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guillaumeb

(42,649 posts)
Sat Mar 23, 2019, 03:15 PM Mar 2019

Should theists learn to accept being treated with contempt?

Should women learn to accept misogyny?

Should racial minorities learn to accept racism?

Should LGBTQ people learn to accept discrimination?

Should the poor earn to accept an economic system that disenfranchises them?


The real question should not speak of accepting blasphemy, or racism, or misogyny.

The real question should be, how can we move past these various examples of intolerance?

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Should theists learn to accept being treated with contempt? (Original Post) guillaumeb Mar 2019 OP
Should flat-earthers learn to accept being treated with contempt? ret5hd Mar 2019 #1
The flat earth "theory" is easily disproven. eom guillaumeb Mar 2019 #2
If you're a grown adult you who believes in tooth fairies and magic and such Blues Heron Mar 2019 #3
A silly and reducionistic premise. guillaumeb Mar 2019 #5
The reason few take you seriously is because you try to float nonsense like this OP Major Nikon Mar 2019 #8
More framing. guillaumeb Mar 2019 #10
But you don't think pretending religion is no different than any other protected class is "framing" Major Nikon Mar 2019 #13
More channelling? guillaumeb Mar 2019 #15
More gibberish Major Nikon Mar 2019 #17
There's no difference between the goddess of teeth and your yaweh or allah or thor Blues Heron Mar 2019 #9
Ancient maps evidence flat earth beliefs Bretton Garcia Mar 2019 #28
Everyone knows that the invisible force field prevents the ships from falling. eom guillaumeb Mar 2019 #29
Invisible gravity... Bretton Garcia Mar 2019 #67
No, they knew the earth was round Lordquinton Mar 2019 #46
Yes. But how many believed him? Bretton Garcia Mar 2019 #50
The maps have clever illistrations Lordquinton Mar 2019 #51
Christians today like to say they didn't take the maps literally. Bretton Garcia Mar 2019 #52
And sailors were (are?) Very suspicious Lordquinton Mar 2019 #54
If religions erred in the past? Bretton Garcia Mar 2019 #65
There are pleanty of things religion got wrong Lordquinton Mar 2019 #66
People who can only think with analogies shouldn't be taken seriously to begin with Major Nikon Mar 2019 #6
So logical failure is what dictates the acceptability of contempt Major Nikon Mar 2019 #4
Again, guillaumeb Mar 2019 #7
Once again you insist on forming a strawman argument that is easily debunked Major Nikon Mar 2019 #11
Channeling your inner M? guillaumeb Mar 2019 #12
Gibberish Major Nikon Mar 2019 #14
Observation. guillaumeb Mar 2019 #16
Are you born with a religion? MineralMan Mar 2019 #36
At least the flat earth "theory" Eko Mar 2019 #33
What if there is no proof for a flat earth. MineralMan Mar 2019 #35
... Major Nikon Mar 2019 #18
Finally. guillaumeb Mar 2019 #19
Cultivating your canned replies Major Nikon Mar 2019 #20
I am still looking for that theists who calls opponents deceiver. guillaumeb Mar 2019 #21
Duplicity noted Major Nikon Mar 2019 #22
Noted: guillaumeb Mar 2019 #25
Lol tymorial Mar 2019 #31
Why not? Glamrock Mar 2019 #23
But should you, or anyone, have to learn that? guillaumeb Mar 2019 #24
Of course I shouldn't have to learn that, brother. Glamrock Mar 2019 #44
You should define contempt... Thomas Hurt Mar 2019 #26
Contempt in a strictly verbal sense. guillaumeb Mar 2019 #37
Aren't some theists supposed to be ready for that? TlalocW Mar 2019 #27
Are there 2 standards of acceptable conduct ? guillaumeb Mar 2019 #38
Is that what you do? Treat others as you wish to be treated? MineralMan Mar 2019 #62
"Should we not treat others as we wish to be treated?" trotsky Mar 2019 #64
Here we go again tymorial Mar 2019 #30
Your analogy is flawed Alpeduez21 Mar 2019 #32
Christians like Gil are so oppressed in this country. Mariana Mar 2019 #68
Should theists treat atheists with contempt? MineralMan Mar 2019 #34
Please try to stay on topic. guillaumeb Mar 2019 #39
I do not take instructions from you, sir. MineralMan Mar 2019 #40
Do you really see blasphemy in the same category as racism and misogyny? muriel_volestrangler Mar 2019 #41
The real question should be, how can we move past these various examples of intolerance? guillaumeb Mar 2019 #42
So how did "blasphemy" creep into your OP? muriel_volestrangler Mar 2019 #43
And there go the goalposts! Lordquinton Mar 2019 #47
Is blasphemy a form of intolerance? trotsky Mar 2019 #58
You were asked a question. Why did you not answer it? MineralMan Mar 2019 #61
You make a very good point. gtar100 Mar 2019 #45
So the things you are asking about are not equal Lordquinton Mar 2019 #48
Jesus said to rejoice and be glad when that happens. Mariana Mar 2019 #49
There's a spectrum of theists, some of whom are humanists who believe in Jesus, Allah, and more. no_hypocrisy Mar 2019 #53
Blasphemy? Are you serious? Voltaire2 Mar 2019 #55
Apparently so...It's a conflationgasm! MineralMan Mar 2019 #56
Yes, he is seriously trying to protect religious privilege... trotsky Mar 2019 #59
Maybe theists *should* learn... Act_of_Reparation Mar 2019 #57
Should the theists of Westboro Baptist Church learn to accept being treated with contempt? trotsky Mar 2019 #60
Should Right Wing Trumpster accept being treated with contempt? edhopper Mar 2019 #63

Blues Heron

(6,209 posts)
3. If you're a grown adult you who believes in tooth fairies and magic and such
Sat Mar 23, 2019, 03:29 PM
Mar 2019

you really can't expect to be taken seriously by any thinking person. That's just a fact.

Major Nikon

(36,911 posts)
8. The reason few take you seriously is because you try to float nonsense like this OP
Sat Mar 23, 2019, 03:40 PM
Mar 2019

Do you honestly expect people to respect stupid ideas? If so you are going to be disappointed often.

Major Nikon

(36,911 posts)
13. But you don't think pretending religion is no different than any other protected class is "framing"
Sat Mar 23, 2019, 03:46 PM
Mar 2019

Very telling that.

Learn how to think, Gil.

Blues Heron

(6,209 posts)
9. There's no difference between the goddess of teeth and your yaweh or allah or thor
Sat Mar 23, 2019, 03:40 PM
Mar 2019

same idea.

Bretton Garcia

(970 posts)
28. Ancient maps evidence flat earth beliefs
Sat Mar 23, 2019, 04:51 PM
Mar 2019

Ships are pictured coming to the edge of a flat earth, like the edge of a table ... and falling off.

A few more sophisticated persons in ancient times suspected the world was round. But they were in a tiny minority. Until say, Magellan circumnavigates the globe, etc..

Bretton Garcia

(970 posts)
67. Invisible gravity...
Wed Mar 27, 2019, 02:26 AM
Mar 2019

..was never mentioned in the Bible, it seems likely. For which invisible spirits seem mostly about psychological spirit.

Lordquinton

(7,886 posts)
46. No, they knew the earth was round
Sat Mar 23, 2019, 09:45 PM
Mar 2019

Eratosthenes of Cyrene did an experiment that proved it, and even calculated the size with pretty close accuracy.

Bretton Garcia

(970 posts)
50. Yes. But how many believed him?
Sun Mar 24, 2019, 02:05 AM
Mar 2019

Today a common complaint by atheists, against religion, is that Christian Medievals believed in miracles, creationism, and a "flat earth."

Christian apologists have tried to argue that THEY never believed any such thing. And your example suggests that indeed, some (pagan?) intellectuals guessed the world was round. However, many Christian maps still seem to reflect backward beliefs, in a flat earth.

Everyday Christians were not up to date, compared to science and intellectuals.

Lordquinton

(7,886 posts)
51. The maps have clever illistrations
Sun Mar 24, 2019, 02:15 AM
Mar 2019

that play with the constraints of a piece of paper where the illustrator had fun. It's really hard to nail down whether it was known or not, but we can confirm that many times across the centuries they did know that it was round. For example Columbus wasn't concerned if the earth was flat or round, he just wanted to find a better route, and thought he could get there a new way. His expedition was too expensive, not that people thought he would sail off the edge of the world.

Every day christians probably didn't even consider the world outside their county very much, except for soldiers who were sent to war and then were lucky enough to make it home.

Bretton Garcia

(970 posts)
52. Christians today like to say they didn't take the maps literally.
Sun Mar 24, 2019, 06:25 AM
Mar 2019

And that they never misread all that.

But knowing Christians as we do?

The maps also often showed monsters at the edge of the world. And we know when faced with Terra Incognita, or unknown territories, many peoples were fearful; and felt there might be - or even said there were - monsters there.

This persisted as late as 1960 or so. When some people were still looking for say, Big Foot in the unexplored northern woods. Or the Loch Ness monster in Scotland.

Or to this day, Noah's Ark in Turkey

Lordquinton

(7,886 posts)
54. And sailors were (are?) Very suspicious
Sun Mar 24, 2019, 12:49 PM
Mar 2019

But they could see ships sail past the horizon and come back.

The world was less known, and there were large creatures still wandering around back then. Imagine describing an elephant or a moose to someone a Continent away.

I feel it's not a truly valid comparison between today and a thousand years ago. Among the learned it was known and accepted the earth was round. Most people were not educated so they wouldn't have reason know otherwise. Now we have access to all the world's collected knowledge at out fingertips and people claim they know better.

Bretton Garcia

(970 posts)
65. If religions erred in the past?
Mon Mar 25, 2019, 04:36 PM
Mar 2019

Then they can be erring today, in similar ... or different ways too.

Once we see they are not as perfect as they often claimed, it seems wise to always keep an eye on them.


Lordquinton

(7,886 posts)
66. There are pleanty of things religion got wrong
Tue Mar 26, 2019, 10:28 AM
Mar 2019

And still do. They don't claim it's flat for the most part (I think) anymore, but that would be an interesting research project.

The Netflix documentary showed more of a conspiracy angle instead of a religious one, but it followed one group of flat earthers. It did, however, show the cult like devotion they have, they find direct evidence they are wrong, they run experiments and say if they find X then the Earth is a sphere and then repeatedly find X, and discard it.

Major Nikon

(36,911 posts)
6. People who can only think with analogies shouldn't be taken seriously to begin with
Sat Mar 23, 2019, 03:38 PM
Mar 2019

Out of all the recognized protected classes, religion is the only one that constitutes nothing more than theology. Equating religion to a biological constant is idiotic. Contempt of a particular gender or race isn't the same thing as contempt of an idea.

Major Nikon

(36,911 posts)
4. So logical failure is what dictates the acceptability of contempt
Sat Mar 23, 2019, 03:30 PM
Mar 2019

Good to know.

Contempt of an idea ≠ contempt of a person. If you think it does, then you might want to put some thought into how attached you are to your idea.

guillaumeb

(42,649 posts)
7. Again,
Sat Mar 23, 2019, 03:38 PM
Mar 2019

Should women learn to accept misogyny?

Should racial minorities learn to accept racism?

Should LGBTQ people learn to accept discrimination?

Should the poor earn to accept an economic system that disenfranchises them?

If anyone feels a need to demonstrate contempt for the vast majority of your fellow humans, what does that demonstrate about that person?

Major Nikon

(36,911 posts)
11. Once again you insist on forming a strawman argument that is easily debunked
Sat Mar 23, 2019, 03:44 PM
Mar 2019

Contempt of an idea ≠ contempt of a person.

When you continue to insist on your easily debunked logical fallacy, your credibility is going to suffer. Learn how to think, Gil.

Eko

(8,576 posts)
33. At least the flat earth "theory"
Sat Mar 23, 2019, 06:25 PM
Mar 2019

is a claim that people are making that can be proved or disproved. Their claim actually makes some kind of sense compared to the one religions do.

guillaumeb

(42,649 posts)
21. I am still looking for that theists who calls opponents deceiver.
Sat Mar 23, 2019, 04:00 PM
Mar 2019

A site search was unproductive.

guillaumeb

(42,649 posts)
25. Noted:
Sat Mar 23, 2019, 04:35 PM
Mar 2019
Lots of Christians think non-Christians are tools of the devil. We have a regular here who calls his detractors “deceiver” which is code-speak for the devil. The idea is if you aren’t with them, you must be against them and working for the other side. Many of them are indoctrinated with these warped ideas from childhood.

Glamrock

(11,994 posts)
23. Why not?
Sat Mar 23, 2019, 04:33 PM
Mar 2019

I’ve learned to accept being treated with contempt by some religious folks. It’s a two way street.

guillaumeb

(42,649 posts)
24. But should you, or anyone, have to learn that?
Sat Mar 23, 2019, 04:34 PM
Mar 2019

Would it not be better if we did treat others as we wish to be treated?

Or is it human nature to do otherwise?

Glamrock

(11,994 posts)
44. Of course I shouldn't have to learn that, brother.
Sat Mar 23, 2019, 08:05 PM
Mar 2019

And of course it would be better if we treated others as we expected to be treated. Unfortunately, here on planet earth, that's not the way it works.

Athiests treat people of religion with contempt because they hold to beliefs that are no more than superstitions, in the eyes of the athiest. And the religious hold people like me in contempt for either insulting the deity they believe in by not believing, or for opening the door to the possibility that their beliefs may not be based in reality.

I could give a shit less, as long as person A's beliefs don't trample on the rights of person B, dig? But again, here on planet earth, that's not how things work.

So yeah man, that's human nature. Sorry it took so many words to get an answer my friend....

Thomas Hurt

(13,929 posts)
26. You should define contempt...
Sat Mar 23, 2019, 04:39 PM
Mar 2019

If someone disagrees with you is that contempt?

If someone says something about Christianity that offends you is that contempt?

Does contempt include being physically assaulted?

If someone does teat you with contempt do you expect that their freedom to believe or speak should be curtailed?

TlalocW

(15,631 posts)
27. Aren't some theists supposed to be ready for that?
Sat Mar 23, 2019, 04:51 PM
Mar 2019

At least in Christianity, doesn't the Bible tell its adherents to expect it?

TlalocW

guillaumeb

(42,649 posts)
38. Are there 2 standards of acceptable conduct ?
Sat Mar 23, 2019, 07:05 PM
Mar 2019

Should we not treat others as we wish to be treated?

MineralMan

(147,853 posts)
62. Is that what you do? Treat others as you wish to be treated?
Mon Mar 25, 2019, 12:33 PM
Mar 2019

If so, what is your complaint?

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
64. "Should we not treat others as we wish to be treated?"
Mon Mar 25, 2019, 01:50 PM
Mar 2019

But you don't follow that philosophy. You've admitted as such.

Instead you judge others, and then dispense eye-for-an-eye justice. You desire to punish others until they conform to the standards you want to set for them. (Reserving the right for yourself, of course, to follow a different set of standards.)

Alpeduez21

(1,867 posts)
32. Your analogy is flawed
Sat Mar 23, 2019, 05:13 PM
Mar 2019

Women don't try and force me to live like a woman when they want legislation for equality.

Minorities don't try and force me to live like a minority when they want legislation for equality.

The LGBTQ community doesn't try and force me to live like a member of the LGBTQ community when they want legislation for equality

The poor don't ask people to give up wealth when they ask for legislation for a living wage and social surfaces.

These examples you gave merely want the constitution to be enforced.

The real question is not should theists learn to accept contempt. It's when will they stop trying to usurp the constitution with biblical law?

muriel_volestrangler

(102,627 posts)
41. Do you really see blasphemy in the same category as racism and misogyny?
Sat Mar 23, 2019, 07:39 PM
Mar 2019

A reminder of the definition at the start of the thread that seems to have set you off:

Blasphemy is the act of insulting or showing contempt or lack of reverence for a religious deity or the irreverence towards religious or holy persons or things, or toward something considered sacred or inviolable.[1][2] Blasphemies can also mean any irreverent or disrespectful action or remark.[3] Some countries have laws to punish religious blasphemy,[4] while others have laws that sanction those who are offended by blasphemy to effect their wrath on blasphemers. Those laws may condone penalties or retaliation for blasphemy under the labels of blasphemous libel,[5] expression of opposition, or "vilification," of religion or of some religious practices,[6][7] religious insult,[8] or hate speech.[9] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Blasphemy


"Deities", "holy persons" (living? Who gets to declare a person "holy"?), "things", or "something". Not classes of people, which racism and misogyny are about. The poor and LGBTQ people are classes of people too.

Are you really saying that sacred objects, or supernatural beings, have the rights and expectations that humans have? That we must show reverence to any person declared "holy", rather than treating them as a human being just like us?

You're cheapening the idea of human rights, for the sake of unproven ghosts, charlatans, and relics. You're trying to paint yourself as someone concerned with the poor, etc. rather than someone who wants to use them as a prop in a poorly thought-out argument.

guillaumeb

(42,649 posts)
42. The real question should be, how can we move past these various examples of intolerance?
Sat Mar 23, 2019, 07:42 PM
Mar 2019

And that is my point.

muriel_volestrangler

(102,627 posts)
43. So how did "blasphemy" creep into your OP?
Sat Mar 23, 2019, 07:47 PM
Mar 2019

It is not "intolerance", just as stating "ghosts don't exist" or "Michael Jackson was a paedophile" is not "intolerance".

Lordquinton

(7,886 posts)
47. And there go the goalposts!
Sat Mar 23, 2019, 09:47 PM
Mar 2019

Funny how you chastized MM for being off topic, then posted this.

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
58. Is blasphemy a form of intolerance?
Mon Mar 25, 2019, 11:25 AM
Mar 2019

Do you feel blasphemers should be punished and/or silenced?

MineralMan

(147,853 posts)
61. You were asked a question. Why did you not answer it?
Mon Mar 25, 2019, 11:57 AM
Mar 2019

Instead, you pose a different question altogether.

Do you consider blasphemy to be intolerance? It's a simple question that was asked you. Do you have an answer?

gtar100

(4,192 posts)
45. You make a very good point.
Sat Mar 23, 2019, 09:11 PM
Mar 2019

In the other thread about blasphemy, I said that one's religion should be able to stand up to criticism but I didn't really take into account what you're referring to, which is other people being harassed and treated with contempt time after time. At that point, there is no dialog and just, well, harassment. Even if one is right on all the facts, being a jerk is just plain wrong.

One issue I see here is with laws pertaining to blasphemy. I don't see how they do any good. They are used to silence criticism, not protect people from harassment. On the other hand, a lot of the vitriol towards religion, and Christianity in particular, that I see and hear both on this board and other places, I see it as a release of a lot of pent up anger toward the oppressive nature many churches and other religious institutions have exhibited throughout history. At this point in time, we have the freedom to speak out without fear of being arrested, tortured and possibly burned at the stake. It makes sense there would be a great deal of contempt for religion in general because of how heavy-handed religious people have been towards others who haven't shared the same beliefs.

All the better for the religions themselves if the criticism and anger burns away those who just used their religion for power and manipulation and to cover up perverted behaviors. A lot of these charlatans that profess such great faith are often the very demons tearing the religion apart. What better way to destroy religion than to corrupt it from the inside out.

So I can understand athiests who really tear into religion with a vengeance but at some point it does become tit-for-tat. And if unchecked, it's just as disrespectful as unwelcome proselytizing by people from a church.

I hope we can discuss religion in a way that goes beyond the reactionary and values the sincerity we all feel about our perspectives and personal experiences. Since the subject is religion, we're talking about some of the deepest mysteries in life. It should be a joy to explore and differences can be acknowledged and appreciated if they don't come with the baggage of demanding everyone else to see and believe - or not believe - the same way. Nature provides us with the most illustrative example of how to live in a world filled with diversity. We ought to be emulating that rather than trying to define the one true way for everyone. It can be done with respect and humility. Why not.

Lordquinton

(7,886 posts)
48. So the things you are asking about are not equal
Sat Mar 23, 2019, 09:50 PM
Mar 2019
The real question should not speak of accepting blasphemy, or racism, or misogyny.


For starters, theists are the majority, and almost always the opressors. Second, racism and misogyny is directed at people, blasphemy is not.

Basically you are saying that your good deserves the same rights and respect as margenalized people.

Mariana

(15,174 posts)
49. Jesus said to rejoice and be glad when that happens.
Sun Mar 24, 2019, 12:31 AM
Mar 2019

"Blessed are you when people insult you, persecute you and falsely say all kinds of evil against you because of me. Rejoice and be glad, because great is your reward in heaven, for in the same way they persecuted the prophets who were before you." - Jesus.

Do you reject this part of Jesus's message, Gil?

no_hypocrisy

(49,049 posts)
53. There's a spectrum of theists, some of whom are humanists who believe in Jesus, Allah, and more.
Sun Mar 24, 2019, 06:45 AM
Mar 2019

I can work with them. I can assist them. I can support them.

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
59. Yes, he is seriously trying to protect religious privilege...
Mon Mar 25, 2019, 11:26 AM
Mar 2019

by comparing blasphemy to actual bigotry against human beings.

Act_of_Reparation

(9,116 posts)
57. Maybe theists *should* learn...
Mon Mar 25, 2019, 08:08 AM
Mar 2019

...not to compare their experience as a disproportionately empowered majority demographic to the systemic oppression of women, people of color, and LGBTQ+ people.

Now quit your whinging. You're embarrassing yourself.

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
60. Should the theists of Westboro Baptist Church learn to accept being treated with contempt?
Mon Mar 25, 2019, 11:30 AM
Mar 2019

I have nothing but contempt for theists who believe that non-straight/non-cis people are going to hell, and that funerals of people who support equality for all should be picketed.

Do you believe people who express intolerance for the beliefs of the Westboro Baptist Church should silence themselves?

YES or NO gil.

Bet you won't answer, because this exposes the fatal flaw in your pathetic attempt to shield your beliefs from criticism. You yourself hold many theistic beliefs in contempt, but it's different when it's YOUR sacred cow, isn't it?

edhopper

(34,998 posts)
63. Should Right Wing Trumpster accept being treated with contempt?
Mon Mar 25, 2019, 12:58 PM
Mar 2019

Should politicians like Steve King and Louis Gomert accept being treated with contempt?

Should pundits like tucker Carlson or Sean Hannity accept being treated with contempt?

Should I go on?

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