#notallmen- cause while women talk about violence, make sure no mens feelings are hurt 👀

[Random Boomer]

6. #notallmen is so predictable

I've been a member of an online community for over a decade now, with a decided left-leaning membership. But every single time the women on the board started talking in depth about how we cope with the spectre of male violence or the constant barrage of sexual aggression from men, "some" men jumped into the discussion to make it all about their hurt feelings because they don't do these things. Or how hurtful it is that women in the street avoid them out of fear when they're "not that guy."

Every. Single. Time. So yeah, not all men change the conversation to be about them, but enough do it that we eventually just stopped having those conversations. Which was rather the point of the derailments by those men "who aren't that guy".