Widows/Widowers- please help me out.

[Jade Fox]

I have two dear neighbors, a couple who have been very good to me.

The wife just came by to give me something, and informed me that her husband had passed a couple of weeks ago. He was ninty, but in quite good health.

I am shocked and sad. But I really want to do whatever I can to help the widow, as it is her great loss.

When your spouse passed, what did others do that was most helpful to you?

I greatly appreciate any advice you have. Thanks so much.