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Bereavement

DeadLetterOffice

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1. If it's her money

Reply to Hoppy (Original post)

Sun Mar 20, 2016, 11:11 AM

Mar 2016

that will be spent on the casket, and it is what she still wishes (worth checking with her to see, she may not want it anymore at that price), then she has the right to spend it as she sees fit, even if you (and I, honestly) think it's a bit ridiculous.

If it's your money that would make up the difference, that's a slightly different issue. Perhaps a similar casket that isn't 3K more than what she originally chose?

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My mom turned 97 last month. In 1998, she paid 7K for a pre-paid funeral plan. [View all] Hoppy Mar 2016 OP

If it's her money DeadLetterOffice Mar 2016 #1

Unfortunately, she has demintia and would not be able to communicate wishes. Hoppy Mar 2016 #2

Caskets aren't really that expensive Uben Mar 2016 #3

My last wish is to be cremated in a cardboard box angstlessk Mar 2016 #4

Funeral costs are horrendous. I speak from the view of someone who worked auntAgonist Mar 2016 #5

One word: AZ Jim Mar 2016 #6

First of all Jim, auntAgonist Mar 2016 #9

i think if you can afford it, and it won't cause you any undo hardship, orleans Mar 2016 #7

I think you're right in all of your observation and comment. n/t auntAgonist Mar 2016 #10

Is it possible to "negotiate" with the funeral home re price of the casket? No Vested Interest Mar 2016 #8

If you can get the model number for the original casket it might be possible to find it cheaper auntAgonist Mar 2016 #11

My guess is that your mother's choice of that particular casket took into account Tanuki Mar 2016 #12