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In reply to the discussion: An oldie but goodie: D-words and C-words [View all]Bonobo
(29,257 posts)6. No, but that is arguably the result of all the freak out so it is a circular thing.
If everyone screamed bloody murder when someone is called a cock or dick, maybe it would be that way.
IOW, words are just words. They become invested with meaning and weight that WE attribute to them, they are not in the words themselves.
So the emotional impact you are talking about is not in the word. After we throw out the "c-word" (that ridiculously, I cannot say without risk here), then there will be another word, probably "bitch" or something and that will become the "b-word" (if it isn't already) and on and on until we have an A-Z word list.
It is silly. AND it is pointedly hypocritical to keep using male genitalia as insults if you support the banning of the so-called C-word.
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How could you REALLY know the emotional impact of both words from the POV of both genders?
Bonobo
Jun 2015
#4
No, but that is arguably the result of all the freak out so it is a circular thing.
Bonobo
Jun 2015
#6
Why didn't you just post your point of view instead of asking a question you think you already...
Nitram
Jun 2015
#8
If you feel that you are currently in a "vitriolic shouting match" then you need lots
Bonobo
Jun 2015
#11
I've asked the same question of you twice in previous posts, and you haven't answered yet.
Nitram
Jun 2015
#14
It might have something to do with your obvious lack of interest in conversation
Nitram
Jun 2015
#19
It might be, but the truth is that I enjoy conversation when I think that two opinions
Bonobo
Jun 2015
#20
Oh, you know it. Tried a long time with me (Gungeoneer), but has died off. No hides in 2+ yrs.
Eleanors38
Jun 2015
#42
Equivalent in that both are used as a pejorative against men and very rarely against women
Major Nikon
Jun 2015
#24
"Disingenuous" that word means something other than what you think it means.
lumberjack_jeff
Jun 2015
#35
Visit the Gungeon for life beyond Dicks. Best encyclopedia around for the many
Eleanors38
Jun 2015
#43
Either way the literal intent is to reduce someone's value to their genitals
Major Nikon
Jun 2015
#41