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fizzgig

(24,146 posts)
13. of course it's ok
Sun Feb 17, 2013, 09:41 PM
Feb 2013

opening the blinds in his office would be a good idea. the window faces west, so he should be able to get a bit of light despite our being in a garden level.

my tips for beating depression:

i would suggest sunlight for you, too. even if it is, like you said, just a sunny window.

get out of the house. go to the park, a coffee shop with a book, take yourself to lunch. i know the not wanting to leave the house aspect of depression, but it just gets worse for me if i don't get out.

put on some headphones and crank your favorite music. the effects seem amplified when it's jacked straight into my brain.

indulge yourself. take a bubble bath. have ice cream for dinner once in a while.

good luck to you

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Hope the ride isn't too rough. snappyturtle Feb 2013 #1
thanks fizzgig Feb 2013 #4
My sympathies - kind of been there hollysmom Feb 2013 #2
things were much worse when he was drinking fizzgig Feb 2013 #6
I understand about seasonal depression as well. hollysmom Feb 2013 #10
i have a fantastic support network fizzgig Feb 2013 #11
Sorry, Fizzgig. Denninmi Feb 2013 #3
thanks, dennis fizzgig Feb 2013 #7
It is hard. Denninmi Feb 2013 #9
depression sucks sigmasix Feb 2013 #5
i am wondering more and more if it's SAD fizzgig Feb 2013 #8
hi fizzgig...I just started coming to this forum.. BlancheSplanchnik Feb 2013 #12
of course it's ok fizzgig Feb 2013 #13
thanks fizzgig. I appreciate the ideas! BlancheSplanchnik Feb 2013 #14
Oh man, I am sorry. :^( *hugs* I second the hope that the ride is short! GreenPartyVoter Feb 2013 #15
I know what your husband is going through as it sounds like we have some things in common davidpdx Feb 2013 #16
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