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Herself

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12. being "told" what to do never worked on me, rational and logical explanations did
Fri Feb 7, 2014, 06:48 PM
Feb 2014

... add in the testosterone factor.. boys are programmed to be "macho"..

I did my best to raise my sons differently, and have to say i've had more success than most.
Living with my tragic accident and their witnessing the consequences etc validates me as they get older.

Many guys in the family have had much less injuries to their backs, but suffer much more than my sons witnessed me go thru. All of them have pain, but I live with out it.

Seeing is believing

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Has anyone here had a spinal fusion [View all] redstatebluegirl Jan 2013 OP
Good outcomes generally relate to pain reduction Warpy Jan 2013 #1
Posterior/Anterior fusion w/bak cages Herself Feb 2014 #10
I'm glad you had such a great outcome Warpy Feb 2014 #11
being "told" what to do never worked on me, rational and logical explanations did Herself Feb 2014 #12
"Women tend to do better than men, because we don't cheat as much." demwing Feb 2014 #13
I didn't cheat at all. Letter of the law Herself Feb 2014 #14
Good to know redstatebluegirl Jan 2013 #2
I do same level libodem Jan 2013 #3
I feel fortunate redstatebluegirl Jan 2013 #4
My big toe is numb libodem Jan 2013 #5
I do use a cane from time to time redstatebluegirl Jan 2013 #6
Had fusion of C5-C6-C7 JayhawkSD Jan 2013 #7
I have an appointment with redstatebluegirl Jan 2013 #8
me too Buffalo Bull Mar 2013 #9
3 Spinal Fusions hoodjoseph Mar 2014 #15
I am doing a bit better since this post redstatebluegirl Mar 2014 #16
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