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A HERETIC I AM

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22. When I was a broker, the situation you described were dreaded.
Wed Jul 8, 2020, 01:25 PM
Jul 2020

Collecting and/or accounting for financial assets spread across numerous entities is a nightmare, as you can attest. It is especially difficult when there are numerous heirs and some of them claim ownership of this or that. "Mom promised that $5,000 Ming Vase to me!" - or the cabin by the lake, or the trust account with the special fund in it, ...etc. etc. I had a situation where it just happened that I was the one broker the executor (her oldest daughter, in this case) trusted more than the others, and asked me to do the consolidation of funds and all that. I had to set up several new accounts, Inherited IRA's for her and her siblings, etc. It wasn't too horribly bad or difficult, but it was time consuming as hell, and her brothers and sisters were spread all over the country.

The fact is and remains, the more money and accounts you have, the more important it is to have one or two trusted people who are aware where everything is squirreled away.

Not to speak for Progree, but one reason I have found for clients that did that was the old "Don't keep all your eggs in one basket" idea that some folks from our parents generation took VERY seriously, particularly if they were children of the Great Depression.

I think many Americans born in the 20's never got past the knowledge that before the FDIC came along in the early 30's, individual banks could and would fail all the time, leaving their customers penniless. Keeping accounts all over town, so to speak, was safer in their minds, by spreading out that risk.

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Introduction [View all] hermetic Jul 2020 OP
My suggestion is that you want save what you have, limit your risk of loss. empedocles Jul 2020 #1
Sorry about the interruption, 4 yr old granddaughter had to go to the empedocles Jul 2020 #7
How nice hermetic Jul 2020 #14
I would suggest you ask her to sell enough so that you can pay for a couple of hours worth BComplex Jul 2020 #2
Thanks for your advice hermetic Jul 2020 #15
I worry if you inherited any IRAs or 401ks. progree Jul 2020 #3
Right on the nail head there. hermetic Jul 2020 #16
Don't put it in the stock market, good chance he's going to crash it before this is over. Canoe52 Jul 2020 #4
I don't think she has legal standing to tell you not to talk to anyone else about your account. Merlot Jul 2020 #5
Yep hermetic Jul 2020 #17
I have found financial people are more than happy to answer questions Merlot Jul 2020 #25
I am sorry for the loss of your dad. bottomofthehill Jul 2020 #6
Thanks hermetic Jul 2020 #13
Edward Jones is a pretty good company csziggy Jul 2020 #8
Thank you hermetic Jul 2020 #18
Yeah, when I was first looking at brokers I looked at online ones csziggy Jul 2020 #20
A few things you may want to consider; A HERETIC I AM Jul 2020 #9
"Well, guess what? It isn't up to her! It's YOUR MONEY! " progree Jul 2020 #10
As Host of this group, I would hope the participants here would refrain from giving specific investm progree Jul 2020 #11
I agree..... A HERETIC I AM Jul 2020 #12
I've never understood having many different investment accounts csziggy Jul 2020 #21
When I was a broker, the situation you described were dreaded. A HERETIC I AM Jul 2020 #22
The "Don't keep all your eggs in one basket" idea is fine for FDIC accounts these days csziggy Jul 2020 #24
THANK YOU! hermetic Jul 2020 #19
You are very welcome. A HERETIC I AM Jul 2020 #23
No prop taxes? paradise! bucolic_frolic Jul 2020 #26
Idaho hermetic Jul 2020 #27
Thanks! bucolic_frolic Jul 2020 #28
I just finished reading this thread, and I want to say PoindexterOglethorpe Aug 2020 #29
WOW! Thanks! And very well said! A HERETIC I AM Sep 2020 #31
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