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wildeyed

(11,243 posts)
13. Probably not, based on the video.
Sat Apr 15, 2017, 08:45 AM
Apr 2017

But watching it, you can see how people like him are very vulnerable to the RW propaganda making the rounds. A young man, fairly intelligent, but stuck in a cycle of depression and mental illness brought on by a combination of bad economic circumstances and toxic masculinity norms. He is not adapting so he self-medicates, maybe gets arrested. And now he REALLY can't get a job.

They get angry, want to blame people. Not defending that, just saying I understand how they get there. I wish I understood how to get them back....

Better education and early mental health interventions would probably be of great help, but toxic masculinity says depression is weakness so don't ask for help (menists guys on the web ACTUALLY say this a great deal. Only cukes get depressed) and that you can't do 'girly' jobs like nursing, even though there is a demand for those. Temperamentally and culturally, not all are not suited to college. That leaves the military and police force, also not for everyone. I dunno... It's a hard problem, not the least of it is that they won't ask for help or tell people what is really bothering them.

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"No one really knows why" seems to be Maine's state motto ck4829 Apr 2017 #1
Haha! cheapdate Apr 2017 #30
Also . . . OldRedneck Apr 2017 #2
I don't think so.. whathehell Apr 2017 #5
Probably not, based on the video. wildeyed Apr 2017 #13
Trump and LePage will make this a nation-wide problem IronLionZion Apr 2017 #3
Did you watch the video? whathehell Apr 2017 #6
Many immigrants manage to work without getting disability IronLionZion Apr 2017 #8
And why have millions more gone on disability over the past few years? 7962 Apr 2017 #9
Um, they can't find a job? whathehell Apr 2017 #16
Not finding a job doesnt qualify you for disability. Being DISABLED does. 7962 Apr 2017 #20
No shit, but it CAN make one desperate.. whathehell Apr 2017 #22
I'm impressed that you're able to know my "life experience" by 2 comments 7962 Apr 2017 #23
I never claimed to."know" it, I only said that's what it sounded like.. whathehell Apr 2017 #25
I didn't see anything about his being an immigrant, whathehell Apr 2017 #15
Me neither IronLionZion Apr 2017 #17
Um, the only thing I didn't "understand" was your mention of "being the only US citizen whathehell Apr 2017 #18
Life kicks a lot of people down IronLionZion Apr 2017 #19
"Some of us kick back". There ya go. Good way to look at it 7962 Apr 2017 #21
Some are able to kick back, at least for awhile, whathehell Apr 2017 #24
We're probably not that far apart in our views IronLionZion Apr 2017 #26
No, I don't think so, and I'm glad.. whathehell Apr 2017 #28
I'm 34 IronLionZion Apr 2017 #29
Ok, you're a young dude.. whathehell Apr 2017 #31
I grew up in rural western PA IronLionZion Apr 2017 #32
Interesting. whathehell Apr 2017 #34
You're right janterry Apr 2017 #33
Mind Your Own Business modrepub Apr 2017 #4
A little off the mark Boomer Apr 2017 #7
Twitch alanbudda Apr 2017 #12
If you started looking for work during the great recession greymattermom Apr 2017 #10
Also Bear Creek Apr 2017 #14
Terrible story...I'd be mad as hell if that happened whathehell Apr 2017 #27
Lumberjack woodchip diet bucolic_frolic Apr 2017 #11
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