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sprinkleeninow

(20,560 posts)
Fri Mar 22, 2019, 10:41 PM Mar 2019

I post pretty frequently in the classical music group, but need to pause for how long I'm not

certain.

My faithful and right arm husband died suddenly at about 6:30 a.m. Wednesday.

I am facing a ton of responsibility put on my not as strong shoulders.

This was a total unexpected shocker.

Medical examiner report not done as yet.

Speculation is massive coronary. Which makes most sense bc of how fast it happened.

You are my dear DU family. Please do not have such sorrow. Or grieve hard.

I only tell you this sad news bc it may be wondered what happened to me.

Love all of you.....







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I post pretty frequently in the classical music group, but need to pause for how long I'm not (Original Post) sprinkleeninow Mar 2019 OP
So sorry! missingthebigdog Mar 2019 #1
Take Care Me. Mar 2019 #2
So sorry. marylandblue Mar 2019 #3
Oh, no! I am so terribly sorry, my friend! Rhiannon12866 Mar 2019 #4
SO sorry, sprinkleeninow elleng Mar 2019 #5
I am so sorry. nt Snotcicles Mar 2019 #6
Memory eternal. I am so sorry. My deepest condolences. shenmue Mar 2019 #7
I'm so sorry! The Velveteen Ocelot Mar 2019 #8
((sprinkle)) blm Mar 2019 #9
I lost my husband last year. I am so sorry. AJT Mar 2019 #10
I am sorry to hear of your loss. yonder Mar 2019 #11
How brave, strong and thoughtful... 3catwoman3 Mar 2019 #12
I'm so sorry KT2000 Mar 2019 #13
Sending you all the best Arctic vibes and major condolences. akraven Mar 2019 #14
Oh sprinkleen.. I'm so sorry. Cha Mar 2019 #15
I'm sorry for your loss. samir.g Mar 2019 #16
I am so sorry irisblue Mar 2019 #17
so very sorry for your sudden loss. SleeplessinSoCal Mar 2019 #18
I am sorry. murielm99 Mar 2019 #19
Words fail denbot Mar 2019 #20
Keep breathing deeply and the shock will fade, although the pain will last much longer. I wish alwaysinasnit Mar 2019 #21
I'm so sorry, dear one. I love the stuff you put up that I've never heard of -- you fierywoman Mar 2019 #22
Dear friend Sprinkleeninow, know that you are and will be in the prayers and thoughts No Vested Interest Mar 2019 #23
I'm so sorry for your loss. Beacool Mar 2019 #24
I am very sorry for your loss, sprinkleenow. LudwigPastorius Mar 2019 #25
Sorry.... Heartstrings Mar 2019 #26
So very sorry for your loss. A reminder that life is so short. YOHABLO Mar 2019 #27
Thinking of you, madamesilverspurs Mar 2019 #28
I am so sorry iamateacher Mar 2019 #29
You will be missed. Hurry back when the time is right. patricia92243 Mar 2019 #30
Oh sprinkle, sending you a prayer for peace and comfort mahina Mar 2019 #31
My sincere condolences for your loss. Dennis Donovan Mar 2019 #32
So sorry for you njhoneybadger Mar 2019 #33
Oh sprinkle, I am so sorry to hear this ms liberty Mar 2019 #34
Oh, I am so sorry! swimboy Mar 2019 #35
Ohhh, I am so sorry to hear about this! AwakeAtLast Mar 2019 #36
You beautiful dear hearts! I am experiencing overwhelming support at this time, my time of profound sprinkleeninow Mar 2019 #37
I'm so sorry to read that. MineralMan Mar 2019 #38
I am sorry. CBHagman Mar 2019 #39

Rhiannon12866

(223,396 posts)
4. Oh, no! I am so terribly sorry, my friend!
Fri Mar 22, 2019, 10:44 PM
Mar 2019

We are a community here and will do all we can to support you - so please let us know how you're doing when you can. Sending love back to you...

The Velveteen Ocelot

(121,224 posts)
8. I'm so sorry!
Fri Mar 22, 2019, 10:54 PM
Mar 2019

My thoughts are with you. Please come back when you're ready, and in the meantime take care of yourself.

akraven

(1,975 posts)
14. Sending you all the best Arctic vibes and major condolences.
Sat Mar 23, 2019, 12:43 AM
Mar 2019

You lived, so you loved. Thanks for letting us know.

SleeplessinSoCal

(9,712 posts)
18. so very sorry for your sudden loss.
Sat Mar 23, 2019, 12:51 AM
Mar 2019

Best of luck for attaining the strength you need to get through one day at a time. And may your classical music catalogue help along the way.

alwaysinasnit

(5,275 posts)
21. Keep breathing deeply and the shock will fade, although the pain will last much longer. I wish
Sat Mar 23, 2019, 01:30 AM
Mar 2019

strength for you to deal with your loss and know that we will welcome you back with joy when you are ready.

fierywoman

(8,125 posts)
22. I'm so sorry, dear one. I love the stuff you put up that I've never heard of -- you
Sat Mar 23, 2019, 01:30 AM
Mar 2019

broaden my world. My heart to you at this time.

No Vested Interest

(5,201 posts)
23. Dear friend Sprinkleeninow, know that you are and will be in the prayers and thoughts
Sat Mar 23, 2019, 01:31 AM
Mar 2019

of the many you have consoled and reached out to on DU.

I also know that you are part of a strong faith community who will wrap their arms around you and bring you the strength you will need at this time and into the future.

We at DU will miss you and your wisdom, but we can go to the many offerings you have posted in the classical music group and choose to listen to what ever suits us at the moment.

Take very good care of yourself during this difficult time, and feel the love of so many.

Beacool

(30,329 posts)
24. I'm so sorry for your loss.
Sat Mar 23, 2019, 01:33 AM
Mar 2019

I can't imagine the shock of losing your husband so suddenly. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. My sincerest condolences to all of you.




LudwigPastorius

(10,956 posts)
25. I am very sorry for your loss, sprinkleenow.
Sat Mar 23, 2019, 01:36 AM
Mar 2019

May you find a measure of solace in the many sweet memories of him you surely have.

madamesilverspurs

(16,066 posts)
28. Thinking of you,
Sat Mar 23, 2019, 01:44 AM
Mar 2019

and remembering how many times you posted music that conveyed blessings when most needed. May some of those blessings return to you now!


.

mahina

(18,988 posts)
31. Oh sprinkle, sending you a prayer for peace and comfort
Sat Mar 23, 2019, 03:21 AM
Mar 2019

And a prayer for safe passage for your dear husband. May your love light his path. He’ll be there to welcome you one day.

Aloha and love to you.

ms liberty

(9,857 posts)
34. Oh sprinkle, I am so sorry to hear this
Sat Mar 23, 2019, 07:08 AM
Mar 2019

I know how hard it is to lose a loved one in this sudden, unexpected way. Ill be thinking of you and sending you love and strength.

swimboy

(7,309 posts)
35. Oh, I am so sorry!
Sat Mar 23, 2019, 07:46 PM
Mar 2019

This must be so difficult compounded by the unexpectedness. Hoping for the greatest grace in getting through it. I’m so sorry.

sprinkleeninow

(20,560 posts)
37. You beautiful dear hearts! I am experiencing overwhelming support at this time, my time of profound
Sat Mar 23, 2019, 07:57 PM
Mar 2019

sadness.

The out pouring from our street neighbors, those in church community, grocery store staff [yes], his company nationwide... I am overwhelmed.

I need to preserve myself for my dogga daughter who is so great a comfort to me. My responsibility.

I am hating this pressure to attend to all this added planning for his final stay in our presence. Then the legal stuff.

Today was rough. I go up, down, sideways.

I want to be okay and survive this.

I never even remotely thought of something such as this coming to our 'house'.

All your prayers, good vibes, positive thoughts are sustaining me. It's spirit to spirit. And for this I humbly thank you.

Love....

CBHagman

(17,149 posts)
39. I am sorry.
Sun Mar 31, 2019, 09:23 PM
Mar 2019

May his life with you always be a source of strength and blessing.

May peace and comfort surround you and fill you.

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