Bereavement

maryallen

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223. Terribly sorry.

Wed Mar 11, 2020, 01:18 AM

Mar 2020

My daughter was killed in an automobile accident when she was 17. You never get over it, but as time passes, the pain does not dominate every waking moment of your life. If you have other children, you realize that they need you, so you gradually heal and slowly learn how to carry on.

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My son passed [View all] ChazII Mar 2020 OP

My deepest condolences. 50 Shades Of Blue Mar 2020 #1

I am so sorry for your loss. essaynnc Mar 2020 #2

My deepest sympathy on your loss. CrispyQ Mar 2020 #3

I am so deeply sorry.😔 dewsgirl Mar 2020 #4

I'm so sorry for your loss. MelissaB Mar 2020 #5

So very sorry LiberalBrooke Mar 2020 #6

Sending you my deepest sympathies... and virtual hugs. InAbLuEsTaTe Mar 2020 #7

Oh I am so sorry, Kali Mar 2020 #8

Condolences, ChazII on the loss of your beloved son. gademocrat7 Mar 2020 #9

I am so sorry pandr32 Mar 2020 #10

I'm so sorry for your loss. My sympathy to you, the family and all livetohike Mar 2020 #11

I am so sorry. May you find the strength to persevere. LoisB Mar 2020 #12

My deepest sympathy and condolences, dear ChazII Leghorn21 Mar 2020 #13

So hard to see one's child pass. So sorry empedocles Mar 2020 #14

So sorry for you and your family. Paz RestoreAmerica2020 Mar 2020 #15

i'm so sorry. barbtries Mar 2020 #16

✨✨Hugs✨✨ OhNo-Really Mar 2020 #17

Deepest sympathies to you and your family. Duncan Grant Mar 2020 #18

Oh God vercetti2021 Mar 2020 #19

My condolences Faux pas Mar 2020 #20

virtual hugs cyclonefence Mar 2020 #21

So very sorry to hear this. TruckFump Mar 2020 #22

So sorry for your loss, hoping you can find peace. ancianita Mar 2020 #23

I'm so sorry Bettie Mar 2020 #24

So sorry Jarqui Mar 2020 #25

damn, I am so sorry for your loss RT Atlanta Mar 2020 #26

I am so sorry. I can't imagine the pain you're going through. AJT Mar 2020 #27

I am very sorry. madaboutharry Mar 2020 #28

I'm so sorry. SunSeeker Mar 2020 #29

So sorry. matt819 Mar 2020 #30

My sincere condolences. Mr.Bill Mar 2020 #31

I'm so sorry, I can't imagine losing a son. Ohiogal Mar 2020 #32

I am sorry for your loss Stuart G Mar 2020 #33

I'm so very sorry janterry Mar 2020 #34

I'm so sorry wryter2000 Mar 2020 #35

I'm so, so sorry. CaptainTruth Mar 2020 #36

I'm sorry for your loss as a parent myself. I can't imagine what yonder Mar 2020 #37

So, so sorry. democrank Mar 2020 #38

Hard to imagine anything harder than a mother to lose her child. I am so sorry you FailureToCommunicate Mar 2020 #39

Our deepest condolences flying-skeleton Mar 2020 #40

Deep condolences Richard D Mar 2020 #41

My heart aches for you. True Blue American Mar 2020 #45

I wish I could say or do something for you Botany Mar 2020 #42

Holding you and your family in the Light. TygrBright Mar 2020 #43

I am so sorry. Maraya1969 Mar 2020 #44

My deepest condolences, Chaz. SergeStorms Mar 2020 #46

I am so sorry. emmaverybo Mar 2020 #47

So very, very sorry for your loss. Freedomofspeech Mar 2020 #48

My deepest condolences. ohtransplant Mar 2020 #49

I am sorry you have lost your son. AllyCat Mar 2020 #50

So sorry. SammyWinstonJack Mar 2020 #51

Thinking of you and your family 💫 MLAA Mar 2020 #52

I am so sorry Chainfire Mar 2020 #53

I'm so sorry! redwitch Mar 2020 #54

Hugs to you and your family lunatica Mar 2020 #55

I'm so sorry. Condolences to you and your family. dawg day Mar 2020 #56

My Deepest Condolences to You OldManTarHeel Mar 2020 #57

SO sorry to hear bucolic_frolic Mar 2020 #58

so very sorry handmade34 Mar 2020 #59

Aw, I'm so sorry for your loss. AirmensMom Mar 2020 #60

Lost my son 10 years ago. I know what you're going thru. Butterflylady Mar 2020 #61

Omg I'm so sorry. PCIntern Mar 2020 #62

I am so touched you chose to share this with us. tavernier Mar 2020 #63

Bless your heart... Raster Mar 2020 #64

So sorry Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin Mar 2020 #65

So sorry to hear this Drifter Mar 2020 #66

My heart weeps for your loss of your son. riverbendviewgal Mar 2020 #67

And Neil Peart, the drummer and lyricist for Rush ms liberty Mar 2020 #197

Thank you for caring riverbendviewgal Mar 2020 #235

I am so sorry for your loss. brer cat Mar 2020 #68

I am so very sorry for your loss. onecaliberal Mar 2020 #69

Have had your message up in a tab for a while Mersky Mar 2020 #70

Words cannot express my sorrow for you. colorado_ufo Mar 2020 #71

Keep us posted on his progress. Duppers Mar 2020 #101

So kind, thank you! colorado_ufo Mar 2020 #167

Yes, please keep us posted ChazII Mar 2020 #206

I'm so very sorry. catbyte Mar 2020 #72

Deepest Condolences, I am so sorry for your dreadful loss irisblue Mar 2020 #73

So sorry for your loss ... CatMor Mar 2020 #74

So sorry for your loss zeusdogmom Mar 2020 #75

I'm sorry, and thank you for your courage in donating his brain. LisaM Mar 2020 #76

I'm so very sorry for your loss dlk Mar 2020 #77

So very sorry for your loss still_one Mar 2020 #78

I am so very sorry for byour loss. TwistedTinkerbelle Mar 2020 #79

I'm so sorry my deepest condolences. nt live love laugh Mar 2020 #80

Deepest condolences to you and your family Hekate Mar 2020 #81

I can't even begin to imagine. marble falls Mar 2020 #82

I am so very sorry from the bottom of my heart. FM123 Mar 2020 #83

So very sorry DownriverDem Mar 2020 #84

My deepest condolence vishnura Mar 2020 #85

I'm so, so very sorry. StarryNite Mar 2020 #86

I have no words...just a tears and a heavy heart sdfernando Mar 2020 #87

so sorry to hear this:( Trueblue Texan Mar 2020 #88

I am so very sorry for your loss Fresh_Start Mar 2020 #89

My condolences on your loss. Moostache Mar 2020 #90

I am very sorry. IADEMO2004 Mar 2020 #91

I can only imagine your pain. I am so sorry. Atticus Mar 2020 #92

I am very sorry. murielm99 Mar 2020 #93

Oh my lillypaddle Mar 2020 #94

I am so very sorry for the loss of your beloved son and the difficult siege Tanuki Mar 2020 #95

So very sorry. Duppers Mar 2020 #96

I'm so sorry for your terrible loss. sinkingfeeling Mar 2020 #97

Very sorry for your loss JPPaverage Mar 2020 #98

So very sorry for your loss. Scarsdale Mar 2020 #99

My deepest, most heartfelt condolences to you and yours. flying_wahini Mar 2020 #100

sincerest condolences nt steve2470 Mar 2020 #102

So sorry you son passed angstlessk Mar 2020 #103

I am so sorry ChazII peacebuzzard Mar 2020 #104

I am so sorry KT2000 Mar 2020 #105

I'm sorry for your loss. LaurenOlimina Mar 2020 #106

Chazll, I'm profoundly sorry for your loss. Dem2theMax Mar 2020 #107

I am so sorry for your loss, ChazII. sheshe2 Mar 2020 #108

My deepest sympathy. mfcorey1 Mar 2020 #109

Sorry for your loss. Prosper Mar 2020 #110

Peace and calm on you and your son. SayItLoud Mar 2020 #111

So very sorry, ChazII. Granny M Mar 2020 #112

Deepest condolences, ChazII sarge43 Mar 2020 #113

I'm so sorry Danmel Mar 2020 #114

I am so very sorry for your loss. CaptYossarian Mar 2020 #115

Wishing you peace. peacefreak2.0 Mar 2020 #116

. ismnotwasm Mar 2020 #117

I am so sorry gopiscrap Mar 2020 #118

So very sorry. May you find peace. No Vested Interest Mar 2020 #119

I am so sorry. Jim__ Mar 2020 #120

I'm so sorry, CHAZII. snacker Mar 2020 #121

I'm so sorry Andy Canuck Mar 2020 #122

I am so sorry to read this. thucythucy Mar 2020 #123

Pardon my curiosity ChazII Mar 2020 #137

It was in both hemispheres thucythucy Mar 2020 #143

Jay's tumor was in his thalamus as previous stated ChazII Mar 2020 #173

Parents should never have to bury their own babies.... Bayard Mar 2020 #124

Hugs to you all TEB Mar 2020 #125

Deepest of condolences to you polmaven Mar 2020 #126

Deepest condolences. DonaldsRump Mar 2020 #127

I'm so sorry for your loss. happy feet Mar 2020 #128

He'll live in your heart and soul Harker Mar 2020 #129

I'm so sorry Dukkha Mar 2020 #130

I wish you love and light. My deepest condolences. 58Sunliner Mar 2020 #131

Such a sad loss! PJMcK Mar 2020 #132

Thank you, DU family ChazII Mar 2020 #133

Oh, I Am So Very Sorry DarthDem Mar 2020 #134

My deepest condolences for your loss. greatauntoftriplets Mar 2020 #135

Oh My God I'm so sorry budkin Mar 2020 #136

I am so very sorry. mac56 Mar 2020 #138

Very sorry ... jb5150 Mar 2020 #139

So sorry for your loss Captain Zero Mar 2020 #140

I'm very sorry for your loss. bluedigger Mar 2020 #141

I'm so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you, your family, and your son's friends. keopeli Mar 2020 #142

I am so sorry for your loss, my condolences to you and your family. Mazeltov Cocktail Mar 2020 #144

It's hard to imagine the pain--so sorry panader0 Mar 2020 #145

My heart goes out to you and your family. Hugs. nt iluvtennis Mar 2020 #146

I am so very sorry for your loss Gothmog Mar 2020 #147

I'm so very sorry to hear this. ailsagirl Mar 2020 #148

You have my most sincere condolences. joost5 Mar 2020 #149

My deepest condolences bdamomma Mar 2020 #150

May time begin to heal your broken heart radical noodle Mar 2020 #151

May you and your family find peace. riversedge Mar 2020 #152

Very sorry for you and your famliy. n/t Peregrine Took Mar 2020 #153

Condolences iwannaknow Mar 2020 #154

My heart goes to you and your family. Doreen Mar 2020 #155

So deeply sorry. volstork Mar 2020 #156

I'm so sorry. Chellee Mar 2020 #157

So sorry for your loss. tazkcmo Mar 2020 #158

My deepest sympathy. BadgerMom Mar 2020 #159

May those that grieve be comforted. My condolences on your loss. Backseat Driver Mar 2020 #160

The worst loss for anyone is a child rurallib Mar 2020 #161

Peace to you and your family world wide wally Mar 2020 #162

My most sincere condolences Nac Mac Feegle Mar 2020 #163

I'm very sorry to hear this. NurseJackie Mar 2020 #164

So sorry. FuzzyRabbit Mar 2020 #165

I'm so sorry to hear this. JohnnyLib2 Mar 2020 #166

So sorry to hear of your son's passing. May you be comforted by your family and friends. treefarmers Mar 2020 #168

No words...just hugs N_E_1 for Tennis Mar 2020 #169

My frien's sister had a brain tumor BigmanPigman Mar 2020 #170

Losing a child has to be one of the worst things that can happen to anyone. I have no words. DFW Mar 2020 #171

True. When we were told 15 months to live ChazII Mar 2020 #207

Thinking of you voteearlyvoteoften Mar 2020 #172

Oh, no. So sorry to hear. ramen Mar 2020 #174

We are so sorry Dave in VA Mar 2020 #175

Heartbreaking. Sending empathy and hugs. apcalc Mar 2020 #176

My condolences to you and yours. denbot Mar 2020 #177

((ChazII)) blm Mar 2020 #178

My heart breaks for your loss,ChazII stuffmatters Mar 2020 #179

I am so sorry. Parents aren't supposed to outlive their children. OregonBlue Mar 2020 #180

May you find comfort and peace, so sorry for your loss Miigwech Mar 2020 #181

I'm so very sorry for your loss. femmedem Mar 2020 #182

My deepest condolences for you loss Soph0571 Mar 2020 #183

I'm so sorry sellitman Mar 2020 #184

Sending love cp Mar 2020 #185

I'm so sorry for your loss. LiberalLoner Mar 2020 #186

My condolences... Uben Mar 2020 #187

I am so sorry! raging moderate Mar 2020 #188

Oh, man, ChazII ... I'm so sorry to hear this. calimary Mar 2020 #189

I lost a son in 1993. The hurt never go away, but it does Dustlawyer Mar 2020 #190

I lost my 25 year old son locks Mar 2020 #191

Oh Lord, I am so sorry for you and your family. Fla Dem Mar 2020 #192

I'm so sorry DesertRat Mar 2020 #193

I am so sorry. warmfeet Mar 2020 #194

I am so sorry iamateacher Mar 2020 #195

So sorry... mithnanthy Mar 2020 #196

And Neil Peart, the drummer and lyricist for Rush, who died Jan 7, 2020 ms liberty Mar 2020 #198

I can barely imagine your pain. Pacifist Patriot Mar 2020 #199

My deepest condolences The Polack MSgt Mar 2020 #200

(((hugs))) samnsara Mar 2020 #201

There are no words for the loss of a child. Frustratedlady Mar 2020 #202

Deepest condolences and peace to you and your family, Chaz. skylucy Mar 2020 #203

I'm so sorry. I'll say a prayer for your family. Ilsa Mar 2020 #204

My sympathies as well. ON THE PLUS SIDE.. AZ8theist Mar 2020 #205

It is good to hear that Barrow was ChazII Mar 2020 #208

They cured me. AZ8theist Mar 2020 #217

(((Hugs))) bless you for donating Sea Turtle Mar 2020 #209

I am so sorry for your loss. (eom) StevieM Mar 2020 #210

I am sorry jimlup Mar 2020 #211

I am so so sorry for your loss Tumbulu Mar 2020 #212

I am so sorry for your loss Dan Mar 2020 #213

I am so sorry ChazII. montana_hazeleyes Mar 2020 #214

Sincere condolences to you and your family, ChazII. pazzyanne Mar 2020 #215

So sorry to hear this peggysue2 Mar 2020 #216

Oh man, ChazzII, wishing you comfort and peace mahina Mar 2020 #218

My condolences. nt Progressive Jones Mar 2020 #219

My deepest condolences.... Heartstrings Mar 2020 #220

I'm sorry for your loss. samir.g Mar 2020 #221

I'm so very sorry. cate94 Mar 2020 #222

Terribly sorry. maryallen Mar 2020 #223

I am an only child and Jay was also an only child. ChazII Mar 2020 #237

I am so, so sorry to hear this wackadoo wabbit Mar 2020 #224

All of the hugs ChazII Mar 2020 #238

May he rest in power. MrScorpio Mar 2020 #225

I'm so sorry. Squinch Mar 2020 #226

Heartfelt condolences to you and everyone who loved him... PAMod Mar 2020 #227

So sorry snowybirdie Mar 2020 #228

So sorry, a tragic loss Meowmee Mar 2020 #229

I am so sorry for your loss and his suffering. no_hypocrisy Mar 2020 #230

I'm so very sorry for this terrible loss. Jane Austin Mar 2020 #231

My sincerest condolences on your loss. CentralMass Mar 2020 #232

My sincere condolences for your loss. Dennis Donovan Mar 2020 #233

I am so sorry for your loss. Tarheel_Dem Mar 2020 #234

Too sad malaise Mar 2020 #236

I am so sorry for your loss. denvine Mar 2020 #239

Deep condolenes and cilla4progress Mar 2020 #240

Words fall so short of being comforting, or even useful. BobTheSubgenius Mar 2020 #241

Your words, Bob, do bring comfort. ChazII Mar 2020 #242