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[murielm99]

1. I should add this:

This sudden death is bringing back a lot of drama for me. I lost my first husband when I was 27. He, too, was older than me. He had an ex who tried to take everything from me. She lost. When her children got older, they reached out to me. They knew she had been wrong.

I have been married to my second husband for thirty-six years. He is a good man. We love each other, and have raised three fine children. But being ill, and having all these memories resurface has been a challenge. The parallels, in many ways, are spooky. My daughter is a lot like me.