Bereavement
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Im gonna post this here, hoping that it will help. MrsK passed 16 months ago.
My life had been , and still is LilBit.
This morning we did our usual , grocery( I buy food by the day, it gets Lil out and about) , buy cigs, get LilBit a coke.
Uhm the grocery clerk said hi to us and said would you guys have dinner with me?
I panicked, said uhm. Not today Im such an idiot.
I went back and talked her , LilBit and I will be going on a date.
My point here, I never thought when she died. I could even think about another woman, I was so taking care of LilBit. LilBit is 35 Im 62. My mind was no one needs my baggage
Well I was wrong . We all grieve in our own way.
May take 1 sweek, or 1 year, or a second, but
There is light at the end , just do you! I did
To all here in this group
LilBit and I love you, you will get through this.
Koz
Karadeniz
(23,469 posts)UpInArms
(51,859 posts)Keep on being you, koz
1WorldHope
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1WorldHope
(915 posts)So much for trying to be friendly. It must be time for a break.
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kozar
(2,910 posts)You just triggered me, Im okmight wanna read mental health on DU or at least research the author of the post you replied to.
Its l kinda what we do as Dems, to avoid these situations.
1WorldHope
(915 posts)I spend a lot of time on DU looking at cat and dog and bird videos. It was an honest mistake. I never would consider reading someone's profile before I respond because I wouldn't treat anyone any differently. I'm pretty new to this site and it seems like everyone already knows each other. So while others may know your daughter by her nickname I didn't. One thought I have is that you call her by her real name to strangers to show her respect and dignity as the adult that she is. So, one last time, I apologize for the misunderstanding.