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bucolic_frolic

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Mon Apr 5, 2021, 05:27 PM Apr 2021

What were you thinking? [View all]

What were you thinking pre-retirement? I can't seem to categorize what I want to know, and I thought maybe some who've been there had ideas.

Because it seems like sorting out the direction is the least of anyone's worries. If I talk to the aging agency, they want to put you through Medicare worksheets and prescription plans. Once they push those alarm bells, it's the financial planner which leads to the employment department. And the senior housing, and a cruise and travel and the grandkids. I have no intention of listening or doing any of that. I'm in a downsizing phase that's going so-so, and the pandemic has cramped connecting to the world for obvious reasons. But what is the next step? It's none of the above. But yet I don't know what it is. This is not an exploration/therapy endeavor. Change will be slow. In fact I doubt much will change. It's hard to flip old housing stock into change. I talk to seniors at a service group I belong to, everyone just scurries to the super and plods onward.

If I'm exhibiting insanity, don't hesitate to say so. I won't be offended. I'd likely agree with you.

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What were you thinking? [View all] bucolic_frolic Apr 2021 OP
I did a post career plan jmbar2 Apr 2021 #1
THAT is a marvelous list!!!! MyOwnPeace Apr 2021 #3
I'd actually love that jmbar2 Apr 2021 #4
What I ended up doing jmbar2 Apr 2021 #5
Oh, and I moved to Oregon from Texas to retire jmbar2 Apr 2021 #6
I could see...... MyOwnPeace Apr 2021 #9
LOL - so true! jmbar2 Apr 2021 #12
How soon are you to retirement? I retired 3 months ago. I'm pretty much like you. Not Gaugamela Apr 2021 #2
Well, that's part of the problem bucolic_frolic Apr 2021 #17
In a 3 day retirement seminar, only 1 day spent on financials. Pobeka Apr 2021 #7
Good points jmbar2 Apr 2021 #14
Your question is not insane at all. It is a good question. Irish_Dem Apr 2021 #8
OK, gotta' ask! MyOwnPeace Apr 2021 #10
To conduct a DNA search, we need a large DNA database which contains the DNA of as many people as Irish_Dem Apr 2021 #11
What a wonderful use of your intellect and time! jmbar2 Apr 2021 #13
Years ago I got interested in genealogy and traced my own family lines. Irish_Dem Apr 2021 #16
Yes on the genealogy bucolic_frolic Apr 2021 #19
The French priests in Quebec kept impeccable records, they were paid per document. Irish_Dem Apr 2021 #20
Recently I found him on Geni bucolic_frolic Apr 2021 #22
Denys Duquet dit DesRochers was one of the original founders of Quebec. Irish_Dem Apr 2021 #24
Yes, that agrees with genealogists bucolic_frolic Apr 2021 #25
There are quite a few FC geneologists, amateur and professional. Irish_Dem Apr 2021 #26
Interesting, because like you bucolic_frolic Apr 2021 #18
What will I do with the time? 3Hotdogs Apr 2021 #15
sigh,,,, planning,,,,, KarenS Apr 2021 #21
Thanks to all, gave me some ideas bucolic_frolic Apr 2021 #23
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