What do you miss about religion?

[missingthebigdog]

58. The ability to comfort other people.

I have spent most of my adult life away from the church, and get along just fine, aside from the occasional awkwardness when someone invokes god when thanking me for something- "god must have guided me to your office," or worse- "I am so glad to have someone of faith working on my problem."

But I was on the elevator at the hospital once, on my way home from visiting my mother. Another woman was also there, and she was visibly upset. I felt bad for her, and wanted to reach out, but could not find words. The elevator doors opened, and another lady stepped in. She took one look at the woman, touched her arm, and said, "let me pray with you."

It still brings tears to my eyes; it was so pure and kind and perfect. It didn't matter that I don't believe- they did, and had an instant connection.