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29. I'm going to disagree
Tue Dec 8, 2015, 02:35 PM
Dec 2015

and I have similar demographics to you (started BASIC 1976, many years doing consumer edutainment titles sold on the shelves, than most people grew up with).

I disagree mainly that "socializing in person is highly over rated". I don't know your specific background, but I'd be reluctant to draw a general conclusion - particularly that one. If anything, we forget how to socialize.

Go to a restaurant and see how many people are staring down at their phones.

Hell, I used to drive my son and his friend(s) around, and no one would talk to each other, even if it was just him and his girlfriend. I eventually realized they were both staring at their phones, and then realized they were texting each other instead of having a conversation.

To be fair, they'd likely have an actual verbal conversation if I wasn't there.

I wouldn't dismiss conversation so casually. If anything, I think we need to reemphasize it.

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Same with my great-grandkids... Frustratedlady Dec 2015 #1
I hope my daughters avoid this with their children, elleng Dec 2015 #2
Oh, my goodness. She has her hands full. eom Frustratedlady Dec 2015 #5
2 daughters, ONE doesn't have all 3 kiddies, Frustratedlady, elleng Dec 2015 #6
I wondered about the 1 1/2 and 2 year old. Frustratedlady Dec 2015 #7
Thanks. Yes, I collect books for them wherever I go, elleng Dec 2015 #8
I worked at a pre-school where each students parents(s) would volunteer at least once a term..... Tikki Dec 2015 #9
Of course children learn by example, elleng Dec 2015 #10
my mum had three babies in 22 months Skittles Dec 2015 #33
Glad you survived, and I hope she did too! elleng Dec 2015 #34
I work at a special needs sub teacher and was to,d to use the iPad's as rewards kimbutgar Dec 2015 #3
Yep technology is great Kalidurga Dec 2015 #4
At my step-grandson's middle school that's all they use SHRED Dec 2015 #11
As wonderful as the technology can be, SheilaT Dec 2015 #12
Yepperoo. Right idea, wrong age. Tab Dec 2015 #13
A lot of those negatives can be addressed with more competent teachers. AtheistCrusader Dec 2015 #17
That's half Tab Dec 2015 #25
Regardless of anyones age, padfun Dec 2015 #14
I'm going to disagree Tab Dec 2015 #29
Oh no, the kids are advancing faster than expected. The horror. AtheistCrusader Dec 2015 #15
They'll grow into productive adults who sit together in a park Orrex Dec 2015 #16
Like these? AtheistCrusader Dec 2015 #18
Very similar, in fact. Orrex Dec 2015 #20
So, the anti-social thing started with the movable-block type press? AtheistCrusader Dec 2015 #24
What in the world are you talking about? Orrex Dec 2015 #27
I think it's an over-reaction. AtheistCrusader Dec 2015 #30
It's all good Orrex Dec 2015 #32
Or like this one? AtheistCrusader Dec 2015 #19
No, because she's not an adult. Orrex Dec 2015 #21
And you've never seen adults using technology collaboratively, in person? AtheistCrusader Dec 2015 #23
Have you ever seen three dozen adults at a party whip out their newspapers and ignore each other? Orrex Dec 2015 #26
I've never seen three dozen people simultaneously whip out devices and bury themselves in them AtheistCrusader Dec 2015 #31
What? No Ipad? I unfriend you! Ivan Kaputski Dec 2015 #22
A couple of weeks ago my son texted me from the bathroom. JonathanRackham Dec 2015 #28
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