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momta

(4,118 posts)
Sat Feb 10, 2024, 01:48 PM Feb 2024

I'm coining a new word: ANBO [View all]

TLDR: It's an acronym for "Adult Non-Binary Offspring".

I have an anbo. They are neither male nor female, neither are they a child. So none of the words I would otherwise use to describe them work, which tends to either force me to misgender them, and/or call them a "child" when they are 25 years old.

I have a friend who also has an anbo, and she recently asked me how to refer to them, considering they are not a "child," nor a "daughter," nor a "son." It makes for long, complicated conversations with people who either don't understand what it means to be non-binary, or want to engage in some rancorous conversation that I don't have time for. (Pretty sure a new word isn't going to fix this, but it might speed up the process a little, and help me get it over with faster.)

So...new word: ANBO

You're welcome

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Just "offspring" would probably work, too. TwilightZone Feb 2024 #1
Could use kid. Doesn't really imply age. NoRethugFriends Feb 2024 #2
I love this! Lefta Dissenter Feb 2024 #3
"They/them" is hard for me too. momta Feb 2024 #4
I think it is awesome that you are supporting your ANBO this way! LostOne4Ever Feb 2024 #5
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