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redstatebluegirl

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27. I got an email this morning from one of my former students who is working in the chicago area.
Fri Jul 8, 2016, 01:04 PM
Jul 2016

She said she didn't know what to do. Three middle aged white guys in her office were standing around her cubicle making all kinds of racist comments, saying they should "round them all up and send them back to Africa", then pointing to her and saying "she is one of them". She is terrified. she has been followed home by the police at least twice in the last month, they stop her as she gets close to her home and ask her what she is doing there. She LIVES there! Yes it is a white neighborhood, but she is a professional and LIVES there!

I suggested she talk to HR, but I reminded her, as her Mother did, that the outcome could be worse than she wants to deal with. I want to go up there and kick some ass right now. This is a young wife and mother, she graduated from a top school, she is a fabulous human being I would be proud to have as my daughter.

When people want to know WHY Black people are terrified of the police, why they distrust most white people, they need to sit down and talk to my Shandra. I just want to go give her a hug and tell it will be ok, even though I know it will get a lot worse before it gets better. She has 3 little boys, she is terrified for their safety. She worries about her husband driving to and from his job as a student services administrator at a college.

Last night she called me and said "please let this not be a Black guy or this is going to be a mess"! This is a strong woman who feels helpless, I heard it in her voice last night and could sense it in her emails today.

I cannot begin to imagine what it is like for her, but my heart hurts for her and all Black people today and every day.

Not all white people are the enemy but i understand why we are seen that way. With Rush Limbaugh, Hannity and Trump how could we not be seen that way.

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Congressman Joe Walsh tweet: CrispyQ Jul 2016 #1
Walsh is just whoring for attention, nothing more... Blue_Tires Jul 2016 #29
Only an idiot would ask a grieving mother such a question. nt jonno99 Jul 2016 #2
Oh Bullshit..... BronxBoy Jul 2016 #3
THIS PDittie Jul 2016 #5
.... rbrnmw Jul 2016 #6
Exactly. If you talk to any black person 28 or older the main thing they'll tell you is that they craigmatic Jul 2016 #7
Holy damn that's a sweeping statement... Blue_Tires Jul 2016 #12
What's so sweeping about it?.... BronxBoy Jul 2016 #19
It happens to be true though lunatica Jul 2016 #26
Huge thumbs up to you BronxBoy NoMoreRepugs Jul 2016 #10
I didn't drop this in the lap of "Black America", chief Blue_Tires Jul 2016 #11
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BronxBoy and Blue_tires - Duplicate message from a host JustAnotherGen Jul 2016 #20
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Ok... BronxBoy Jul 2016 #21
I know - and I JustAnotherGen Jul 2016 #23
Very well stated! RickHworth Jul 2016 #14
I know as a collective it is generally white americans turning a blind eye on this MillennialDem Jul 2016 #15
Well said!! moonbeam23 Jul 2016 #22
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I seriously think you need to change the title of this post markj757 Jul 2016 #8
Agreed. Effectively a bait-and-switch title that is offensive and in extremely poor taste. Bernardo de La Paz Jul 2016 #9
If Skinner asks me to do so, I will Blue_Tires Jul 2016 #30
Post Title Is Fine JustAnotherGen Jul 2016 #31
Group Host - If it is offensive JustAnotherGen Jul 2016 #32
What are you talking about.....making trouble back here? markj757 Jul 2016 #33
Your response to this too JustAnotherGen Jul 2016 #35
I'm afrraid for America heaven05 Jul 2016 #13
I am too JustAnotherGen Jul 2016 #24
I'm afraid there was already a petition to the WH to label BLM a terrorist organization. liberalnarb Jul 2016 #17
I can't believe they asked that woman that JustAnotherGen Jul 2016 #25
I got an email this morning from one of my former students who is working in the chicago area. redstatebluegirl Jul 2016 #27
Exactly. Even many of my white friends and colleagues have admitted that this will set the movement Liberal_Stalwart71 Jul 2016 #28
And yet.... BronxBoy Jul 2016 #37
You got it! Yep! Liberal_Stalwart71 Jul 2016 #40
I'm not capable of changing the mind of even one bigoted person lostnfound Jul 2016 #41
I know. Talking directly does not help treestar Jul 2016 #44
"What's point of reading fiction if you don't learn anything from i lostnfound Jul 2016 #45
great teen you have! treestar Jul 2016 #46
I'm so damned tired of "race" dividing us. xfundy Jul 2016 #34
Some of us don't have the luxury JustAnotherGen Jul 2016 #36
No JI7 Jul 2016 #39
Now it's all about the police and how they feel under attack Ligyron Jul 2016 #38
I've already seen a self pitying treestar Jul 2016 #43
for those who make bigoted generalizations treestar Jul 2016 #42
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