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Deuxcents

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8. Times like these bring out the best in people and the worst.

Wed Dec 25, 2024, 12:35 AM

Dec 2024

My mom passed 21 n years ago last week and her wishes were discussed with only one of us..it wasn’t me and I’m the oldest so my other sisters and I were taken back when we were not given any mementos, photos..nothing. After all this time, there’s been no conversation with this sister as she has shut us out. But..we are alive and well and much better off with our memories and not having her in our lives. I hope things work out better for you and I would say, get professional help, especially if you have anything in writing. Sorry for your loss..no time is a better time to experience such grief 🌺

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My mom died today [View all] WillParkinson Dec 2024 OP

❤️ underpants Dec 2024 #1

sounds like you are about to get screwed. Meadowoak Dec 2024 #2

I am so sorry to hear your sad and disturbing news today (of all days!) CaliforniaPeggy Dec 2024 #3

Fight for it. In her right mind, she wanted you to have the house. SharonAnn Dec 2024 #15

Sorry for your loss. You're not being an ass. Stay vigilant. Lochloosa Dec 2024 #4

Sorry to read....losing your mom is something only you can experience. OAITW r.2.0 Dec 2024 #5

Sorry about your mom... 2naSalit Dec 2024 #6

I am so sorry. That's hard, but let her memory be a blessing. surfered Dec 2024 #7

Times like these bring out the best in people and the worst. Deuxcents Dec 2024 #8

I am sorry for the passing of your Mom. mercuryblues Dec 2024 #9

I'm so sorry for your loss. sinkingfeeling Dec 2024 #10

I believe that this could be considered a form of elderly abuse if she was coerced or did not TexasTowelie Dec 2024 #11

May you have peace, comfort and support. Trellastic Dec 2024 #12

I am so sorry for your loss, Will. sheshe2 Dec 2024 #13

I'm sorry for your loss KT2000 Dec 2024 #14

My condolences for your loss. live love laugh Dec 2024 #16

CONTEST THE WILL, IMMEDIATELY, if it has been changed MacKasey Dec 2024 #17

Sorry for your loss, Jay25 Dec 2024 #18

Did the nurse say what kind of power of attorney it was? There's a medical power of attorney, which is much more limited pnwmom Dec 2024 #19

So sorry lonely bird Dec 2024 #20

I'm so sorry cate94 Dec 2024 #21

"" AllaN01Bear Dec 2024 #22

Sad times. Very sorry to hear about the complications too. summer_in_TX Dec 2024 #23

Sorry for you loss. essaynnc Dec 2024 #24

I am so so sorry. irisblue Dec 2024 #25

So sorry for your loss. applegrove Dec 2024 #26

Wow, what a mess. pandr32 Dec 2024 #27

I am so sorry for the loss of your mom. Hopefully, the "grandkids" will be decent and LoisB Dec 2024 #28

Good lord! Sounds like youve got some grifters...i wish the nurse had thought Karadeniz Dec 2024 #29

I'm so sorry about your mom. mountain grammy Dec 2024 #30

I am sorry for your loss LetMyPeopleVote Dec 2024 #31

comdlences DonCoquixote Dec 2024 #32