat and biophile Mar 13 #28
10 days sounds like a really long time. Collar or "cone of shame"? 3catwoman3 Mar 13 #2
I agree Siwsan Mar 13 #4
I used to advise parents at the pediatric office... 3catwoman3 Mar 13 #5
Who is the gentlest with him? JMCKUSICK Mar 13 #22
He's adjusting. Siwsan Mar 13 #23
Why that little trouble maker lol JMCKUSICK Mar 13 #24
I just had the first round of snuggles Siwsan Mar 13 #25
Yay JMCKUSICK Mar 13 #26
Glad his name isn't Roy.. BattleRow Mar 13 #19
Sounds like he's going to be fine.. Permanut Mar 13 #6
No one likes hospital food. Glad he is home. Seems he will heal quickly. Polly Hennessey Mar 13 #7
Excellent, I understand the relief you feel Walleye Mar 13 #8
Siwsan CentralBlueTexan Mar 13 #9
Ive probably had 500 cats neutered....NEVER had one collared, much less to Karadeniz Mar 13 #10
I agree. TNNurse Mar 13 #11
I've gotten all of my kid cats 'fixed' at this clinic and the never put a cone on any of the Siwsan Mar 13 #14
Never had any problems with boys bothering their surgical site. Now the girls are another story! Ziggysmom Mar 13 #13
I never had problems with the others Siwsan Mar 13 #15
Welcome home, little guy! Jean Genie Mar 13 #16
Be careful about removing a cone. Arrgh Mar 13 #17
Now he is wearing a soft, inflatable collar Siwsan Mar 13 #18
Nuggets..that is so charming..never heard that before. BattleRow Mar 13 #20
Yay JMCKUSICK Mar 13 #21
I had a cat in for a wound and he was sent home with a collar, he didn't like it one bit. I went to Walmart Hotler Mar 13 #27

Siwsan

(27,490 posts)
3. I'm going to see if I can find one of those inflatable ones. They are much more comfortable.
Thu Mar 13, 2025, 02:53 PM
Mar 13

Meantime, I might cut this one back a bit. I honestly don't see how he could possible eat with it on so I'll either take it off at meal time or just spoon feed him.

SheltieLover

(65,624 posts)
12. I wonder if it was the same vet & tech who set him up for after care
Thu Mar 13, 2025, 04:10 PM
Mar 13

If a new tech, maybe they put all critters in a cone? My fur kids have always come home in a cone, but I never leave it on and they do fine.

biophile

(678 posts)
28. I agree- collars make it very difficult to eat and
Thu Mar 13, 2025, 07:45 PM
Mar 13

They cause water to spill so cats can become dehydrated. I hope you can get one of the little inflatable ones. I’ve never had a male cat come home in one, either, though- as far as I can remember.

3catwoman3

(26,442 posts)
2. 10 days sounds like a really long time. Collar or "cone of shame"?
Thu Mar 13, 2025, 02:51 PM
Mar 13

Good to hear he is playing with the track ball.

Siwsan

(27,490 posts)
4. I agree
Thu Mar 13, 2025, 03:01 PM
Mar 13

The others healed just fine without one, at all. I'm going to work on figuring out something more comfortable.

3catwoman3

(26,442 posts)
5. I used to advise parents at the pediatric office...
Thu Mar 13, 2025, 03:09 PM
Mar 13

…when they would ask if they should keep their kids quiet while they were sick, “If you can’t keep a kid down, you probably don’t need to.”

Kids are pretty good at self-regulating, and I suspect the same is true of animals.

JMCKUSICK

(1,671 posts)
22. Who is the gentlest with him?
Thu Mar 13, 2025, 05:39 PM
Mar 13

Maybe you can set up time with you Merlin and Arthur? As in lap and alone time in a separate space?

Siwsan

(27,490 posts)
23. He's adjusting.
Thu Mar 13, 2025, 06:20 PM
Mar 13

Any time there's a tussle it is started by Merlin!

Hopefully he will snuggle up with me. He did that last night, for the whole night.

JMCKUSICK

(1,671 posts)
24. Why that little trouble maker lol
Thu Mar 13, 2025, 07:19 PM
Mar 13

He knows where his safe space is and I'm sure he'll still have some pain. I hope you get that great benefit of an extra nights snuggles

JMCKUSICK

(1,671 posts)
26. Yay
Thu Mar 13, 2025, 07:31 PM
Mar 13

I love that little boy and I smile ear to ear when you give good news like that.
Makes my heart sing.
Thank you.

Permanut

(6,912 posts)
6. Sounds like he's going to be fine..
Thu Mar 13, 2025, 03:12 PM
Mar 13

We just went through that with Bijou, six months old. He had to wear the party hat for a week - glad that's done! He had the operation in February.

He's back to doing zoomies at a hundred miles an hour.

Polly Hennessey

(7,767 posts)
7. No one likes hospital food. Glad he is home. Seems he will heal quickly.
Thu Mar 13, 2025, 03:23 PM
Mar 13

Never used a cone on any of my cats and never had a problem. Guess it’s best to be cautious though.

Karadeniz

(24,037 posts)
10. Ive probably had 500 cats neutered....NEVER had one collared, much less to
Thu Mar 13, 2025, 03:48 PM
Mar 13

wear one for 10 days.... take it off!!!

TNNurse

(7,284 posts)
11. I agree.
Thu Mar 13, 2025, 04:06 PM
Mar 13

We have recently had feral cats neutered. We kept them in one night. No collar and no other restrictions. We had two females done as well. All did fine and have become almost our cats. We can pet and feed them but no picking them up. The clinic we used had a grant and ferals were free, but we paid the normal fee anyway. Seemed the right thing to do.

10 days seems ridiculous.

Siwsan

(27,490 posts)
14. I've gotten all of my kid cats 'fixed' at this clinic and the never put a cone on any of the
Thu Mar 13, 2025, 04:38 PM
Mar 13

The place has been here for over 60 years but one partner bought out the other and there have been some changes. Most are great. They also have vet techs, undoubtedly some on an internship, who probably tend to be overly cautious.

I'll just keep checking on him but he seems to be adjusting MUCH better to this collar.

Ziggysmom

(3,746 posts)
13. Never had any problems with boys bothering their surgical site. Now the girls are another story!
Thu Mar 13, 2025, 04:26 PM
Mar 13

Had one start to eviscerate from chewing and tugging the sutures. Not sure how she could do that; when I had surgery I could hardly touch my sutures the first few days!

Siwsan

(27,490 posts)
15. I never had problems with the others
Thu Mar 13, 2025, 04:46 PM
Mar 13

Both male and female.

He doesn't have stiches so I'm guessing they used surgical glue. He's still so small, the incisions will likely heal pretty quickly. I'll just keep an eye on him try to keep his self maintenance to a minimum.

Jean Genie

(444 posts)
16. Welcome home, little guy!
Thu Mar 13, 2025, 05:03 PM
Mar 13

Happy to hear the ordeal is over and he's home - safe and sound. Except for the doggone collar! Ten days?! I can't picture him going for that!

Arrgh

(19 posts)
17. Be careful about removing a cone.
Thu Mar 13, 2025, 05:21 PM
Mar 13

I myself have removed them, but my sister had a cat chew her stitches out after a spay with potentially fatal results had she not gotten her back to the vet quickly.

Depending on the site and the temperament of the cat/dog, onesies are available on Amazon that can work rather well. We got one for Dexter after he had a large section of colon removed when we discovered cancer. It made him much more comfortable. We still miss him terribly.

Siwsan

(27,490 posts)
18. Now he is wearing a soft, inflatable collar
Thu Mar 13, 2025, 05:26 PM
Mar 13

He's done a pretty quick adjustment to it. It's so much easier for him to eat and drink.

I'm sure they used a surgical glue on him. His nuggets were still pretty small so I'm sure the incisions are, too. I am going to keep a close watch on him.

JMCKUSICK

(1,671 posts)
21. Yay
Thu Mar 13, 2025, 05:37 PM
Mar 13

Does he get that because he's such a small boy? And is he on the younger side of the snip age scale?

Hotler

(12,927 posts)
27. I had a cat in for a wound and he was sent home with a collar, he didn't like it one bit. I went to Walmart
Thu Mar 13, 2025, 07:32 PM
Mar 13

and got him a onesie, trimmed it some and he was happy. I was happy too.

Pro Tip: Wash the plastic collars really good you can reuse them as cutting boards in the kitchen.

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