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22. My niece was very helpful. But she can't help with

Tue Oct 27, 2020, 04:58 AM

Oct 2020

the "What Dad wanted" questions regarding the funeral.

I'm not Catholic, so I'll be just a guest. It's painful, though, to see some siblings being bullied. And Mom says one thing to one person and something else to another.

Just as apparently Dad told everyone at different times that he wanted them to speak as part of the mass. But not all are allowed. I'd understood that Dad's wishes about this had been recorded. But it turns out they were not.

Anyway, I guess it will work out somehow. I hope. Thanks for your reply.

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My dad died Sunday. [View all] Dark n Stormy Knight Oct 2020 OP

I'm sorry for your loss vercetti2021 Oct 2020 #1

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My heart goes out to you and your family. Tech Oct 2020 #2

I appreciate your reply. Dark n Stormy Knight Oct 2020 #7

So sorry for the loss ofyour father. FuzzyRabbit Oct 2020 #3

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May you find peace. InAbLuEsTaTe Oct 2020 #4

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And to you. And to us all. Dark n Stormy Knight Oct 2020 #13

I Am So Very Sorry DarthDem Oct 2020 #10

Your very kind reply is much appreciated. Dark n Stormy Knight Oct 2020 #17

I am so sorry for your loss. Your Mother should have all final says and should be protected by Oppaloopa Oct 2020 #11

My niece was very helpful. But she can't help with Dark n Stormy Knight Oct 2020 #22

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I will try to focus more on those memories. Dark n Stormy Knight Oct 2020 #24

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I appreciate your reply. Dark n Stormy Knight Oct 2020 #33

Man, that sucks...in fact 2020 sucks! BigmanPigman Oct 2020 #26

I'm so sorry for your losses. Grief can take a lot out of a person. Dark n Stormy Knight Oct 2020 #30

I'm finding it very difficult to do anything BigmanPigman Oct 2020 #39

I know what you mean. COVID is making everything harder. Dark n Stormy Knight Oct 2020 #40

Thank you. I wish the same for you and your family. BigmanPigman Oct 2020 #41

They say God gives you no more than you can handle, but at times, it's a real struggle. Frustratedlady Oct 2020 #28

Thank you. And I'm so sorry you lost your mom in that way. Dark n Stormy Knight Oct 2020 #31

Neither am I, mainly because of how religion is used by so many to take advantage of others. Frustratedlady Oct 2020 #35

I'm glad you & your parents were comforted by faith. Dark n Stormy Knight Oct 2020 #36

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Much appreciated. Dark n Stormy Knight Oct 2020 #34

So sorry Wawannabe Oct 2020 #37

I'm very sorry about your dad. Dark n Stormy Knight Oct 2020 #38

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