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XanaDUer2

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57. I have no caring ppl in real life

Fri Nov 29, 2024, 04:24 PM

Nov 29

I mean, THEY REALLY DON'T GAS. I feel like I've been in a dream world, esp my cousin. My "partner" has long been a problematic pos, but homelessness

My "partner" when I get scared and tell him, I'm having a symptom, yells at me...says drs arent perfect, hes human, how do i know he caused it?, that I'm older and i have arthritis in my jaw (no pain previous to the shove), that the dentist will countersue me, etc.

Not I'm sorry. Need otc meds?. Well handle this together. I asked him for suppport the other day, and he said "money?" I looked at him and said emotional y do u bring up money constantly? He refuses to take back the 7k he gave me. I keep offering constantly to shut him up. Refuses, refuses...one weekday i got sick of hearing abt $ and pulled out my checkbook and said I'll write the check now, let's then drive to the bank and stfu about it forever. No no no

He's 72 overweight eats shit smokes and drinks... who knows what our futures hold? I could go to sleep and die.

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I'm done [View all] XanaDUer2 Nov 29 OP

Sometimes some people just suck. CoopersDad Nov 29 #1

Hugs. I'm sorry this is happening to you. onecaliberal Nov 29 #2

Dear XanaDUer2. You are loved here. trust me, it is hard to cut yourself off. but for your own health it must be done. debm55 Nov 29 #3

m being told by dr XanaDUer2 Nov 29 #4

Please lay down and listen to some calming music. Perhaps sleep. You don;t need them . You are better with out them. debm55 Nov 29 #11

Thanks XanaDUer2 Nov 30 #80

standard response? CharleyDog Nov 29 #17

I'm being treated like a neurotic nut XanaDUer2 Nov 29 #19

Agree, even non dentists, look at my chart and see the meds I am on and question me. I know the feeling. They make debm55 Nov 29 #34

That's how I was treated before I was diagnosed with auto immune. Don't give up. Clouds Passing Nov 29 #74

I'm so sorry... FirstLight Nov 29 #5

Democratic underground Keepthesoulalive Nov 29 #6

If there is life after death XanaDUer2 Nov 29 #7

Is there anyway you can leave BonnieJW Nov 29 #20

He pays bills XanaDUer2 Nov 29 #40

you have six figures Skittles Nov 29 #62

I can't easily access it XanaDUer2 Nov 29 #64

Why would that happen? If you've designated someone as beneficiary of your accounts, JustABozoOnThisBus Nov 29 #28

Not sure i understand XanaDUer2 Nov 29 #41

Oh, got it. What if you "accidentally" ... JustABozoOnThisBus Nov 29 #44

Naw he'll do something nasty to me XanaDUer2 Nov 29 #45

Sometimes, there's a point where you just have to put yourself first. surfered Nov 29 #8

Your half sister said go get a lawyer? jimfields33 Nov 29 #9

I texted her the whole maddening story XanaDUer2 Nov 29 #10

That's really upsetting. I had been going to ask whether Mike 03 Nov 29 #18

Mild intermittant traveling arnd skull XanaDUer2 Nov 29 #72

Try a chiropractor BonnieJW Nov 29 #23

Certainly worth exploring. summer_in_TX Nov 29 #69

That's horrible. I'm sorry about this. jimfields33 Nov 29 #31

Leave your monies to the dog/cat shelter CharleyDog Nov 29 #12

I was going to sign on XanaDUer2 Nov 29 #13

I was thinking the same thing. StarryNite Nov 29 #15

Kinda the same here..... 634-5789 Nov 29 #53

Rid yourself of ALL the toxic people in your life. They are ruining your life but you continue to care for them. LoisB Nov 29 #14

"Partner" i have an extra-nasty post-death surprise for XanaDUer2 Nov 29 #35

Reminds me of the old saying... rubbersole Nov 29 #39

Yep. LoisB Nov 29 #51

I like Demobrat Nov 29 #60

Ditto this! Phentex Nov 29 #63

Ty XanaDUer2 Nov 29 #68

I don't have anyone to leave my money to. Demobrat Nov 29 #16

Yes if i surviver this XanaDUer2 Nov 29 #21

Don't know where you are Demobrat Nov 29 #26

NC XanaDUer2 Nov 29 #36

Looks like you need a medical card. Demobrat Nov 29 #42

Ty XanaDUer2 Nov 29 #43

Spend it on yourself. IbogaProject Nov 29 #22

Its all I can do XanaDUer2 Nov 29 #24

Im leaving all of mine to the SPCA padfun Nov 29 #25

If it is a retirement account perhaps you can draw from it TBF Nov 29 #27

I hear you. People don't get that there are limits. Joinfortmill Nov 29 #29

Cousin has not been supportive XanaDUer2 Nov 29 #33

Have you tried a neurologist? Before they knew it was the jaw that cracked into my skull they thought it was the other debm55 Nov 29 #30

I have an ent appmnt XanaDUer2 Nov 29 #32

I have a lady friend today who is helping me remove things from my home. NBachers Nov 29 #37

They know about this problem XanaDUer2 Nov 29 #38

I don't know if this is something to consider snacker Nov 29 #46

Ty XanaDUer2 Nov 29 #47

Split it homegirl Nov 29 #48

No my "partner" esp i want the expectation XanaDUer2 Nov 29 #49

Omg XanaDUer2 Nov 29 #50

If there was no such person as trump, would your partner be better? SleeplessinSoCal Nov 29 #55

No XanaDUer2 Nov 29 #59

good luck with your new year's resolutions. SleeplessinSoCal Nov 29 #73

I know I am not the only person who's glad you choose to be here, but also know online is no substitute... Hekate Nov 29 #52

Ty XanaDUer2 Nov 29 #54

I have no caring ppl in real life XanaDUer2 Nov 29 #57

I don't blame you one damned bit. Paladin Nov 29 #56

I'll nvr forget this if i live XanaDUer2 Nov 29 #58

I sympathize with you Marthe48 Nov 29 #61

I told my gp when the headaches started XanaDUer2 Nov 29 #65

Yes, tell the information as many times as you need to Marthe48 Nov 29 #70

Oh in sure not XanaDUer2 Nov 29 #71

get out of that situation Kali Nov 29 #66

I asked my cousin XanaDUer2 Nov 29 #67

stop trying with your cousin Skittles Nov 29 #75

I am. XanaDUer2 Nov 30 #79

I'm so so sorry osteopath6 Nov 29 #76

Just listening XanaDUer2 Nov 29 #77

Ty XanaDUer2 Nov 30 #78