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Joe Nation

(1,082 posts)
Wed Dec 4, 2024, 02:06 PM Dec 2024

I have never felt akin to Atheists nor believers

Maybe you feel the same way, maybe not. I feel that neither group can really ever know that a God exists or doesn't exist but both groups seem absolutely certain that their ideology is the correct one. How could either really know?

I have always felt that the personification of some supernatural diety is nothing more than a self-serving view propagated by religious systems seeking power over their "flocks" for the sole purpose of building their own empires of dominance. Conversely, the non-believers gather around the idea of A-theism in what can only be described as an opposition to all the belief systems they reject.

I simply do not what to believe in fairytales or define my beliefs as the opposite of those fairytales. I don't find either side an ideology that I can get behind.

My question would have to be; What would a world that never had a concept of a diety or a concept of an opposition to the idea of a diety look like?

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I have never felt akin to Atheists nor believers (Original Post) Joe Nation Dec 2024 OP
Atheism is not a religion. Basso8vb Dec 2024 #1
This is the AI answer and I tend to agree with it. walkingman Dec 2024 #2
You're an Agnostic. Think. Again. Dec 2024 #3
Lol. Dark n Stormy Knight Mar 8 #37
It's hard to prove a negative, but the likelihood of a diety seems very low, like infinitesimally low. Blues Heron Dec 2024 #4
"single celled organisms got woke" Beartracks Dec 2024 #5
I don't completely dismiss the idea of a diety, but... av8rdave Dec 2024 #6
Still grasping. Dark n Stormy Knight Mar 8 #38
Yours is a point worth repeating av8rdave Mar 10 #48
Succinctly put! I can't understand why this is such Dark n Stormy Knight Mar 10 #49
I think it's natural that we ask where we come from. How it all started. CrispyQ Dec 2024 #7
That always tops my list too! The religious person Dark n Stormy Knight Mar 8 #43
I am an atheist Americanme Dec 2024 #8
Being religious I absolutely agree with this post Stargazer99 Dec 2024 #15
100% agree. Dark n Stormy Knight Mar 8 #39
I dismiss deities like unicorns. Cartoonist Dec 2024 #9
It is correct neither can prove their position. HAB911 Dec 2024 #10
Depends on what god Buzz cook Jan 18 #22
It's called agnostic - Nigrum Cattus Dec 2024 #11
Religion has always been a bane, in my estimation biophile Mar 8 #36
The world might have embraced a community of non-religious people no_hypocrisy Dec 2024 #12
I was raised Ethical Culture! cilla4progress Mar 8 #30
"I'd have included Unitarians but they still lean on the God idea." 3catwoman3 Mar 8 #32
This seems so obvious to me! Dark n Stormy Knight Mar 8 #40
I am an Atheist A HERETIC I AM Dec 2024 #13
I would love to have Bertrand Russel's teapot progressoid Dec 2024 #14
That is one of my very favorite quotes! Dark n Stormy Knight Mar 8 #41
I am atheist Farmer-Rick Dec 2024 #16
That's exactly how I feel. Dark n Stormy Knight Mar 8 #42
I'm not sure what you mean by "an opposition to all the belief systems they reject" muriel_volestrangler Dec 2024 #17
What I mean by that.... Joe Nation Dec 2024 #18
I can't see why that's "subordinate", though muriel_volestrangler Dec 2024 #19
I can't speak for Joe, but I believe I feel a similar Dark n Stormy Knight Mar 8 #44
I have seen no compelling evidence for the existence of a god or gods. Iggo Dec 2024 #20
you are most likely agnostic state of stupid Dec 2024 #21
Interesting thoughts. Dark n Stormy Knight Mar 8 #45
To answer your question WestMichRad Feb 10 #23
You've explained something I've been saying for ages in a way that may be clearer. Dark n Stormy Knight Feb 11 #24
That is the issue for me Joe Nation Mar 8 #25
If you want a word that is positive, there are ones like 'humanist' muriel_volestrangler Mar 9 #47
I fully agree with you. Think. Again. Mar 8 #26
Evolution has powerful examples in many disciplines. Religions cannot even get their act together. GreenWave Mar 8 #27
Truth. Dark n Stormy Knight Mar 8 #46
Outside of cussing...I don't invoke any god... MiHale Mar 8 #28
yes - cilla4progress Mar 8 #33
😉... MiHale Mar 8 #34
Genetically speaking, how could Noah and his sons father many different races? Lonestarblue Mar 8 #29
How do you define cilla4progress Mar 8 #31
I'm a wistful agnostic. GPV Mar 8 #35

walkingman

(9,000 posts)
2. This is the AI answer and I tend to agree with it.
Wed Dec 4, 2024, 02:12 PM
Dec 2024

If we focused on the natural world I think the entire planet would clearly be better off.

A world without the concept of a deity would likely be one where people focus intensely on the natural world, seeking explanations for phenomena through science and empirical observation, with ethics and morality primarily derived from societal norms and personal values, rather than divine pronouncements; essentially, a world where the idea of a "higher power" or supernatural being is completely absent from cultural understanding and daily life.

Think. Again.

(22,330 posts)
3. You're an Agnostic.
Wed Dec 4, 2024, 02:14 PM
Dec 2024

I like to call myself an Apathetic Agnostic, I don't know and I don't care.

Blues Heron

(6,665 posts)
4. It's hard to prove a negative, but the likelihood of a diety seems very low, like infinitesimally low.
Wed Dec 4, 2024, 02:14 PM
Dec 2024

More likely, it’s just mass and energy constantly in flux, and somehow through eons, single celled organisms got woke, and here we are to contemplate it all.

av8rdave

(10,629 posts)
6. I don't completely dismiss the idea of a diety, but...
Wed Dec 4, 2024, 02:30 PM
Dec 2024

I also keep in mind that deities are what the human race cling to when faced with phenomena they can’t understand or explain. The original storytellers of the Christian Bible were trying to figure out where the sun goes at night and where rain comes from. The first, primitive scientific explanations of these things were considered heresy, until the evidence became so overwhelming that even the zealots couldn’t deny it. That cycle continued throughout recorded history and to this day. Lather, rinse, repeat:

Our position in the solar system
The stars as other suns
The creation and age of the Earth
The origins of our species
Evolution
Heterosexuality being one area on a larger spectrum

Also, humans have worshipped countless deities throughout known history. Are we certain that ours is the real one? If you believe in eternal reward and punishment, your odds are better buying a lottery ticket.

Again, a divine being is within the realm of possibility. Do we have sound reason to believe in one, or are we still just grasping to understand the yet inexplicable?

Dark n Stormy Knight

(10,287 posts)
38. Still grasping.
Sat Mar 8, 2025, 09:47 PM
Mar 8

For me, the fact that where someone is born has such a strong influence on which god(s) they believe in & which they don't tells us that it's an arbitrary, imposed belief that most people just accept.

Say a newborn who, for whatever imaginary reason we choose, is transferred from its Southern US Christian evangelical family and brought up in an Islamic family in Afghanistan. Stipulate that the baby would have become a Christian evangelical if raised in it's family of origin. It seems clear the odds are extremely high that that same baby brought up in the Islamic family will be a devotee of the Islamic faith.

Also, the unquestioning belief in the prevailing religion makes me believe that none of them are "the one true religion," and that there isn't one. And that makes me strongly suspect that there is no god. At least not as defined by any of the currently widely practiced religions.

av8rdave

(10,629 posts)
48. Yours is a point worth repeating
Mon Mar 10, 2025, 04:08 AM
Mar 10

The odds are overwhelming that which religion/faith we follow is an accident of birth.

CrispyQ

(39,345 posts)
7. I think it's natural that we ask where we come from. How it all started.
Wed Dec 4, 2024, 02:44 PM
Dec 2024

What boggles my mind, though, is how many people can accept that everything needs a creator except the creator. I have lots of other issues with religion too, but that one tops the list.

Dark n Stormy Knight

(10,287 posts)
43. That always tops my list too! The religious person
Sat Mar 8, 2025, 10:31 PM
Mar 8

says something like, "The amazing intricacy and beauty of the passion flower proves the existence of God!"

So something amazing in nature must have had a creator. Yet that's not true of an entity even more amazing? Logic fails.

(And I always marvel at the clever trick religion pulled off: Not only do" the faithful" not have to use logic around this one particular subject, you are a monster if you ask them to. " How dare you question my faith!" )

It's just so illogical, but the believer I'm debating can never admit that I have a valid argument, even though they have no valid rebuttal. Sometimes their reaction reminds me of a cartoonish robot flailing around and repeating, "It does not compute, it does not compute..."

For those familiar with very old TV programs, remember this quote?
"Danger Will Robinson!"
I think that's the robot I imagine in the above scenario.

Americanme

(175 posts)
8. I am an atheist
Wed Dec 4, 2024, 02:51 PM
Dec 2024

I do not believe any invisible, eternal, all-knowing beings with magical powers exist. I have no problem with other people believing they do exist, but I think those beliefs should not mix with government or public education. There are plenty of churches, temples, mosques, covens, etc. in most cities. If you want your kids to have religious instruction, pick one and take them. And government is for all of the people, not just those in whatever religion is currently in the majority.

Dark n Stormy Knight

(10,287 posts)
39. 100% agree.
Sat Mar 8, 2025, 09:50 PM
Mar 8

So glad when I was teaching in public schools a decade or so back, religion very rarely intruded into our schools. Unfortunately, it had begun to and increasingly does now.

HAB911

(9,547 posts)
10. It is correct neither can prove their position.
Wed Dec 4, 2024, 03:09 PM
Dec 2024

Personally, I had to make a choice in order to move on with my life. I chose atheism as the rational path.

Buzz cook

(2,694 posts)
22. Depends on what god
Sat Jan 18, 2025, 04:48 PM
Jan 18

Some like Thor or a charioteer that drives the sun across the sky then walks it back through the underworld, are pretty easy to disprove.
Most gods with a direct and necessary role in nature are pretty easy to disprove because we now know how lots of thing in nature work. So rain gods need not reply.
Then there is a question of how a god is described. Yahweh can't be omnipotent cause there are logical contradictions, can he make a rock too heavy for him to lift or make a married bachelor? So he got down graded to maximally-logically-consistent-potent.
Then there is the question of how we know a god.
Direct revelation would be great, but doesn't seem to happen now. Inner revelation, the internal witness is problematic because if a god dwelt in us then there could be no doubt, yet even the most fervent believer has doubts.
So the vast majority of people get their knowledge of gods indirectly, either from church writing or a person telling them. The problems here should be obvious. I don't know any holy book without contradictions or some really problematic things in it. Given the number of grifters out there, how do you tell the holy ones from Jim Jones?

So yes you can disprove gods.

Nigrum Cattus

(450 posts)
11. It's called agnostic -
Wed Dec 4, 2024, 03:21 PM
Dec 2024
https://allriot.com/blog/in-the-beginning-man-created-god?srsltid=AfmBOoroGdJvTMsbUKPALKs8WCEOua-Fux2OK1YsuKhqq-hXkLkm-zqQ
Link to another view
The original belief was Pagan. Pagans don't need a god, they have earth.
Paganism was and is still fought tooth & nail by the catholic (roman) church.
Religion will be the bane of the 21st century

no_hypocrisy

(50,904 posts)
12. The world might have embraced a community of non-religious people
Wed Dec 4, 2024, 03:54 PM
Dec 2024

who stress humanity, empathy, rationality, logic, and social justice.

Such as Humanists and The Ethical Culture Society.

I'd have included Unitarians but they still lean on the God idea.

cilla4progress

(26,281 posts)
30. I was raised Ethical Culture!
Sat Mar 8, 2025, 01:41 PM
Mar 8

I attended a UU Fellowship for years. Members are encouraged to explore and express their own theology. All types -including Wicca or other earth-based spirituality.

I consider myself a humanist Pagan witch!

3catwoman3

(26,442 posts)
32. "I'd have included Unitarians but they still lean on the God idea."
Sat Mar 8, 2025, 01:52 PM
Mar 8

That may vary from one congregation to another.

I've been a member of a very small Unitarian Universalist (UU) congregation since 2012 and there is no leaning on a god idea in this group. I wouldn't be going there if there were.

A HERETIC I AM

(24,753 posts)
13. I am an Atheist
Wed Dec 4, 2024, 04:25 PM
Dec 2024

But I tend to use the strict, literal definition of the word;

A = Without

Theos = God.

I am without a god or gods because I have no need for them.

Now having said that, if Jesus Christ were to appear before me out of thin air and be in a solid human form, I would believe he existed, but I still would have no need for him. Of course that is as likely as the existence of Bertrand Russel's Teapot, which is exactly the same way I view the likelihood of the existence of any other mythical figures, be they Leprechauns, Unicorns, Fairies, Zeus, Apollo, Thor or Sasquatch.

I reject the primary root of Christianity; That humans are born "sinners" or somehow flawed and as a result, we need to be "saved" from this flaw. I say bullshit. We aren't born flawed, we are born human.

So I don't buy the idea of The Fall From Grace and as such I don't need a redeemer.

I like to think I have a scientifically leaning mind, and therefore I can not rule out the possible existence of some sort of life form or entity that can do what we would think of as "God-Like" things, and if one appeared before me I would be amazed, but that still wouldn't make me any less of an Atheist. As Arthur C. Clarke said, "Any sufficiently advanced technology is indistinguishable from magic” .

I'm an Atheist. I don't have any gods because I don't need them.

progressoid

(51,164 posts)
14. I would love to have Bertrand Russel's teapot
Wed Dec 4, 2024, 11:34 PM
Dec 2024

Oh, you mean the one in the allegory.....

.....never mind.....

Dark n Stormy Knight

(10,287 posts)
41. That is one of my very favorite quotes!
Sat Mar 8, 2025, 09:58 PM
Mar 8
Any sufficiently advanced technology is indistinguishable from magic.

Farmer-Rick

(11,707 posts)
16. I am atheist
Fri Dec 6, 2024, 09:22 PM
Dec 2024

It only means priests, pastors, bibles, holy books and religious people worldwide and through time have failed.

They have failed to provide real, verifiable evidence for the existence of any gods.

If my neighbor says she believes gnomes visit her at night, I would say provide me with real verifiable evidence of this. Until the evidence is provided, I don't believe in her visiting gnomes.

Until evidence is provided of gods, of any kind, I remain unbelieving. I do Not believe there are No gods. As I can't definitively prove my neighbor did Not see visiting gnomes, so I can't definitively prove there are no gods.

Give me good reproducible solid evidence and I will believe there are gods or gnomes. I may not worship those gods or gnomes of your's or my neighbors' but with solid evidence I will believe they exist.

Dark n Stormy Knight

(10,287 posts)
42. That's exactly how I feel.
Sat Mar 8, 2025, 10:04 PM
Mar 8

And when my sister tells me something happened or didn't because it was God's will, it feel just as nonsensical to me as it would if she'd said, "The gnome in my garden controls events."

muriel_volestrangler

(103,343 posts)
17. I'm not sure what you mean by "an opposition to all the belief systems they reject"
Mon Dec 16, 2024, 09:14 AM
Dec 2024

so I'm not sure how you see atheists. You obviously see it as more than the rejection of a personification of some supernatural deity, since that's your own position.

What do you see as the "opposite" of a supernatural deity, but which you also reject?

I'm not sure what your final question is useful for. We do have a world in which many people have the concept of deities. Imagining a world that has never had that involves going back 50,000 years or more, when we basically know nothing about the "culture" they had. This is good for imaginative fiction, but not much help to anyone for what we should think in the real world we live in.

Joe Nation

(1,082 posts)
18. What I mean by that....
Tue Dec 17, 2024, 02:22 PM
Dec 2024

Is the fact that you can't define atheism if there is no belief in a diety by someone. Atheism as a concept only exists because there is a belief in a diety in the first place. I do not like the dependent nature of the relationship where atheism is just a reaction to a set of mythical beliefs. I believe that this dynamic keeps atheism as subordinate alternative to the belief systems that simply tell a better fictional story.

muriel_volestrangler

(103,343 posts)
19. I can't see why that's "subordinate", though
Tue Dec 17, 2024, 02:26 PM
Dec 2024

Nor, for that matter, what is "better" about the fiction. Yes, you can't define atheism without someone believing in a deity; but since some people do believe in deities, that's not a problem. We happen to not have words defined as "not believing in ghosts", or "not believing in horoscopes", but that's perhaps because those beliefs are not such an organising system.

Are you just saying you wish atheism was a bit more powerful?

Dark n Stormy Knight

(10,287 posts)
44. I can't speak for Joe, but I believe I feel a similar
Sat Mar 8, 2025, 10:52 PM
Mar 8

rejection of the idea of being in any way defined by a thing that in my experience of reality simply does not exist.

Once, after I'd made some comment dismissing the idea of God, my mom was visibly taken aback. She shuddered and asked, "Aren't you afraid God is going to strike you down for saying that?!"

I was equally bemused, amused, and annoyed as I replied, "Mom! How could I possibly be afraid of being attacked by an entity I am entirely convinced does not exist?!"

Iggo

(48,749 posts)
20. I have seen no compelling evidence for the existence of a god or gods.
Sun Dec 22, 2024, 02:34 AM
Dec 2024

So I don’t believe in any.

It’s really that simple.

state of stupid

(121 posts)
21. you are most likely agnostic
Mon Dec 30, 2024, 08:50 PM
Dec 2024

Whether you hard agnostic or soft agnostic is hard to tell. I am an agnostic that is
neither hard nor soft. If you examine what that means you can form your path on
what you believe. My position is that the proof of God is not knowable because I
cannot prove it one way or the other so I take a neutral position. I like so many had
my religious experience at a very young age determined after less than a year and
three different churches that it was not for me. They did prove to me miracles did
indeed happen. All those darling angelic perfect examples of Godly child did that.
I went to school with a lot of them and I just could not grasp how they could get
away with all the things they did that my father would have seen thru instantly and
gone into his kid you got some serious issues mode and give me a long grueling
come to Jesus discussion. When I decided to get the hell away it was my belief that
maybe some were what I call a faithful follower and the rest pharisees. My father and
mother both believed but not once did they go to church, preach scripture, tell me
about the 10 commandments, pray or anything else. As far as the pharisees you
can read the book and see what Jesus thought about them. I will simply paraphrase
the cherry on top when spoke his mind to them. You are like your father the Devil
who was a murderer from the beginning and has no truth in him for he is a liar
and the father of them. That is not something a believer wants on their resume or
yelp review. How did I get to agnostic is a long story. I was looking for a station to
listen to on the radio and hit a station with a preacher having rant and he said something
that caught my attention, so I listened to hear what he was saying. Basically, he was ranting
about preachers telling people what the bible said. Twenty preachers taking one verse
and explaining it 20 different ways and none being correct in what they were saying.
Then saying do not trust anyone who tells you what it means, not even him. He said my job
is not to tell you what means but to show you how to study it and form your own conclusions.
So I did what suggested and that is how I decided I was an agnostic. What I did as far
as the bible was if it sounded like a man using God to justify what he was saying I
threw it away. If I could use what I read and apply that to the practical side not the
spiritual side then keep it and use it in the practical sense.
Example: You shall know the truth and the truth will set you free. Practical sense:
The more truth I know the freer I am, but be warned just because you do not like the
the truth you either accept it or get run over by it. So is it Godly wisdom, common sense,
or just Joe the drunk, living in his cardboard box, behind Lou's diner. I will take truth and
wisdom wherever I find it and use for the path in life I choose to take as an agnostic. If this
helps you on your journey glad I could help, if not throw it away sorry I could not help, if
you are not sure put on a shelf and think about it and sooner or later you will make a
choice on it. Your right to choose not my right to dictate. I think I have ranted long enough.
So, until next time I wish you well.


Dark n Stormy Knight

(10,287 posts)
45. Interesting thoughts.
Sat Mar 8, 2025, 10:58 PM
Mar 8

I only wish you'd used paragraph breaks! I had to skip a little of your rant. It is very hard for many of us to process more than a few sentences on a screen without organization by subtopic & white space.

WestMichRad

(2,183 posts)
23. To answer your question
Mon Feb 10, 2025, 06:52 PM
Feb 10

… of what such a world would look like:
There would be no humans. Pretty much every human culture has had one or more deities. It seems to be part of human nature to look to god(s) for comfort and reinforcement.

Dark n Stormy Knight

(10,287 posts)
24. You've explained something I've been saying for ages in a way that may be clearer.
Tue Feb 11, 2025, 07:58 PM
Feb 11

I do YouGov surveys and often there are categorization questions about religious beliefs. I don't want to have to choose any because I resent having to define myself in any way related to fairy tales.

No one has ever asked me to choose a category defining me as believing or not believing in unicorns. I feel asking me about gods is equally unreasonable.

I don't know for sure if a world without religion would be better because it seems a lot of people just suck. Otherwise Trump would never have gotten past the primaries. But, without religion, I don't think that he (who, by the way, is an atheist, I'm sure--so ironic how he has the most fanatical religious groups fawning all over him) would have.

I strongly suspect that without religion we would have developed into more reasonable, compassionate, intelligent humans and societies.

Joe Nation

(1,082 posts)
25. That is the issue for me
Sat Mar 8, 2025, 12:49 PM
Mar 8

I do not like being defined as a "non-believer" as if the believing crowd is the standard and what I believe is simply an outlying difference. It inherently makes one feel smaller because you live in "their world". That is all I am really saying.

muriel_volestrangler

(103,343 posts)
47. If you want a word that is positive, there are ones like 'humanist'
Sun Mar 9, 2025, 09:22 AM
Mar 9

which implies an ethical stance too, especially if referring to an organized humanist society.

Think. Again.

(22,330 posts)
26. I fully agree with you.
Sat Mar 8, 2025, 01:07 PM
Mar 8

I don't know if an intelligence bigger than us exists, and I don't know if one doesn't.

I call myself an Apathetic Agnostic, I don't know and I don't care.

What I do know is that Humanity could be doing so much more good for the world that some people just expect some god or another to handle for us, and that's why I try to live by the Humanist Society's motto: "Good without god".

GreenWave

(10,847 posts)
27. Evolution has powerful examples in many disciplines. Religions cannot even get their act together.
Sat Mar 8, 2025, 01:28 PM
Mar 8

Some hide behind not so generic terms perhaps hoping capitalization will win the day.

e.g. Dios (SPA) from Deus (Lat.) from Zeus (GK). The one listed above "God" will trace back to Odin.

Even then, there are hundreds of faith systems and most believers begin so as little children easily subjected to indoctrination. What they do not do is study a plethora of religions and then say, "This one appeals to me the most."

Dark n Stormy Knight

(10,287 posts)
46. Truth.
Sat Mar 8, 2025, 11:03 PM
Mar 8

What this says about religion, to me, as I mentioned in another reply here:
Say a newborn who, for whatever imaginary reason we choose, is transferred from its Southern US Christian evangelical family and brought up in an Islamic family in Afghanistan. Stipulate that the baby would have become a Christian evangelical if raised in it's family of origin. It seems clear the odds are extremely high that that same baby brought up in the Islamic family will be a devotee of the Islamic faith.

Also, the unquestioning belief in the prevailing religion makes me believe that none of them are "the one true religion," and that there isn't one. And that makes me strongly suspect that there is no god. At least not as defined by any of the currently widely practiced religions.

MiHale

(11,431 posts)
28. Outside of cussing...I don't invoke any god...
Sat Mar 8, 2025, 01:31 PM
Mar 8

But when feeling a little spiritual this is where my comfort is found…Pantheism.
The link describes it better than I.

https://pantheism.net/

Lonestarblue

(12,480 posts)
29. Genetically speaking, how could Noah and his sons father many different races?
Sat Mar 8, 2025, 01:39 PM
Mar 8

If everyone before Noah was descended from Adam and Eve, then all people would have been of their race, whatever that was, including Noah, his wife, and sons. If everyone on Earth died in the flood for Noah and his family, how could their genes create people of many races?

I find it difficult to connect science and Biblical beliefs.

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