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29. You said it wasn't flirtation

now it is, but the environment made it inappropriate.

You also falsely compared it to "hey baby wanna fuck" instead of asking her to his room for coffee. Obviously the intent there was to have sex. But it was presented in a far less crude way and honestly, isn't the intent of many flirtations to engage in intercourse? You may consider yourself more charming but I'd guess you've spoken to another person with that intent before.

There are boundaries for appropriate flirtation as well, especially flirtation with strangers, and that was an example of when such flirtation is inappropriate. Another equivalent is "any parking garage ever". Do any of you even remotely get why?

Yes the two acceptable areas you would allow flirtation to occur would be between a couple set up by mutual friends or at a bar specifically catering to singles hoping to become couples (although presumably not past a certain hour and not outside the bar).

The fact that you all don't get, or refuse to admit publicly that you get, why such behavior is perceived by many women as threatening, creepy, scary, repulsive etc. is to me appalling. Until that discussion I thought the reputation of this group was undeserved. Now I think the attitudes routinely on display here are hugely problematic.

You refused to acknowledge any counter arguments and labeled the guy a serial killer/rapist. If every guy who hits on a woman clumsily then goes his own way when she says no is a rapist then our jails are going to be awfully full. You didn't get, or refused to admit that you got, that obvious point.