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Mental Health Support

niyad

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6. Hugggggggs., dear friend. I hereby declare a day out of time for you, and

Reply to Siwsan (Original post)

Thu Aug 31, 2023, 09:04 AM

Aug 2023

decree that you shall spend it surrounded by the love and comfort and needs of your furries. And remember that your DU family is here for you.

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This is going to be a very rough day [View all] Siwsan Aug 2023 OP

God bless you, my friend. TSExile Aug 2023 #1

Sounds like a good plan vlyons Aug 2023 #2

Unfortunately he has turned into his father. Siwsan Aug 2023 #5

In Buddhism, I am taught to have compassion for all sentient beings equally and without exception. vlyons Aug 2023 #15

I have copied this to practice in my own life. Thank you for this. LoisB Aug 2023 #17

That is very good advice for us all. Thank you for the reminder judesedit Aug 2023 #18

I try. Believe me, I try. I think my heart and soul has been ravaged by so many deaths Siwsan Aug 2023 #21

Just remember to tell yourself that negative thoughts are not helpful. vlyons Aug 2023 #26

Thank you for those words of wisdom. Butterflylady Aug 2023 #22

Reminds me of a 12-Step practice when I was dealing with resentment. summer_in_TX Aug 2023 #33

The fur babies say they need you to do that, too. blm Aug 2023 #3

Immersed in your sea of loving fur babies... that is the most healing thing I can imagine doing. hlthe2b Aug 2023 #4

Hugggggggs., dear friend. I hereby declare a day out of time for you, and niyad Aug 2023 #6

+1 2naSalit Aug 2023 #9

((((Hugs))))....take the day to yourself MiHale Aug 2023 #7

You've got the right idea... RainCaster Aug 2023 #8

My heart goes out to you, in your grief wendyb-NC Aug 2023 #10

Sending you extra care today... FM123 Aug 2023 #11

Sending you lots of love. You're right where you need to be. You are so loved. Goddessartist Aug 2023 #12

Rage and gruief are harming only you. You are the one who deserves your kindness. Polly Hennessey Aug 2023 #13

That is a good way to view the situation. calimary Aug 2023 #16

x1000 judesedit Aug 2023 #19

It's a take care of yourself day. 2naSalit Aug 2023 #14

Focus on the beautiful little fur babies. Your BIL's ugliness can't compete with all that cuteness LoisB Aug 2023 #20

Just a quick reminder: " Your friends are god's way of apologizing for your niyad Aug 2023 #23

I am so sorry for your loss and deep grief. 🙏🙏🙏 LiberalLoner Aug 2023 #24

Please be gentle with yourself. majdrfrtim Aug 2023 #25

Sending you hugs and love, Siwsan. gademocrat7 Aug 2023 #27

Your love for your sister shines through Wild blueberry Aug 2023 #28

I've never met you and I love you. 1WorldHope Aug 2023 #29

Siwsan, stage left Aug 2023 #30

I find the best balm for the soul is... wysimdnwyg Aug 2023 #31

As others have said, be kind to yourself, take care of yourself. CaptainTruth Aug 2023 #32

Hugs for you, Siwsan. debm55 Sep 2023 #34