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slipslidingaway

(21,210 posts)
14. Sorry to hear you and your husband have joined the sucky club ...
Thu Aug 11, 2016, 12:03 AM
Aug 2016

there is just no delicate way of putting it.

Keeping track of results, reading and questioning without totally freaking out is helpful. I always loved the suggestions to not google and then in the same breath we are told to ask questions, how can we ask questions with zero knowledge?

Google, process and discard the irrelevant info, but do not hesitate to ask questions, always question, the least that can happen as caregivers is we look foolish and we subject our loved ones to another test.

One foot in front of the other!

We're looking towards our eighth year of out of pocket maximums that began over 11K which have been reduced to over 8K with increased annual premiums, still we have retirement savings, unlike many others, so we are fortunate. Retirement is not as expected.

Chin up and clear your head whenever you feel the need, wishing you and your husband the best. We're in this world together.










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Sending many prayers and much love to you and your husband. woodsprite Aug 2016 #1
thank you so much OKNancy Aug 2016 #2
You need to be the one that writes everything down and act ad sinkingfeeling Aug 2016 #3
thank you OKNancy Aug 2016 #4
I'm in Fayetteville AR. We have a guy who lives in Stillwell and sinkingfeeling Aug 2016 #5
6 times.... that's terrible OKNancy Aug 2016 #7
I'm sorry to read this but please know you can unload here with us. Solly Mack Aug 2016 #6
Something to keep in mind PennyK Aug 2016 #8
thank you. I think they have been very open about side effects OKNancy Aug 2016 #9
HPV caused cancer is easier to treat than cancer caused by smoking. alfredo Aug 2016 #10
Is he a veteran? alfredo Aug 2016 #11
No OKNancy Aug 2016 #12
start looking for state and federal programs that can help defray costs. alfredo Aug 2016 #13
Sorry to hear you and your husband have joined the sucky club ... slipslidingaway Aug 2016 #14
thank you OKNancy Aug 2016 #15
Hope all is going well, waiting is very difficult, continue being a polite pain though ... slipslidingaway Aug 2016 #16
Nancy, I just found this.... dixiegrrrrl Nov 2016 #19
good morning... I stopped writing because all I felt like doing was complaining OKNancy Nov 2016 #20
Look into FMLA. Ms. Toad Aug 2016 #17
Thank you for posting. OKNancy Aug 2016 #18
Prayers for you and husband and for all cancer patients and those that love them. cpamomfromtexas Jan 2019 #21
Oh my. The new post today made me read through this thread again OKNancy Jan 2019 #22
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