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In reply to the discussion: 6 Sexist Things Women Say [View all]

pitbullgirl1965

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Sat Oct 19, 2013, 12:36 AM
Oct 2013

Gender essentialist feminism. It's not what I consider feminism, but sadly many people subscribe to it.

"All men are animals" I hear from both women and men: "you shouldn't wear a short skirt, you know how men are!"
What an insult to men. As if men are sub humans who can't control themselves.

On TV: men are portrayed as boorish oafs, loveable shlubs, who are clueless about **laundry, cleaning, or childcare or else slobs living in their parents house. (which there is nothing wrong with that) All they need is a women to keep them in line (I'm looking at you Bounty Towels. The one where the guy sets the plunger on the counter and the wife rolls her eyes and cleans up after him.

“If women ran the world, there would be no war.”

I had a huge fight with my mother over this. It's the same mindset that says women are the kinder, nurturing gender and men are animals. Sorry mother, I don't want to be the gatekeeper of morals.

An aside: the whole registering for the draft at 18 that men have to do, but not women is part of the gender essentialist crap.

Either both sexes do it or abolish it.

Radical Feminists are a nastier version of gender essentialist fembots. IIRC besides being bigots about transgendered folk, don't they hate men too? To the point they recommend killing them?


**I am a loyal Tide user and I really like them now: they have a commercial where the dad is a stay at home day, doing the laundry, playing with his daughter etc.

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6 Sexist Things Women Say [View all] Bonobo Oct 2013 OP
to be fair, technically, all men ARE animals. Warren DeMontague Oct 2013 #1
How many animals can shave their balls? Major Nikon Oct 2013 #2
See, that sort of thing never gets old. Warren DeMontague Oct 2013 #3
Meh... I "get" it, but I don't trouble myself about it too much... nomorenomore08 Oct 2013 #4
If I'm going to get wrapped around an axle about sexism... lumberjack_jeff Oct 2013 #5
I can mostly agree with that. And while I may deplore the existence of a shallow, mindless culture nomorenomore08 Oct 2013 #6
Some problems are the result of misandry. Some are not. lumberjack_jeff Oct 2013 #9
"Disproportionate share of harm"? Maybe not overall, but a great many men are being harmed greatly. nomorenomore08 Oct 2013 #11
Do you think that men should be equally represented on college campuses? lumberjack_jeff Oct 2013 #13
Do I? I suppose so, in theory. But why is that one particular number/statistic so important? nomorenomore08 Oct 2013 #14
Let's explore this. lumberjack_jeff Oct 2013 #15
As I said, all the issues you've raised are real and legitimate, I just don't think they're nomorenomore08 Oct 2013 #18
I'm not suggesting that those things represent misandry. I am suggesting that they represent bias. lumberjack_jeff Oct 2013 #19
Okay. Not sure I see it that way, but I get what you mean at least. nomorenomore08 Oct 2013 #20
Are you willing to argue the reverse? Major Nikon Oct 2013 #16
It is difficult to quantify, I admit. All I can tell you is that I don't feel disadvantaged, at all, nomorenomore08 Oct 2013 #17
There are those who are disadvantaged on both sides of the gender divide Major Nikon Oct 2013 #21
The Kyriarchy Hurts Men pitbullgirl1965 Oct 2013 #23
Thank you for your contribution and I totally agree. nt Bonobo Oct 2013 #24
This is interesting stuff. It has the ring of truth. lumberjack_jeff Oct 2013 #25
Excellent term LadyHawkAZ Oct 2013 #26
:D It encompasses everything pitbullgirl1965 Oct 2013 #27
Never said it was a big concern in my life either. Bonobo Oct 2013 #7
I agree that that kind of dickishness is unbecoming either way. Anyone who says things like that nomorenomore08 Oct 2013 #8
"Dickishness"!!!! LOL! Bonobo Oct 2013 #10
Assholishness? I guess that's more gender neutral... nomorenomore08 Oct 2013 #12
A++ Post. pitbullgirl1965 Oct 2013 #22
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