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Neoma

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Sun Jan 15, 2012, 10:56 PM Jan 2012

Well, I'm in the next generation of feminists. [View all]

What needs to be done? How do we do it, and why isn't this a bigger topic? Is it a lack of a new voice?

We're still used as decoration, we live in a rape culture, women still have unequal wages, and apparently we're fighting for our reproductive rights again. (Or have we always been?) And we've come a long way but we're slipping back somehow. That's the message I've gotten so far.

What about men? Where are they being discriminated at? Child custody? Cases where they have been raped? Job discrimination for originally "feminine" occupations?

How much more is there to all this? Where are our new heroes and leaders in this? More to the point: why haven't I heard about the main group organizers and leaders of the 60s-70s women's movement? Or 80s...or 90s. (Grrl bands?) Civil rights activists had their Martin Luther King Jr. and Rosa Parks. Why on earth haven't I heard of Ella Baker in the mainstream of our culture? Hell, I think that's the only name I know. Susan B. Anthony? That was over a century ago.

The male default is so ingrained in our culture, that I never even considered having a female idols when I was growing up. WHY?

It's like women idols are hidden in tiny little holes and you have to dig them up, while men are blaring in your face with very positive, enlightening messages that attracts and persuades you that it's more natural to be a man with these intelligent thoughts.

I only planned to ask the first two questions...whoops.

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what do you see, being in that generation? seabeyond Jan 2012 #1
Overused technology. Neoma Jan 2012 #2
I hate to say it... laconicsax Jan 2012 #3
I viewed her as a overly tired coffee drinker that managed to pull it all together. Neoma Jan 2012 #4
That's an accurate view, too. laconicsax Jan 2012 #5
i ran a small business. i learned from my father. we grew up in that atmosphere. seabeyond Jan 2012 #8
neoma, i couldnt agree with you more. seabeyond Jan 2012 #6
I think there's a lot of confusion also. Neoma Jan 2012 #11
i dont think you are seabeyond Jan 2012 #12
I met a woman in the gym once. Neoma Jan 2012 #14
do you know ... iverglas Jan 2012 #9
Sigh. Neoma Jan 2012 #15
on King and Sanger iverglas Jan 2012 #16
Sure don't ismnotwasm Jan 2012 #28
good one! iverglas Jan 2012 #29
it is good to see you. nt seabeyond Jan 2012 #35
Here's a link Feldspar Jan 2012 #7
Thanks for the link! Sera_Bellum Jan 2012 #18
My take... redqueen Jan 2012 #10
It reminds me of videogames for some reason. Neoma Jan 2012 #13
Well I meant celebrated more than created... redqueen Jan 2012 #17
Generally, you get into directing by writing. Neoma Jan 2012 #19
Depends on how many men are involved in production, redqueen Jan 2012 #20
there is also the argument about teen males being the ticket buyers which has been proven false seabeyond Jan 2012 #21
Studies have shown that male audience members generally cannot identify with female lead characters. redqueen Jan 2012 #22
Isn't it a little odd that they generally put women in roles Neoma Jan 2012 #23
for a chick flick. and servicing a male for a manly mans movie or seabeyond Jan 2012 #24
Not really... redqueen Jan 2012 #25
odd to the thinking person ;) iverglas Jan 2012 #26
Just thought of something. Neoma Jan 2012 #27
One big exception is the His Dark Materials series. redqueen Jan 2012 #32
Never read the series. Neoma Jan 2012 #33
We need to change the culture which says that male is the default and female is an exception/other. CrispyQ Jan 2012 #34
Women are afraid ismnotwasm Jan 2012 #30
I should make all the points in here into a list. Neoma Jan 2012 #31
K&R Whisp Feb 2012 #36
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