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Cancer Support

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Ferrets are Cool

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Wed Jul 27, 2022, 04:31 PM Jul 2022

Hoping someone might be able to supply some assistance on caregivers [View all]

Just to get you caught up, wifey has contracted MDS because of her extensive chemo treatments for Stage 4 Lymphoma.
The only way to "cure" MDS is to get a stem-cell transplant. This requires the patient to get the transplant, stay in the hospital for 4 weeks, then be transferred to a "place" where she can receive 24/7 care for another 8 weeks.
They (the hospital) will not give her the transplant unless we have the 24/7 care set up beforehand. They will also not assist us in finding said care. The ONLY assistance has been that we can hire someone at around $400 a day to stay with her.

Does anyone here have ANY ideas for us? We have become desperate. We have no family members who can give up their life for 8 weeks and stay with her. It is "nearly" impossible for me to do so because of reasons I will not bore you with here.

Has anyone been able to get grants to help pay for this kind of care?
Agencies we can contact?
Any ideas will be helpful.
Thank you, FAC

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Kicking in solidarity - hope you get answers! Alice Kramden Jul 2022 #1
Contact you local county office on aging. FalloutShelter Jul 2022 #2
$400/day? That seems stiff... is that for a nurse? I'm not up on nursing home costs, but let's say Karadeniz Jul 2022 #3
That is exactly what we are paying Beatlelvr Jul 2022 #6
Oh, boy, we're sunk! Our long term care policies paid out $3000/ mo when we bought them. Since Karadeniz Jul 2022 #12
Retired Home Health /Hospice nurse here... my suggestions flying_wahini Jul 2022 #4
Thanks. I copied for myself. Appreciate the tips and help for all of us. NT SWBTATTReg Jul 2022 #9
That is correct. It does not mean a nurse. Ferrets are Cool Jul 2022 #10
Also adding that you may just need coverage for say, half day if flying_wahini Jul 2022 #5
Cancer Society, Council on Aging, & your Dr. & senior center are placesI'd start with. SheltieLover Jul 2022 #7
Have you talked to LLS about this? Perhaps they moonscape Jul 2022 #8
Thank you moonscape Ferrets are Cool Jul 2022 #11
Checking in. Not sure when your moonscape Sep 2022 #13
Thank you so much for your post. Ferrets are Cool Sep 2022 #14
Very sorry about her moonscape Sep 2022 #15
... Ferrets are Cool Sep 2022 #16
I have no answers for you, murielm99 Oct 2022 #17
Thank you. Ferrets are Cool Oct 2022 #18
Oh my goodness, I wish I knew of something that would help! Dark n Stormy Knight Oct 2022 #19
Thank you Ferrets are Cool Oct 2022 #20
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