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Marthe48

(19,181 posts)
Mon Dec 14, 2020, 09:10 AM Dec 2020

Lost a friend over the weekend

She got a pacemaker inserted right before Thanksgiving and never made it out of the hospital. Complications. Hospital staff overwhelmed with Covid-19 cases. Her kids transferred her from the hospital where her surgery went wrong to another hospital, but it was too late. She fought hard, but the deck was stacked against her.

Her ex-husband, the kids' dad passed away of cancer in September. I am sad for the kids. They have lost both parents in such a short time, and they are heartbroken.

My husband and I used to be good friends with that family, and knew the kids as they grew up. We moved away from the area, and lost the closeness, but always stayed in touch and friends. I will miss her. She was a kind, honest, and practical woman, and a good friend.

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Lost a friend over the weekend (Original Post) Marthe48 Dec 2020 OP
So very sorry for your loss. niyad Dec 2020 #1
Thank you, niyad Marthe48 Dec 2020 #6
What a heartbreaking situation. Ohiogal Dec 2020 #2
Thank you, Ohiogal Marthe48 Dec 2020 #7
Deepest condolences. What a terribly sad pnwest Dec 2020 #3
Thank you pnwest Marthe48 Dec 2020 #9
Terribly sad. So sorry to hear this, Marthe48. littlemissmartypants Dec 2020 #4
Thank you. I saw her at her ex's funeral Marthe48 Dec 2020 #5
I have one of those too. Such a treasure. ❤ nt littlemissmartypants Dec 2020 #8
Yes Marthe48 Dec 2020 #11
Thank you littlemisssmartypants Marthe48 Dec 2020 #10

littlemissmartypants

(25,713 posts)
4. Terribly sad. So sorry to hear this, Marthe48.
Mon Dec 14, 2020, 11:36 AM
Dec 2020

I hope you find comfort in the happy memories she left behind. ❤ lmsp

Marthe48

(19,181 posts)
5. Thank you. I saw her at her ex's funeral
Mon Dec 14, 2020, 11:40 AM
Dec 2020

Service was graveside/outside. First time in many years to see her. We were still the same. It was one of those friendships.

Marthe48

(19,181 posts)
10. Thank you littlemisssmartypants
Mon Dec 14, 2020, 11:44 AM
Dec 2020

And especially taking time to reach out after losing your Dad so recently.

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