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Irish_Dem

(61,116 posts)
4. Yes exactly.
Wed Nov 20, 2024, 06:12 PM
Nov 20

I was a therapist for over 40 years, and some times you have to be gentle
and let people be where they need to be.

Other times you have to know when to kick some ass and drag them out of the holes
they have dug for themselves, or out of harm's way.

Right now most of us are in shock and quite afraid.
We don't know what our lives will be like for the next four years.
A lot is at risk, finances, medical, housing, family safety, etc.
This is probably what we should be thinking about and taking survival action.

So I think it is time to be gentle and not press too hard.

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It is OK to be blocked temporarily. Irish_Dem Nov 20 #1
Reminds me of a song lyric that I like... LuckyCharms Nov 20 #2
Yes exactly. Irish_Dem Nov 20 #4
For Lucky Charms Marthe48 Nov 20 #6
you could become one of those who posts just every day life Skittles Nov 20 #3
Well, let's see... LuckyCharms Nov 20 #20
Me, too. OAITW r.2.0 Nov 20 #5
Yes, sleeping is difficult. Irish_Dem Nov 20 #9
I quit drinking about 12 years ago. LuckyCharms Nov 20 #17
Concur, but it's also what we have lost. OAITW r.2.0 Nov 20 #23
Agree. n/t LuckyCharms Nov 20 #24
Damn. I guess the streak of good days is over underpants Nov 20 #7
. LuckyCharms Nov 20 #16
😊🥰 underpants Nov 20 #19
Have a few prunes. n/t Harker Nov 20 #8
They bind me up. n/t LuckyCharms Nov 20 #13
It's perfectly fine to get writer's block, Lucky Niagara Nov 20 #10
Hisssssssss LuckyCharms Nov 20 #12
Does puttering help? Marthe48 Nov 20 #11
The last time I looked in my drawers... LuckyCharms Nov 20 #15
When I said junk drawers Marthe48 Nov 20 #27
"I need someone to boot me in the ass or something to snap me out of this." Xavier Breath Nov 20 #14
I don't have a plan B! LuckyCharms Nov 20 #18
At least you're not True Dough Nov 20 #21
That's what you call a "dilemma", True Dough! LuckyCharms Nov 20 #22
LOL Skittles Nov 20 #25
Whatever you do...... OAITW r.2.0 Nov 20 #26
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