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elleng

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17. Don't know what I would have done about such a break in,

Reply to polly7 (Reply #12)

Mon Mar 26, 2012, 11:33 AM

Mar 2012

but reason we separated was he hit me and I left the house.

Our subsequent dispute was after he sold house; he owed me $ from sale! I'd contributed more than 50%, in fact, as you did, ended up settling for something less than the 50%.

Yes, the lies are the worst, especially as he lies to our daughters, who tho intelligent young adults don't want to know the details so remain ignorant and think their father's just swell. Damn!

OK, gotta get out into the sun.

SO SORRY about your doubt and guilt; thankfully I've never been burdened with such.

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This message was self-deleted by its author [View all] polly7 Mar 2012 OP

I hope you cry often. You come to a new path at the end of a cry. You accept a loss. You need to be applegrove Mar 2012 #1

This message was self-deleted by its author polly7 Mar 2012 #3

I'm not knocking meds. I'm dependant on them for ptsd and they really work well for me. applegrove Mar 2012 #8

Oh, I realize meds are lifesavers for many, many people and polly7 Mar 2012 #14

Doublin down on what Apple said and adding....... MindMover Mar 2012 #2

This message was self-deleted by its author polly7 Mar 2012 #5

I can only say that you will get over it when you want to get over it..... MindMover Mar 2012 #9

Yes, that happens to me. EFerrari Mar 2012 #4

You're a strong person EFerarri. polly7 Mar 2012 #6

How do you get to Carnegie Hall? EFerrari Mar 2012 #11

I only 'got over it' after my attorney said to me, elleng Mar 2012 #7

This message was self-deleted by its author polly7 Mar 2012 #12

Don't know what I would have done about such a break in, elleng Mar 2012 #17

Been there. MuseRider Mar 2012 #10

This message was self-deleted by its author polly7 Mar 2012 #13

The meds may be helpful MuseRider Mar 2012 #15

This message was self-deleted by its author polly7 Mar 2012 #16

He beat you up? MuseRider Mar 2012 #18

This message was self-deleted by its author polly7 Mar 2012 #19

You don't need to apologize here, polly. EFerrari Mar 2012 #22

This message was self-deleted by its author polly7 Mar 2012 #27

This message was self-deleted by its author MadrasT Mar 2012 #20

Small town... Neoma Mar 2012 #21

FYI...The approximate center of the Universe of Good Things, is Helenville WI HereSince1628 Mar 2012 #23

Ah. Neoma Mar 2012 #24

Post removed Post removed Mar 2012 #25

I thought you meant Wyoming. Neoma Mar 2012 #26

This message was self-deleted by its author polly7 Apr 2012 #28

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