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ginnyinWI

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12. trust me, nobody will notice what you are eating. if they do, they are rude.
Fri Aug 15, 2014, 07:59 AM
Aug 2014

Everyone mostly looks at their own plate. You can take or leave what you like. Nice offices will think to have a vegetarian option, but usually you can find something. If it is "make your own sandwich" you can leave off the meat, etc.

At the last thing I went to, I did that, and ate a moderate amount. And some piled their plates really high and ate it all--and complained that they were too stuffed. I wonder why. As a formerly fat person I know where they are coming from, but you have to use your brain when you eat, whether for weight or food sensitivities or whatever. It isn't smart or even fun to say, "oh just this once". And there are a lot of people eating more intelligently now--they just aren't in the majority.

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Make an appearance... eat before hand hlthe2b Aug 2014 #1
Bring contributions that are suitable for you, elleng Aug 2014 #2
Bring your own food. silverweb Aug 2014 #3
I second that dflprincess Aug 2014 #6
I'll give that a third Warpy Aug 2014 #9
Surely there will be things like potato salad and corn on the cob you can eat. rocktivity Aug 2014 #4
You have to be careful even with the seemingly vegetarian side dishes. kentauros Aug 2014 #11
I went to a restaurant with some friends. CrispyQ Aug 2014 #13
I was looking at the menu of a "gourmet" donut shop here. kentauros Aug 2014 #14
very good take on what going on. truedelphi Aug 2014 #17
I haven't eaten bacon in almost twenty years kentauros Aug 2014 #19
Thanks for your rec about bacon. However, I don't do pork. truedelphi Aug 2014 #20
It is weird what our brains determine for dream content. kentauros Aug 2014 #21
Ask whoever runs it to provide veggie burgers or bring your own. Warren Stupidity Aug 2014 #5
My daughter is vegan gwheezie Aug 2014 #7
I am loving your Shirley Chisolm photo and quote. n/t truedelphi Aug 2014 #18
I understand your dilemma. JohnnyRingo Aug 2014 #8
Yes it is not uncommon . No worry ! Do what you want for food and really the picnic is lunasun Aug 2014 #10
trust me, nobody will notice what you are eating. if they do, they are rude. ginnyinWI Aug 2014 #12
Asking them to provide veggie burgers is not out of line these days. CrispyQ Aug 2014 #15
Absolutely go and bring food. yewberry Aug 2014 #16
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