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iverglas

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47. clear about what?

Mon Feb 13, 2012, 09:45 PM

Feb 2012

Did someone say there is confidentiality required among hosts?

Interestingly, however, the Hosts forum is not open to public view ...

Confidentiality is not required.

Trustworthiness is expected.

If Neoma thinks there is nothing wrong with passing along PMs and links to internet sites that she was given in confidence, let's have her come here and say so.

If she thinks it's so fine and dandy to behave that way, let's ask her why she thought it best to do it secretly and not inform the people who had trusted her discretion.

I wouldn't be putting my eggs in that basket if I were some people I can think of.

Please do pass your screenshots on to the people whom the hosts discussed in private. I'm sure they'll be thrilled to know the world and its dog is now viewing the discussions.

Or at least I'm sure they'll say they are.

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I will not be resigning as lead host at this time. [View all] Neoma Feb 2012 OP

Thank you for your service. WheelWalker Feb 2012 #1

i dont think you should step down either La Lioness Priyanka Feb 2012 #2

Agreed n/t obamanut2012 Feb 2012 #4

I think that right now we need some quiet time The empressof all Feb 2012 #3

^_^ This. nt justiceischeap Feb 2012 #6

agree maddezmom Feb 2012 #7

+1 redqueen Feb 2012 #8

I don't think there is any question that it needs to be revisited. redqueen Feb 2012 #18

It's best to take a breathe The empressof all Feb 2012 #21

Oh yes, redqueen Feb 2012 #22

how unfortunate iverglas Feb 2012 #5

Perhaps you should explain why we must tolerate your toxic behavior The empressof all Feb 2012 #9

Frankly, if I were still a host iverglas Feb 2012 #11

ROFL The empressof all Feb 2012 #12

what exactly has empress done that she needs a week long break? La Lioness Priyanka Feb 2012 #15

Don't agree with a week break but empresses post was nasty Violet_Crumble Feb 2012 #19

i get it. when all this started getting messing. i suggested we discuss rules and get things in seabeyond Feb 2012 #32

I thought you were the one advocating not fanning any flames? Remember Me Feb 2012 #26

You know, I don't know Neoma at all... TheWraith Feb 2012 #17

there are still rules in this forum. if you cannot follow the rules, you cannot participate. seabeyond Feb 2012 #23

Then I won't be participating in this group anymore Violet_Crumble Feb 2012 #10

Good luck to you, Neoma. Lisa D Feb 2012 #13

You need to step down, Neoma Remember Me Feb 2012 #14

I'm in favor of your continued service, LeftyMom Feb 2012 #16

What are you talking about? nt redqueen Feb 2012 #20

They didn't invite you? LeftyMom Feb 2012 #25

I'm curious. Have u ever posted about feminism in this group? Violet_Crumble Feb 2012 #28

As I stated in another discussion, I'd like to see some reasonable ground rules for a safe and LeftyMom Feb 2012 #33

did you really iverglas Feb 2012 #41

As I said the last time you asked, I do believe several more were lost to thread/subthread deletions LeftyMom Feb 2012 #46

if you are a disruptor, and not a member and regular user of the group, you do. seabeyond Feb 2012 #52

yeah iverglas Feb 2012 #53

So you haven't posted about feminism in this group Violet_Crumble Feb 2012 #49

we understand that as we particpated in host communication, neoma gave people attacking our forum seabeyond Feb 2012 #30

the forum isn't just the 4/5 of you who are hosts La Lioness Priyanka Feb 2012 #31

how do the LGBT hosts communicate? iverglas Feb 2012 #34

i KNOW that the hosts make decisions between each other. why pretend otherwise? seabeyond Feb 2012 #40

FWIW, I got the link from two people. Neither of them is Neoma. LeftyMom Feb 2012 #35

i too got it from someone who is not Neoma La Lioness Priyanka Feb 2012 #38

and I'll bet you've asked where all these people got the link, right? iverglas Feb 2012 #43

why would i be surprised that you did not get it directly from neoma. nt seabeyond Feb 2012 #42

Just to be clear... The empressof all Feb 2012 #39

are you telling me in all these forums and groups, the hosts have the discussion amongst the members seabeyond Feb 2012 #44

clear about what? iverglas Feb 2012 #47

No one is attacking our forum The empressof all Feb 2012 #54

when a poster comes in and does no more than attack members and call them out, seabeyond Feb 2012 #58

I'm curious. Lisa D Feb 2012 #59

aren't you supposed to know what you're talking about now? iverglas Feb 2012 #61

Post removed Post removed Feb 2012 #24

I didn't set up the hosts forum on DU, but I haven't said anything there I won't own. LeftyMom Feb 2012 #27

excuse me iverglas Feb 2012 #29

Why do you keep bringing up the LGBT hosts? LeftyMom Feb 2012 #37

Gosh, I wonder iverglas Feb 2012 #50

You mean pointing out that some of the posters in this group were transphobes AND obvious socks? LeftyMom Feb 2012 #56

in an effort for transparency, here is what I posted in the MIRt forum maddezmom Feb 2012 #45

I refer you to post 50 iverglas Feb 2012 #51

I looked at 50 and it doesn't speak to my post at all maddezmom Feb 2012 #57

How is this even helpful here? The empressof all Feb 2012 #36

really? ya, lets. for the umpteenth time. nt seabeyond Feb 2012 #48

This message was self-deleted by its author seabeyond Feb 2012 #55

aren't you guys still the hosts? its not like she is the only host, so clean up is not just her duty La Lioness Priyanka Feb 2012 #60

sea, you are still a host here and if you think someone is being disruptive maddezmom Feb 2012 #62