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Tom Rinaldo

(23,023 posts)
166. A close brush with death is more than sobering
Mon Jan 20, 2025, 11:18 AM
Jan 20

So glad you came through it in good shape physically. That's what counts. the money/insurance issues will sort themselves through in time.

About 50 years ago I was vacationing in Jamaica driving a rental car over a mountain road. Although it was an adjustment to drive on the left side of the road I don't think I could have avoided the accident we were in if I could have been driving on the familiar right side of the road.

Two lane ride, maybe one foot of shoulder, and a car suddenly approached us partially in my lane as it came around a fairly sharp curve. I quickly swerved left to avoid it. The approaching car clipped the side rear of my car, my front left bumper of my car clipped a reflector post positioned at the edge of the pavement beyond which there was a 200 feet drop into a canyon.

I turned the steering wheel sharply to the right and held on for dear life as the car went up on its two left wheels as we skidded on the brink. I glanced at my friend in the passenger seat who was elevated above me due to the angle of the car at that point. We probably skidded for 5 to ten seconds, it's hard to gauge time at a time line that, before the right wheels fell back onto the pavement and we stopped with the right front wheel collapsed with a broken axle. We were both unhurt.

Another driver saw the accident and was willing to testify that we were not at fault, plus there were skid marks on the road that backed my statement. The police pleaded with me not to press the matter as it would financially wipe out the family of the driver of the other car. I didn't know the local culture very well, we were not on the coast in the tourist district, plus I was somewhat in shock. Without knowing for sure it was the right thing to do I dropped it. My fear was that by doing so it might somehow be used against me by the authorities, but as it turned out it wasn't. The rental agency did not hold me accountable for the wrecked car either (but they refused to rent me a replacement.} So we took local buses for the remainder of our trip. But we were healthy and alive and nothing else mattered.

Again, I'm so glad you came out of that terrifying moment OK.

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1 members have recommended this reply (displayed in chronological order):

Glad you're not badly hurt. Your passenger, too. MineralMan Jan 13 #1
Thank-you Blue_Roses Jan 13 #2
Get an attorney! Dustlawyer Jan 13 #112
Definitely! H2O Man Jan 13 #113
Glad you are ok. Makes some notes about the accident and gather all the particulars. Carry that around FSogol Jan 13 #3
Yeah, the policeman filling Blue_Roses Jan 13 #7
Witnesses? I was broadsided on the driver's side by a pickup truck wnylib Jan 13 #93
It might be that the poiceman is the closest you have to a witness so MadameButterfly Jan 13 #132
Cop's name should be on the accident report. wnylib Jan 13 #136
of course MadameButterfly Jan 13 #137
I'm betting that the insurance companies will wnylib Jan 13 #138
Glad it wasn't worse malaise Jan 13 #4
You're so sweet Blue_Roses Jan 13 #8
Yikes Blue Roses Faux pas Jan 13 #5
He was on the other Blue_Roses Jan 13 #11
That's some Faux pas Jan 13 #90
How scary! karin_sj Jan 13 #6
Yeah, me too Blue_Roses Jan 13 #14
If you were not in shock... rasputin1952 Jan 13 #44
Good news if the other driver admitted to the cop that he skidded on ice. 3Hotdogs Jan 13 #107
Hugggggggggggs. So glad it was not more serious, and glad you niyad Jan 13 #9
Thank-you Blue_Roses Jan 13 #17
This is sound advice. I second it. EverHopeful Jan 13 #19
What was the biggest problem Blue_Roses Jan 13 #30
I've been in 2 accidents where my car was moonscape Jan 13 #53
Thank-you! Blue_Roses Jan 17 #148
Their job is to avoid paying you. Keep that in mind. Lochloosa Jan 13 #84
My Insurance company True Blue American Jan 13 #98
I was referring to the at fault drivers' insurance. You should never make a statement to them. Lochloosa Jan 13 #101
After several months and having to go twice for estimates EverHopeful Jan 13 #85
This up here is the best advice from niyad. peacebuzzard Jan 13 #64
Amen to this! ShazzieB Jan 13 #121
I'm sorry that happened to you! yardwork Jan 13 #10
Thank-you Blue_Roses Jan 13 #21
Goodness! I am so glad no one was badly hurt. LoisB Jan 13 #12
Me too! Blue_Roses Jan 13 #18
I had a car accident in 1980, bad one. Archae Jan 13 #13
I was wondering about that Blue_Roses Jan 13 #27
Call Morgan and Morgan OLDMDDEM Jan 13 #15
Where are they located? Blue_Roses Jan 13 #24
From what I can tell, they are national. I only have a number for the MD/DC/VA area. Google them to get a local # OLDMDDEM Jan 13 #31
I'm relieved that you're okay, Blue Roses Niagara Jan 13 #16
Thank-you Blue_Roses Jan 13 #22
Damn! That sounds like you got T-boned! How scary! CrispyQ Jan 13 #20
Thank-you! Blue_Roses Jan 13 #34
I'm glad you are ok! babydollhead Jan 13 #23
I know!! Blue_Roses Jan 13 #37
If you are sore go to your Doctor. Don't minimize your pain, SaveOurDemocracy Jan 13 #66
Your insurance company is NOT your friend. No matter what the cutesy characters flvegan Jan 13 #25
The guardrail is my new friend. Blue_Roses Jan 13 #39
If you have a good insurance company True Blue American Jan 13 #99
Holy moly!! Thank heavens for guard rails!!!!!!! Nittersing Jan 13 #26
No Kidding!!! calimary Jan 14 #144
Thank-you! Blue_Roses Jan 17 #149
If you can, please let us know how you're doing. calimary Jan 17 #164
I am doing better Blue_Roses Jan 20 #165
I am so glad you are okay. 💙 sheshe2 Jan 13 #28
Thank-you! Blue_Roses Jan 13 #40
This message was self-deleted by its author Blue_Roses Jan 13 #41
Thank-you! Blue_Roses Jan 17 #150
Your reliving the scare is normal. pandr32 Jan 13 #29
Thank-you! Blue_Roses Jan 13 #43
Glad you're not hurt. Sorry about you having to buy a new car - a PIA. Liberal In Texas Jan 13 #32
Dealing with the drivers here Blue_Roses Jan 13 #47
We are family... rasputin1952 Jan 13 #33
Thank-you! Blue_Roses Jan 13 #45
You may have a little PTSD SARose Jan 13 #35
Thank-you! Blue_Roses Jan 13 #49
Having a near-death experience isn't normal either! You're in "normal" post trauma mode. electric_blue68 Jan 13 #131
This is so true Blue_Roses Jan 17 #151
🤞 It's highly likely stress related, but as your fellow DU'rs have suggested you get checked for (hoping Not) any... electric_blue68 Jan 17 #162
Good advice Farmer-Rick Jan 13 #70
So glad you are OK mcar Jan 13 #36
Thank-you! Blue_Roses Jan 13 #51
Traumatic events can take years and years to deal with. So sorry this happened Karadeniz Jan 13 #38
Glad no one was badly hurt! CaptainTruth Jan 13 #42
Hang in there.... spanone Jan 13 #46
Fortunate That Nobody Was Badly Hurt ProfessorGAC Jan 13 #48
glad you are not hurt markie Jan 13 #50
What is the biggest Blue_Roses Jan 13 #55
I edited my first post markie Jan 13 #63
Documentation ! PhilG Jan 13 #52
That sounds so scary! Lulu KC Jan 13 #54
The most important thing is that everyone is alright!...and I'm so glad you are doing OK. sdfernando Jan 13 #56
Ride your insurance company HARD. Happy Hoosier Jan 13 #57
I'm glad you're okay! Erda Jan 13 #58
In addiition to likely PTSD, be aware that you might experience whiplash. niyad Jan 13 #59
Thank-you! Blue_Roses Jan 17 #152
I am so very glad that you got an attorney. Now, whoever calls you about niyad Jan 17 #163
So glad you are ok! Trueblue Texan Jan 13 #60
Hugs. Duncanpup Jan 13 #61
What a terrifying experience Wicked Blue Jan 13 #62
You seem to have nerves of steel when this car hit you. people Jan 13 #65
Thank-you Blue_Roses Jan 17 #153
I've not read all the responses . . . Bumbles Jan 13 #67
Thank-you! Blue_Roses Jan 17 #154
Do not try to deal with the insurance until you get the police report. camartinwv Jan 13 #68
Can you go back to the scene to take pics? MagickMuffin Jan 13 #69
Wow! That was an excellent reaction, quickly turning hard left FakeNoose Jan 13 #71
Thank-you Blue_Roses Jan 17 #155
Since you were working at the time Figarosmom Jan 13 #72
Do you happen to have a dash cam? I've been pretty lucky driving nearly 60 years, but luck has FailureToCommunicate Jan 13 #73
I was hit by a car while riding a bike. Life comes at us fast. Hope22 Jan 13 #74
Im going to second this comment. Lochloosa Jan 13 #83
In the meantime the insurance folks are hounding you!! Hope22 Jan 13 #91
You need to talk to a professional about what happen. erodriguez Jan 13 #75
Whew! Richluu Jan 13 #76
Whoa! I'm glad you are OK!! CousinIT Jan 13 #77
Terrifying! You are here and not severely injured. That is to be grateful for. Clouds Passing Jan 13 #78
Glad you're okay. DemocratSinceBirth Jan 13 #79
Im so glad you and your passenger werent slightlv Jan 13 #80
Wow... Blue_Roses Jan 17 #156
I'm glad you were not visibly injured but I'd get checked out anyway. badhair77 Jan 13 #81
Don't immediately sign anything leftieNanner Jan 13 #82
Best advice yet. See what your Insurance does. They get the Police report. True Blue American Jan 13 #100
Start a NOTEBOOK or diary ASAP. Ilsa Jan 13 #86
Oh jeez. I'm so glad you're OK. And all the other people involved. Scrivener7 Jan 13 #87
I once witnessed a multiple car accident. Swede Jan 13 #88
Glad you're alive no matter what. ancianita Jan 13 #89
Does Lyft have insurance for you or............ NGeorgian Jan 13 #92
We have to get our own personal Blue_Roses Jan 17 #157
Crucial to inform Lyft specifically of the crash dickthegrouch Jan 13 #94
Already done Blue_Roses Jan 17 #158
I understand bernieb Jan 13 #95
I feel for you! True Blue American Jan 13 #96
I've been in three bad accidents that weren't my fault. Liberty Belle Jan 13 #97
Thank-you! Blue_Roses Jan 17 #159
Good luck. Keep us posted. Liberty Belle Jan 20 #168
Hi! So sorry you are going through this. usedtobedemgurl Jan 13 #102
Thank-you so much! Blue_Roses Jan 17 #160
I'm glad you're ok. milestogo Jan 13 #103
My car was totaled out in 2023 CountAllVotes Jan 13 #104
I can relate. Sorry you are going through this. It's PTSD inducing. 58Sunliner Jan 13 #105
I am glad that you are okay LetMyPeopleVote Jan 13 #106
don't be in a hurry to sign anything Kali Jan 13 #108
Based on the length of this thread and the advice above Maeve Jan 13 #109
I was going to post the same thing about the length of this thread and coming to the right place. Scrolled all.... EarnestPutz Jan 13 #118
Glad you are ok! Passages Jan 13 #110
First and foremost Roxi Jan 13 #111
Wow, I'm glad that you're OK. Beacool Jan 13 #114
:grouphug: elleng Jan 13 #115
Car accident ms.pamela Jan 13 #116
Wow. I am glad you and yours were okay. OldBaldy1701E Jan 13 #117
Can't advise about the insurance, but I can relate to the accident. Dem2theMax Jan 13 #119
So glad you're OK! GPV Jan 13 #120
Can relate to almost going over - KT2000 Jan 13 #122
Oh. My. Gosh. Blue_Roses Jan 17 #161
Just here to say I'm so sorry that happened to you... Alice B. Jan 13 #123
In some states... druidity33 Jan 13 #124
Sorry this happened to you. HeartsCanHope Jan 13 #125
Glad you are okay Phentex Jan 13 #126
One thing I learned many years ago thinkingagain Jan 13 #127
Thank goodness you and your passenger both walked away. magicarpet Jan 13 #128
So glad you are OK. Insurance companies... Ugghhh. Keep us posted? Evolve Dammit Jan 13 #129
I avoided a serious accident because I had time to see a Hummer swerving across the median Rocknation Jan 13 #130
everyone survived. that's most important. sending good vibes BlueWaveNeverEnd Jan 13 #133
Glad you're OK minstrel76 Jan 13 #134
Get a personal injury lawyer ASAP MustLoveBeagles Jan 13 #135
Glad you are okay - lots of great info in this thread that helps us all Maru Kitteh Jan 13 #139
Get a personal injury lawyer drray23 Jan 13 #140
Glad you weren't hurt badly cate94 Jan 13 #141
Oh, BlueRoses, what a horrible, terrifying experience! summer_in_TX Jan 14 #142
That is terrible.. I am glad you are ok, you are both very lucky 🤗 Meowmee Jan 14 #143
Wow! N/T luvallpeeps Jan 14 #145
Always CYA, but if no injuries were reported, insurance will usually write it off. RVN VET71 Jan 14 #146
Sorry to hear, sounds like a scary experience - did you get medically checked? purr-rat beauty Jan 14 #147
A close brush with death is more than sobering Tom Rinaldo Jan 20 #166
That sounds horrifying Blue_Roses Jan 21 #171
Sorry you had to go through this but glad you were not injured and all is working out for you. Fla Dem Jan 20 #167
Good to hear your update. Good Luck on your doctor appointment! electric_blue68 Jan 20 #169
Thx for giving us the update. I hope everything goes well from here on. Hekate Jan 20 #170
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