Am I a shit? Or what would you do? In the summer of 2023, my sister told us she had uterine cancer. We drove up to

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tp her home and took her for appointments, laparoscopy, I talked to the doctor and it was not a tumor the size of a grapefruit, but a polyp, We Rich and me, sent her cards, candy, balloons, flowers. I had a small can of ginger ale thrown at me by sister and a cookie spit at me. I sat there for 15 hours (travel and operation) in Pittsburgh. twenty miles each way. for over a month. I called and talked to her preoperation and post. The nursing home she works in collected 1000 dollars for her. She did not have cancer-no radiation or chemo, Fast forward this summer, Rich gets Malignant Prostrate Cancer and goes for 28 treatments and is now on hormone therapy with doctor visits and blood work. We found out in June. We got no cards, or calls. He got nothing. My sister's birthday is October 28. I have a card for her but I don't know if I should send it. When hearing about in June, I call and my mother tells me everyone dies, get over it. and my sister yells, "how am I going to get my check up. About three weeks ago, they called and were bitching because we never called and it was my fault for not calling. I hate to be mean and I trust you guys. should I send my sister a birthday card or continue to ignore them? I am confused and seek your help in helping me decide. Thank you , Love, Debbie. I will reply tomorrow.
as i take meds to help me sleep.